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"Significant" numbers of babies remains actually found

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 994 ✭✭✭Tilikum


    greenflash wrote: »
    Dying out to the extent that the vast majority of the population get their children christened into the RCC so they can have a place in church controlled schools? I'm sure they couldn't care less about falling mass attendances when education is the real cash cow.

    We won't be christening our kids, and that's a fact.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,581 ✭✭✭Dave_The_Sheep


    ChikiChiki wrote: »
    Thankfully the Catholic Church is dying out.

    Not fast enough.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 92,394 ✭✭✭✭JP Liz V1


    Is it wrong to light a candle and say a prayer for those little angels

    It must be hard for anyone alive who was in that home and who had a child now wondering what happened if their child is dead or alive


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 499 ✭✭greenflash


    JP Liz V1 wrote: »
    Is it wrong to light a candle and say a prayer for those little angels

    A bit more superstitious nonsense is just what's needed right now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,745 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    JP Liz V1 wrote: »
    Is it wrong to light a candle and say a prayer for those little angels
    No, it's not wrong. If it helps you, do it. You're doing no harm and it could well bring peace to the families.

    Personally I'd be more inclined to pray for the nuns. If there is a god, and if that god is half decent then the people involved in the laundries are going to have a bitch of a time in the afterlife.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 268 ✭✭Cdosrun


    This was also on EuroNews just now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,806 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    smurgen wrote: »
    How is this relevant to this thread?

    Do you really have to ask?

    Do you really think anything has changed?

    The religion may have. The ethnicity has not. Despicable is indeed the word for it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,116 ✭✭✭RDM_83 again


    It's on the front page of CNN.com, Lemonde.fr, BBC.co.uk, TheGuardian.com, ElMundo.es and quite a lot of other publications.

    Bad news from other countries always sells better.

    Spain-under facism the relevant time period

    States- Jim Crow for most of it

    France- loads of Vichy officials stayed in power after the war, hell they murdered probably 200 adults in Paris in the 50's and nobody was charged.

    UK- industrial levels of child abuse on a scale close to Ireland back in the day in Rochedale all through the 2000's, papers like the Guardian softballed the story and ignored Mp's like Anne Cryer.

    I am not saying this to excuse it but this has to be placed into a historic context


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,932 ✭✭✭hinault


    Very shocked by the news coming from Tuam

    http://m.independent.ie/irish-news/news/tuam-babies-significant-quantities-of-human-remains-discovered-at-excavation-site-35498856.html

    According to Kitty Holland we are talking about hundreds of remains of babies and toddlers

    Kitty, the paragon of accurate reporting.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,390 ✭✭✭please helpThank YOU


    I know A Women was in the good shepherd convent in Limerick for more than 10 Years as a Child SLAVE and what she told me shocked me than she had WASH AND IRON 100S OF NAVY TROUSERS AND NAVY JACKETS AND BLUE SHIRTS SHE MADE OUT TO ME THE LOOK LIKE GARDA UNIFORMS
    and when I asked this Women how did she end up good shepherd convent she told me she had Large Family and very poor and no room in the house the lived in when the where young Children A Welfare Worker and a priest called to her home and took her away. to be A Child Slave That Lady sued the state and was settled out side the court. but to this day she dos not Trust Government Agencies as the put her in this Hell Hole.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,116 ✭✭✭RDM_83 again


    hinault wrote: »
    Very shocked by the news coming from Tuam

    http://m.independent.ie/irish-news/news/tuam-babies-significant-quantities-of-human-remains-discovered-at-excavation-site-35498856.html

    According to Kitty Holland we are talking about hundreds of remains of babies and toddlers

    Kitty, the paragon of accurate reporting.

    To be fair that may be complely accurate, if the morality rate is X where were they buried


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,390 ✭✭✭please helpThank YOU


    Bad news from other countries always sells better.

    Spain-under facism the relevant time period

    States- Jim Crow for most of it

    France- loads of Vichy officials stayed in power after the war, hell they murdered probably 200 adults in Paris in the 50's and nobody was charged.

    UK- industrial levels of child abuse on a scale close to Ireland back in the day in Rochedale all through the 2000's, papers like the Guardian softballed the story and ignored Mp's like Anne Cryer.

    I am not saying this to excuse it but this has to be placed into a historic context
    Ireland 2017 we have Fine gael government and look what was done to A HERO OF MAN SGT GARDA MAURICE MCCABE


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    infogiver wrote: »
    The parents of the children sent them to the Convents and seminaries.
    There's no point now in pretending that the RCC sent around a "child catcher" van or something.
    Having a child or children in Holy Orders lifted the mother in particular into a higher stratosphere then the other women.
    You could die happy if you had reared a priest, and you could look down your nose at your sister or your neighbor who didn't.
    Irish people were and continue to be almost horrifically snobbish. It used to be having a son a PP and now it's having all the kids at Uni.
    It's only if you live somewhere other then Ireland that you realise this

    It was not just that. If a family had say eight kids, and were poor, a child "given to God" was safe for life. Fed, housed, buried, and more chance for those left at home.

