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Are we over the annual poppy thread?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    I think somebody who is motivated to post this has plenty of 'fiddlers' to give,' to be honest.

    Not really, I'm not that much of a soccer fan - and even less of a WBA fan. Too much diving and cheating, and not enough goals.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,761 ✭✭✭storker


    So what are you guys doing on this 'free debate' so? Trying to stifle it.

    Where did I try to stifle debate? Please provide an exact quote.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    Scrutiny, from the Latin 'to search'.
    I searched your post for the absence of 'fiddlers' and my conclusion is that you do indeed give plenty fiddlers.

    Just my opinion.

    Really, it's my conclusion I don't......who do you think knows more about whether I really give an actual flying fiddlers about who wears/doesn't wear a poppy.

    Players can wear or not if they like.......likewise anyone else in or out of the public eye. if their employer has a corporate policy on the point then, if they don't agree, they can raise it with them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,692 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    storker wrote: »
    Where did I try to stifle debate? Please provide an exact quote.

    eh, by objecting to people taking offence.

    Yeh, I know this offence thing is a ridiculously circular argument.

    You get offended by all the people taking offence and around and around we go.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,692 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    Jawgap wrote: »
    Really, it's my conclusion I don't......who do you think knows more about whether I really give an actual flying fiddlers about who wears/doesn't wear a poppy.

    Players can wear or not if they like.......likewise anyone else in or out of the public eye. if their employer has a corporate policy on the point then, if they don't agree, they can raise it with them.

    'Know thyself and to thine self be true', seems apt here, because I don't think thy know thou self tbh.

    Somebody who doesn't 'give a fiddlers' would not be on a thread questioning him,
    Isn't he making quite a lot of money playing a "garrison sport" for a club with Albion in its name??


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    'Know thyself and to thine self be true', seems apt here, because I don't think thy know thou self tbh.

    Somebody who doesn't 'give a fiddlers' would not be on a thread questioning him,

    Yeah, I think I do know myself actually......but continue anyway.

    As for McLean......was he posting on this thread? And if not, how did I question him?

    Look, let me sum this up for you. McLean can wear or not wear a poppy or whatever he wants - I really don't care. Just because I point something out it doesn't necessarily mean I care. If the person had originally mentioned Bosco wearing a poppy instead of his red hair and rosy red cheeks, I might have added something on that theme - it doesn't mean I'm actually bothered by Bosco.
    bosco.jpg


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,761 ✭✭✭storker


    eh, by objecting to people taking offence.

    Yeh, I know this offence thing is a ridiculously circular argument.

    You get offended by all the people taking offence and around and around we go.

    No, it's not circular, because I'm not taking offence. I can see why it would suit you for that to be the case, but it isn't. Still, it's interesting and I suspect, illuminating, to note that you seem to have no concept of "disagreement" without "offense". For one thing, you're making the case that engaging in debate actually...er...stifles debate. Not very convincing. In the second place, you're just indulging in a form of the Tu Quoque fallacy i.e. "but you're doing it too!"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,692 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    Jawgap wrote: »
    Yeah, I think I do know myself actually......but continue anyway.

    As for McLean......was he posting on this thread? And if not, how did I question him?

    Look, let me sum this up for you. McLean can wear or not wear a poppy or whatever he wants - I really don't care. Just because I point something out it doesn't necessarily mean I care. If the person had originally mentioned Bosco wearing a poppy instead of his red hair and rosy red cheeks, I might have added something on that theme - it doesn't mean I'm actually bothered by Bosco.


    :)

    We can stick to the confines of Hamlet to deal with that answer,
    'Methinks the' poster 'doth protest too much'.

    You care enough to be on the thread questioning the man's motives for doing something you claim you don't care if he does it or not.

    Why can you not just be honest about it. Churlish to say the least. Enjoy your lunch.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,692 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    storker wrote: »
    No, it's not circular, because I'm not taking offence. I can see why it would suit you for that to be the case, but it isn't. Still, it's interesting and I suspect, illuminating, to note that you seem to have no concept of "disagreement" without "offense". For one thing, you're making the case that engaging in debate actually...er...stifles debate. Not very convincing. In the second place, you're just indulging in a form of the Tu Quoque fallacy i.e. "but you're doing it too!"

    Have you engaged in the debate?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    :)

    We can stick to the confines of Hamlet to deal with that answer,
    'Methinks the' poster 'doth protest too much'.

    You care enough to be on the thread questioning the man's motives for doing something you claim you don't care if he does it or not.

    Why can you not just be honest about it. Churlish to say the least. Enjoy your lunch.

    again....not protesting.....if you choose to read posts that way thats up to you.

    These threads (and boards in general) are just a distraction (does anyone actually take any of this sh1te seriously?) - its a choice of muck about on here or do work.....actually, I am working, but I can multi-task!!

    ......and yes I don't care what McLean wears or doesn't wear. I do care, a bit, that he knocks goals in for us, after that do what he wants, as far as I'm concerned.

    Incidentally, you're the one that keeps bringing him up.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    Have you engaged in the debate?

