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Romance?

  • 29-10-2005 10:36pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 719 ✭✭✭


    Someone said that there should be more positive threads on boards.ie.
    So I came up with this thread. I want to know what people would do for a romantic day or night with their boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband?

    I would go for a picnic on the beach(my guy lives close to a beach), dance there without music with the wind blowing around us, foam and waves washing over our feet. Then I would sing to him a love song(while dancing), flirt with him(pinch his bum, tickle and wink to him), touch him constantly, rub his shoulders, hug him, stroke his back and kiss him all over his face.. We would sit there for two hours and later the same day we would take a walk in forest etc and set up a tent with him and sleep outside at night. In his arms. Hmmm.. I miss my boyfriend right now!!

    :(


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,277 ✭✭✭✭Rb


    What?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,335 ✭✭✭rugbug86


    rb_ie wrote:
    What?


    was thinking that mysmelf!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Laguna


    Yeah I think I get what you mean about a romance thread Vangelis, your whole post was overly romantic! :D

    Do couples actually.... do.. the stuff you said in your post, it sounds like it's been lifted straight out of a Leonardo Di Caprio movie.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,335 ✭✭✭rugbug86


    i'm sure that someone somewhere does actually do that, but well, not here


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,783 ✭✭✭Binomate


    Candle lit dominoes pizza, shag, give her her bus money.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,335 ✭✭✭rugbug86


    Binomate wrote:
    give her her bus money.

    nice touch :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,783 ✭✭✭Binomate


    rugbug86 wrote:
    nice touch :rolleyes:
    What can I say, I know how to please.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Laguna


    Binomate wrote:
    Candle lit dominoes pizza, shag, give her her bus money.


    Well, if a girl doesn't feel special after that, she doesn't know what romance is ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,397 ✭✭✭✭azezil


    Laguna wrote:
    Do couples actually.... do.. the stuff you said in your post, it sounds like it's been lifted straight out of a Leonardo Di Caprio movie.
    I do... almost have to or I loose interest very quickly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,148 ✭✭✭angelofdeath


    Vangelis wrote:
    ve song(while dancing), flirt with him(pinch his bum, tickle and wink to him), touch him constantly, rub his shoulders, hug him, stroke his back and kiss him all over his face

    girls, quit tickling us and pinching our bums, it's fu,cking annoying ok?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,658 ✭✭✭✭The Sweeper


    Vangelis wrote:
    flirt with him (pinch his bum, tickle and wink to him

    ...you're actually a lad aren't you? Would you follow this flirting up with a rousing chorus of "getchore bits out fer de lads fer de lads"?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 29,930 ✭✭✭✭TerrorFirmer


    Binomate wrote:
    Candle lit dominoes pizza, shag, give her her bus money.

    legend. :p

    Family Guy: Remeber when quagmire has the social worker in his bed, and she asks him a question, and he says hey, I've a got a question for you, why the hell are you still here?

    ;)

    Anyway. What a random thread.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 771 ✭✭✭spiderlegs


    It's too sickeningly romantic...if someone tried to do that with me I'd give them a slap! :rolleyes:


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 9,689 Mod ✭✭✭✭stevenmu


    Isn't romance supposed to be doing something for the other person, not getting them to do what you want ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    Bah. Humbug!

    *Swirls brandy and sneers at the fireplace*


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    That just seems a bit over the top to me. I mean "kiss him all over his face":eek:

    Anyhoo, romance is doing something for the other person. Something unexpected, like organising tickets to a football match, even though you'd rather cut your own throat, or making sure that there are cans of coke chilling in the fridge for when they get home. Small touches.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,334 ✭✭✭OfflerCrocGod


    dudara wrote:
    Anyhoo, romance is doing something for the other person. Something unexpected, like organising tickets to a football match, even though you'd rather cut your own throat, or making sure that there are cans of coke chilling in the fridge for when they get home. Small touches.
    No that sounds more like housework/chores then romance. Back to the kitchen with you your man need more romantic dinner.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    You'd be amazed at how appreciative a girl can be if you do the dishes for her...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    He does all the cooking!


  • Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 15,001 ✭✭✭✭Pepe LeFrits


    ...you're actually a lad aren't you? Would you follow this flirting up with a rousing chorus of "getchore bits out fer de lads fer de lads"?
    LOL

    Romantic & tickling, interesting idea.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 719 ✭✭✭Vangelis


    My boyfriend actually likes the idea of doing what I wrote.
    Romance means different things to different people. He likes being pinched, ticked and kissed all over his face by me. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,115 ✭✭✭chrismon


    i do romantic things for my girl all the time, sent her flowers last week for no reason, just had "To Steph, Love Chris" wrote on little card, ment alot to her, little things seem to mean the most, sometimes i collect her from her house and not tell her where we going and bring her for romantic night on the town :cool:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Laguna


    Romance does sound like a nice concept, I suppose the reason I poke fun at people who act or say anything overly romantic is because I've never been in love and don't understand where they're coming from.

    Vangelis, I don't know how your boyfriend could say he finds it romantic when he gets pinched though?, by that rationale, does that mean he finds it horny when he gets boxed square in the jaw? :D lol, or maybe he finds its a turn on to have his hair pulled real bad? oh baby!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭trishh


    I think, rather than pinched, she means squeezed. I know my hubby likes it when I rub and squeeze his buttocks. He feels the attention and likes to know that we can have spontaneous moments still ! Even a kiss in the morning is a small thing but keeps the couple thinking of each other, IMO.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 84 ✭✭bagdaddy


    legend. :p

    Family Guy: Remeber when quagmire has the social worker in his bed, and she asks him a question, and he says hey, I've a got a question for you, why the hell are you still here?