    The srs and priests would visit every home of a Friday, getting money adn asking which of your children are you giving to God?

    I met the last of one family of SEVEN, all of them priests, brs or sisters. That too was common. The dire poverty made for this.

    It was not really snobbery but practicality. We can hardly imagine the utter desperation of families.

    I was in rural Ireland in the 70s. Called at a farm and there was a whole gaggle of barefoot kids standing round the table, taking turns with spoons from a tin of baked beans. Their evening meal.

    And of course the plan was to populate the world with priests and nuns from Ireland. That was started immediately after the famine.

    And had an effect on the population size and demographics here. Took a while generation of marriageable women out of the picture and left us with a generation of crusty old bachelors.

    Population is only just starting to exceed post famine levels.

    Need to look far further than snobbery !l


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,232 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    hinault wrote: »
    Kitty, the paragon of accurate reporting.

    She's not wrong

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    greenflash wrote: »
    A bit more superstitious nonsense is just what's needed right now.

    Faith and love are not ever superstition. They are simply.. faith and love and a need to show that.

    Old saying. "Better to light a candle than rage at the darkness."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Makes me sick, that scum organisation. The fact that people still go to their churches is just incredible. My mind f*cking boggles. Support these paedophiles and murderers. They should be burned to the ground every last Catholic organisation on this island.

    That is ......stooopoid people go to mass for many reasons; there is not an organisation in this world that is pure and free of abuse.

    Anger is also stoopid. Affects only you.

    I know many good folk within the church who are hurting as much as you are and as much as I am. And that trust me is a huge amount.

    Jesus is not the Church not is the Church Jesus.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,390 ✭✭✭please helpThank YOU


    Just to say all Nuns are not bad .there is Good Ones and sum of them have being Victims like sisters of mercy Nora Wall Wrongfully Convicted of Rape.Nora Wall Paul Wililams Sunday world libel Sunday world apology


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,849 ✭✭✭professore


    seamus wrote: »
    Yes, of course. But the mortality rates in these homes were 2 - 3 times the national average.

    In a place that was masquerading as a care home for mothers and children, a child mortality rate that's multiples of the national average can only happen if there was severe, even deliberate mistreatment of the residents.

    5 times in this particular home according to RTE news. The woman who did this research did a thorough and fantastic job.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    carolinej wrote: »
    Truly shocking, horrendous & deeply heart breaking. I just cannot understand the mindset of those nuns tasked with looking after children and their mother's who were alone, far from home, scared & vulnerable, and why these "brides of God" were so so cruel and heartless to the plight of innocent babies. I just cannot fathom or get my head around it.

    Anytime I pick up a baby, all I want to do is cuddle & protect. As women, where was their maternal loving & nurturing? Did they leave it at the gate when they took their vows, were they bitter they were nuns and would have preferred to be married? Was it a power trip over unmarried mothers who were shunned by family. Why Why Why and Yet, not all families banished their daughter to M&B homes.

    I have a relation who had a baby back in the 1960's and she was neither sent to a home or had to give the baby up. She reared him at home with her family until she married herself and husband took on her child as his own. And this happened in rural 1960's Irl. She had several uncles who were priests and a cousin who was a nun (who was buried in Goldengate cemetery, my parents were at her funeral, said it was a horrible place) so maybe on some level it was known if she was sent away the baby would be given up for adoption. I don't know.

    Remember the nuns were young women from poor families with little or no education and they had any emotion knocked out of them in the novitiate by harridans there.
    The dire poverty of their families sent them to the convents. Not vocation as we know it.

    And Holy Obedience when misused and abused is a powerful weapon.

    And Sr who objected was shunned or cast out ie they were abused massively. And if they got thrown out?
    Nowhere to go excpt the streets


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,849 ✭✭✭professore


    Ireland 2017 we have Fine gael government and look what was done to A HERO OF MAN SGT GARDA MAURICE MCCABE

    If you think any other party would have done anything differently then you are sadly mistaken.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,849 ✭✭✭professore


    smurgen wrote: »
    And some posters here trying to pass it off as a storm in a tea cup.