    This isn't a debate - its boards.ie :D:D:D


  • Posts: 4,896 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Jawgap wrote: »
    I couldn't give a fiddlers if a footballer, a newsreader, me Ma, me Da or me auntie Mary chooses to wear or not wear a poppy.

    So you’ve abandoned your rather obtuse line about James McClean playing a ‘foreign sport’ and that somehow affects his poppy stance then I take it?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    So you’ve abandoned your rather obtuse line about James McClean playing a ‘foreign sport’ and that somehow affects his poppy stance then I take it?

    Oh dear......they take the world so literally.

    Soccer is a foreign sport in Ireland......just because it's a mass particpation activity doesn't change its history and where it's home is



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,875 ✭✭✭A Little Pony


    Jawgap wrote: »
    Unfortunately, as long as you have the 'I will wear it and I don't care who it offends....' attitude persisting and rising in voice  then the entire effort to make it a sombre and reflective symbol is completely undermined.

    That is the problem and that is why you see these annual threads and the shameful attempts to silence anyone who objects - however funny those who are attempting to silence think they are being. (Poppy bingo etc) All they are doing is demonstrating that they are the major part of the problem.
    Personally I think they devalue the whole project.

    Yes, I will. I will wear my enamelled Irish poppy, discretely, on the lapel of my suit from about next Monday.

    Believe it or not, you have no right to be not offended. If something offends you then either put up with it, or remove yourself from the situation.

    Spot on reply. You take offense, you don't get given it. To say if someone finds it offensive and you continue to wear it is part of the problem is clearly nonsense.


  • Posts: 4,896 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Jawgap wrote: »
    Oh dear......they take the world so literally.

    Soccer is a foreign sport in Ireland......just because it's a mass particpation activity doesn't change its history and where it's home is

    I’d reject the notion of ‘foreign’ tbh. McClean could play cricket or polo if he liked but if he still had the same stance on the poppy I’d accept it. You were insinuating otherwise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,761 ✭✭✭storker


    Have you engaged in the debate?

    I'm currently engaged in a debate about whether disagreement connotes offense. I'm surprised you needed to ask...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,810 ✭✭✭✭evolving_doors


    Jawgap wrote: »
    This isn't a debate - its boards.ie :D:D:D

    OP here... seems like it's a meta-debate about the debate.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    I’d reject the notion of ‘foreign’ tbh. McClean could play cricket or polo if he liked but if he still had the same stance on the poppy I’d accept it. You were insinuating otherwise.

    Again, someone else who claims to know my thinking :rolleyes:

    Incidentally, on the question of whether soccer/football is foreign to Ireland......
    England was the first country where the game was developed and codified. The modern global game of Football was first codified in 1863 in London. The impetus for this was to unify English public school and university football games. There is evidence for refereed, team football games being played in English schools since at least 1581.

    ......and from FIFA.....
    The contemporary history of the world's favourite game spans more than 100 years. It all began in 1863 in England, when rugby football and association football branched off on their different courses and the Football Association in England was formed - becoming the sport's first governing body.

    ......it doesn't mean we can't enjoy it or be good at it in the same way we can easily enjoy and succeed at other foreign sports such as rugby, golf, hockey, cricket and even polo.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,761 ✭✭✭storker


    Jawgap wrote: »
    Oh dear......they take the world so literally.

    Soccer is a foreign sport in Ireland......just because it's a mass particpation activity doesn't change its history and where it's home is

    I don't think soccer is a foreign sport anywhere*. Its popularity and ubiquity means it now belongs to all nations and none, regardless of its origins. An England team song or even a sense of ownership on the part of English people doesn't change that.




    *OK, maybe in the US. :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    storker wrote: »
    I don't think soccer is a foreign sport anywhere*. Its popularity and ubiquity means it now belongs to all nations and none, regardless of its origins. An England team song or even a sense of ownership on the part of English people doesn't change that.




    *OK, maybe in the US. :D

    Yes, I own my car....but it doesn't change the fact it was imported.

    And yes, soccer is very much the world game (even if there is only a World Cup and not a World Series* :)).....but for little over half its history thus far the GAA defined soccer as an imported game. Thankfully, times - for most of us - have moved on



    *......and yes I know the post-regular season baseball competition in the US is named after the paper that sponsored it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,692 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    When we talk about sombre and respectful remembrance and how it is being hijacked, it is always relevant to read this plaintive and fair assessment of the fiasco the whole poppy charade is becoming.
    Harry Leslie Smith declared in 2014 that he would never again wear a red poppy. He first went to Remembrance Sunday in 1928. Now 94, he says: "I don't remember whether people wore poppies but they wore their grief like jagged glass."

    OVER THE LAST 10 years the sepia tone of November has become blood-soaked with paper poppies festooning the lapels of our politicians, newsreaders and business leaders. The most fortunate in our society have turned the solemnity of remembrance for fallen soldiers in ancient wars into a justification for our most recent armed conflicts. The American civil war's General Sherman once said that "war is hell", but unfortunately today's politicians in Britain use past wars to bolster our flagging belief in national austerity or to compel us to surrender our rights as citizens, in the name of the public good.