    ;)

    Anyway. What a random thread.

    Amazing


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 719 ✭✭✭Vangelis


    Laguna wrote:
    Romance does sound like a nice concept, I suppose the reason I poke fun at people who act or say anything overly romantic is because I've never been in love and don't understand where they're coming from.

    Vangelis, I don't know how your boyfriend could say he finds it romantic when he gets pinched though?, by that rationale, does that mean he finds it horny when he gets boxed square in the jaw? :D lol, or maybe he finds its a turn on to have his hair pulled real bad? oh baby!

    Gosh, NO!! He likes that I flirt with him that way, it's part of the romance between us. He likes being babied too, as when I stroke his hair, his cheeks, kisses his nose and rubs his back as if he was my pet. 'Cause he is my pet! :) My sweet pet. Now don't get me wrong, my guy is a right brave, muscular man with a strong mind; he's not somebody you **** with so to speak. But he has his soft moments too and likes to be squeezed, cuddled with and even tickled.

    I've been in love with him for two years now and my affection towards him hasn't changed. We've come closer and learned about eachother, but that does not mean that the affection is over. I'm so in looooooove my heart pounds and my stomach tickles!!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,382 ✭✭✭petes


    Throw a length in her!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,210 ✭✭✭Tazz T


    I certainly wouldn't like to be down Killiney beach tonight never mind paddling in it singing love songs.

    Take me to a nice warm pub, buy me ten pints of stout, a curry on the way home and let's have an argument about something that's really inconsequential so we can make up in the morning with a good old fashioned shag.

    That's real romance.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,707 ✭✭✭skywalker


    Binomate wrote:
    Candle lit dominoes pizza, shag, give her her bus money.

    Classic. But if you really want to go the extra mile you could always walk her to the bus stop. Nah you dont want to spoil her altogether.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Laguna


    Well... It's reassuring that there's couples out there who behave like Vangelis & her boyfriend, as in an indication that *love* exists, but on the other hand it does make me wretch a little ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 288 ✭✭hepcat


    Vangelis wrote:
    Someone said that there should be more positive threads on boards.ie.
    So I came up with this thread. I want to know what people would do for a romantic day or night with their boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband?

    I would go for a picnic on the beach(my guy lives close to a beach), dance there without music with the wind blowing around us, foam and waves washing over our feet. Then I would sing to him a love song(while dancing), flirt with him(pinch his bum, tickle and wink to him), touch him constantly, rub his shoulders, hug him, stroke his back and kiss him all over his face.. We would sit there for two hours and later the same day we would take a walk in forest etc and set up a tent with him and sleep outside at night. In his arms. Hmmm.. I miss my boyfriend right now!!

    :(


    Are you the girl from the lotto ad, who would buy all the horses and fields and so on?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,719 ✭✭✭Ruaidhri


    I put forward the motion to have Vangelis banned for a week and summarily beaten for this thread!
    <cynicism>
    There is a time and place for this kind of stuff Vangelis, and seriously, it's not on an internet forum. I'm in no way opposed to love,romance or spoiling the f*** outa that someone special, but you know, it's quite personal. wanting to share this little insight of yours is, IMO, totally selfish...
    </cynicism>

    Isnt this a sex/ sexuality issue anyway?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,263 ✭✭✭✭Eoin


    Ruaidhri wrote:
    I put forward the motion to have Vangelis banned for a week and summarily beaten for this thread!
    <cynicism>
    There is a time and place for this kind of stuff Vangelis, and seriously, it's not on an internet forum. I'm in no way opposed to love,romance or spoiling the f*** outa that someone special, but you know, it's quite personal. wanting to share this little insight of yours is, IMO, totally selfish...
    </cynicism>

    Ah now Ruaidhri, don't stamp over the excellent career that may await Vangelis writing for Hallmark cards
    Ruaidhri wrote:
    Isnt this a sex/ sexuality issue anyway?
    Not sure, I don't think any actual nookie was mentioned for the poor fella


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 719 ✭✭✭Vangelis


    Have I offended anyone?

    I did not intend for this to be regarded as some kind of a share-your-sex-experiences-thread. The whores can do that. I just thought it could be positive to make people think of their romantic moments, that's all.

    And Ruaidhri, thanks for sharing your opinion. Duh.. :confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,211 ✭✭✭Royale with Cheese


    Stop posting in this thread, we want it to go away and die.









    Yes I realise how hypocritcal I sound


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,252 ✭✭✭Funkstard


    Bring your girl up to the carpark in Killiney Hill when it's dark. It's the biggest makeout point I've ever seen. That or along Vico road, see the lights down to Bray and hear the waves crashing below you


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 719 ✭✭✭Vangelis


    Some moderator should lock the thread then if you want it to die out.

    "Die! Die! Die!"

    That's not going to help..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,989 ✭✭✭✭Giblet


    Dr J wrote:
    Stop posting in this thread, we want it to go away and die.









    Yes I realise how hypocritcial I sound

    How about you stop posting?
    That's goes for Ruaidhri and rb_ie too.


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