    It's dreadful.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    jimgoose wrote: »
    That priest should have been dragged by the head of hair from the church and strung up by his ankes from an ESB pole for a couple of days. :mad:

    Oh very civilised! Very adult! NOT! As bad as them .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    juno10353 wrote: »
    If this burial site is confirmed to be that of those innocent children who had death certificates signed, what can the religous order responsible for their burial be charged with. I mean by that, what is the law regarding burials. It is horrific what has taken place, but do we have laws to cover it. I sincerely hope so

    It is the neglect . And if there was any violence etc. and what is on the death certs too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 268 ✭✭Cdosrun


    Just to say all Nuns are not bad .there is Good Ones and sum of them have being Victims like sisters of mercy Nora Wall Wrongfully Convicted of Rape.Nora Wall Paul Wililams Sunday world libel Sunday world apology

    The good ones I'v known were good but never stood up to the bad ones.
    I don't know if I blame them realy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    I know the temptation will be to blame the church and religious institutions again, but wider society shares equal blame.

    These mothers and their children were failed by everyone in society including the church, politicians, state bodies, civil servants and their own families.

    Having a baby out of wedlock could at the time bring shame but also attract the worst kind of gossip and ostracisation, perpetrated often by neighbours and ordinary citizens.

    My own view is the politicians of the era up to and including the likes of Devalera must take a large amount of the blame, for giving the church free reign with zero oversight. The reverence shown to the church by politicians went way too far. Only the likes of Noel Browne had the courage to stand up to them. Most of the other politicians were sheep who never raised their voices.

    No, you are wrong in the balance of what you say here. Itis so hard for modern folk to understand the sheer power the Church had then. They owned and ran all the schools, all the hospitals etc; they ran Ireland. Had total power here. Irish folk would absorb the gossip as many did. They were not allowed to by the Church.

    And it will com out now, the scale of the lucrative baby trafficking.

    Too much money too much power and no one stood a chance against them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,205 ✭✭✭✭Zebra3


    Graces7 wrote: »
    Remember the nuns were young women from poor families with little or no education and they had any emotion knocked out of them in the novitiate by harridans there.
    The dire poverty of their families sent them to the convents. Not vocation as we know it.

    And Holy Obedience when misused and abused is a powerful weapon.

    And Sr who objected was shunned or cast out ie they were abused massively. And if they got thrown out?
    Nowhere to go excpt the streets

    Nonsense. Absolute nonsense. My aunt is a nun. Her father paid a small fortune for her to become one, as in a direct payment to the convent. It was her decision to go and hers alone.

    If she'd been thrown out she knew she had a family to return to.

    Stop excusing those who took part in violent acts of terror. It's disgusting.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,849 ✭✭✭professore


    Cdosrun wrote: »
    The good ones I'v known were good but never stood up to the bad ones.
    I don't know if I blame them realy.

    I am sure there were plenty of good Nazis too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,849 ✭✭✭professore


    Graces7 wrote: »
    No, you are wrong in the balance of what you say here. Itis so hard for modern folk to understand the sheer power the Church had then. They owned and ran all the schools, all the hospitals etc; they ran Ireland. Had total power here. Irish folk would absorb the gossip as many did. They were not allowed to by the Church.

    And it will com out now, the scale of the lucrative baby trafficking.

    Too much money too much power and no one stood a chance against them.

    I have to agree. It would be like blaming the citizens of North Korea for their predicament. The church ruled with an iron fist.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    pilly wrote: »
    But who physically threw these babies without sin into a septic tank?

    I agree the are a lot of people to blame but in Ireland we're too fond of looking at the "big picture" and have tribunals etc. to end up at a point where the "system" is to blame and not any individual.

    Individual responsibility for our own actions has to come in to being and the only way that will happen is if there's consequences for those actions like jail sentences.

    They were taken out at night and the locals did the actual burying, the kind ones who kept the garden safe but who could not stand against. Sometimes the older boys were involved by order of the nuns and someitmes a priest attended. There are accounts; will find them again

    The sheer scale of this.
    Sure we can condemn the local folk but given how thinsg were?One localman who had been campaigning to get this sorted died only weeks before the story first broke.

    Bessborough in Cork; the gardeners and those who buried the babies put nails in the wall to show where each baby was buried; a code.

    And they prayed; at Tuam,at Bessborough at all the homes. And ther were many


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    pilly wrote: »
    But who physically threw these babies without sin into a septic tank?

    I agree the are a lot of people to blame but in Ireland we're too fond of looking at the "big picture" and have tribunals etc. to end up at a point where the "system" is to blame and not any individual.

    Individual responsibility for our own actions has to come in to being and the only way that will happen is if there's consequences for those actions like jail sentences.

    Oh by the way,if you are apportioning blame? WHAT ABOUT THE FATHERs Of THESE BABIES?

    Where were they?


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