    Still, this year I shall wear the poppy as I have done for many years. I wear it because I am from that last generation who remember a war that encompassed the entire world. I wear the poppy because I can recall when Britain was actually threatened with a real invasion and how its citizens stood at the ready to defend her shores. But most importantly, I wear the poppy to commemorate those of my childhood friends and comrades who did not survive the second world war and those who came home physically and emotionally wounded from horrific battles that no poet or journalist could describe.

    However, I am afraid it will be the last time that I will bear witness to those soldiers, airmen and sailors who are no more, at my local cenotaph. From now on, I will lament their passing in private because my despair is for those who live in this present world. I will no longer allow my obligation as a veteran to remember those who died in the great wars to be co-opted by current or former politicians to justify our folly in Iraq, our morally dubious war on terror and our elimination of one's right to privacy.

    Come 2014 when the government marks the beginning of the first world war with quotes from Rupert Brooke, Rudyard Kipling and other great jingoists from our past empire, I will declare myself a conscientious objector. We must remember that the historical past of this country is not like an episode of Downton Abbey where the rich are portrayed as thoughtful, benevolent masters to poor folk who need the guiding hand of the ruling classes to live a proper life.

    I can tell you it didn't happen that way because I was born nine years after the first world war began. I can attest that life for most people was spent in abject poverty where one laboured under brutal working conditions for little pay and lived in houses not fit to kennel a dog today. We must remember that the war was fought by the working classes who comprised 80% of Britain's population in 1913.

    This is why I find that the government's intention to spend £50m to dress the slaughter of close to a million British soldiers in the 1914-18 conflict as a fight for freedom and democracy profane. Too many of the dead, from that horrendous war, didn't know real freedom because they were poor and were never truly represented by their members of parliament.

    My uncle and many of my relatives died in that war and they weren't officers or NCOs; they were simple Tommies. They were like the hundreds of thousands of other boys who were sent to their slaughter by a government that didn't care to represent their citizens if they were working poor and under-educated. My family members took the king's shilling because they had little choice, whereas many others from similar economic backgrounds were strong-armed into enlisting by war propaganda or press-ganged into military service by their employers.

    For many of you 1914 probably seems like a long time ago but I'll be 91 next year, so it feels recent. Today, we have allowed monolithic corporate institutions to set our national agenda. We have allowed vitriol to replace earnest debate and we have somehow deluded ourselves into thinking that wealth is wisdom. But by far the worst error we have made as a people is to think ourselves as taxpayers first and citizens second.

    Next year, I won't wear the poppy but I will until my last breath remember the past and the struggles my generation made to build this country into a civilised state for the working and middle classes. If we are to survive as a progressive nation we have to start tending to our living because the wounded: our poor, our underemployed youth, our hard-pressed middle class and our struggling seniors shouldn't be left to die on the battleground of modern life.


  • Posts: 4,896 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Jawgap wrote: »
    Again, someone else who claims to know my thinking.

    Nice if you would clarify the following then:
    But I just wonder at why the mouth breathers laud McLean's stand so much when he's playing a foreign sport?

    Thanks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    Nice if you would clarify the following then:



    Thanks.

    It's a question.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    When we talk about sombre and respectful remembrance and how it is being hijacked, it is always relevant to read this plaintive and fair assessment of the fiasco the whole poppy charade is becoming.

    So you're ok with people wearing a poppy as long as it's done respectfully and keeping in tone with the sombre mood that should prevail?

    Or do you find offence in that also?


  • Posts: 4,896 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Jawgap wrote: »
    It's a question.

    Ah now Jawgap you know its alot more than that........;)

    Also one of your quotes re football speaks of a global game. I personally despise the word ‘foreign’. It always carries negative connotations imo.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,692 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    Jawgap wrote: »
    So you're ok with people wearing a poppy as long as it's done respectfully and keeping in tone with the sombre mood that should prevail?

    Or do you find offence in that also?

    You clearly, in your haste, are not reading posts.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    Ah now Jawgap you know its alot more than that........;)

    Also one of your quotes re football speaks of a global game. I personally despise the word ‘foreign’. It always carries negative connotations imo.

    Well in your view maybe it is.....in my view it's just a question.

    Yes, football is global, but it started somewhere and was exported. Oranges exported to Ireland may be eaten and enjoyed here, but they are still a foreign fruit.

    Quite surprised you're not bashing on about soccer being an artefact of British cultural imperialism......
    ‘Support your own games. Don’t mind the skulker and miserable kind of fellow who says, “There’s no game like Soccer”, “No game like Rugby”- in fact, “No game like the game that is my own”. Be men. The skulking slave spirit has got into our people – that is the reason for slavishly following foreign games and customs. Let us be strongly national – that is not bigotry.’


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,296 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    You clearly, in your haste, are not reading posts.

    Short attention span.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,382 ✭✭✭dinorebel


    I'm English but live in Ireland my view of the poppy if you want to wear one wear it, if you don't want to wear one don't but neither position gives you the right to criticize the others stance.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,692 ✭✭✭✭FrancieBrady


    Jawgap wrote: »
    Short attention span.

    Or maybe wilful ignoring.

    But you know yourself best. ;)


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