Serial Cheaters

LegacyUser

My name is Dave, and I am a serial cheater.

I have had a long string of girlfriends. I have cheated on them all.

I dont want to. I really try not to, but, yet again last night I ended up in bed with another girl. I try to tell myself that I wont, but invariably I do it. Time and time again.

I am in a job that requires me to be emotionally detached, EMS, but I dont think its the reason. I do really love my girl, but why cant I stop? Are there others like me? Is there a Serial Cheaters Annon. If not, why not!

Chinafoot

SCA-- wrote:

I do really love my girl, but why cant I stop?

If you loved her you would have nothing to stop.

Time to grow up Dave and learn to have some respect for women.

AARRRGH

I'm also a serial cheater.

I love my girlfriends - so much.

But I still cheat. You want to know why? I just want to put my dick somewhere new. It's as simple as that. For me it's not personal, it's just... a new girl.

I still love my girlfriend. I would still do anything for them. They will still tell you I treat them extremely well.

But I still cheat... It's not black and white.

WhiteWashMan

SCA-- wrote:

My name is Dave, and I am a serial cheater.

I have had a long string of girlfriends. I have cheated on them all.

I dont want to. I really try not to, but, yet again last night I ended up in bed with another girl. I try to tell myself that I wont, but invariably I do it. Time and time again.

I am in a job that requires me to be emotionally detached, EMS, but I dont think its the reason. I do really love my girl, but why cant I stop? Are there others like me? Is there a Serial Cheaters Annon. If not, why not!

im guessing you just dont want to stop.
you should probably dump your girlfriend, and let her get on with her life, while ou get on with yours. she doesnt deserve to be treated like crap just because you want to get your jollies...

melekalikimaka

i was a seriously bad cheater for years, every girl i cheated on, multipal time, but I've stopped now, i used to do it cos i always got away with it, but its kinda ruins what ya have with a girl, even if she doesnt find out,im with a girl now for a long time, 6 + and havent cheated, nor been tempted, not dissission on my part,ive just stopped and could confidently say i wont do it. i used to think it was just me, but i think its more to do with not being fully happy with the girl your with, when ya find that ideal lass you wont cheat i'm sure, until then, have the fun, just watch your rep, its a bitch to repair

Blondie86Star

You asshole.
What the **** do you think you're playing at?
I feel so sorry for your girlfriend, my bestfriends boyfriend cheated on her, and if you could see the way she is now, you'd stop.

You seem to be making this out as some kind of joke.

'Men' like you make me sick. My four year old cousin is more mature than you.

Get a life

AARRRGH

Blondie86Star wrote:

You seem to be making this out as some kind of joke.

For men, sex is often 100% non-emotional. It's just like making a book case. It doesn't affect how much he loves you.

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

For men, sex is often 100% non-emotional. It's just like making a book case. It doesn't affect how much he loves you.

WHAT???? are you actually serious? Does the word 'girlfriend' not imply that he is meant to be with her and ONLY her because os so he claims that he LOVES her??

If he can't do that then break up with her, he and men like him are just being selfish pricks, be single and fúck all the slappers you want, just don't break someone else heart in the process :mad:

AARRRGH

Of course cheating is wrong. Neither the OP or me are denying that. I'm just saying it's not black and white. Men can often put their dicks in places without involving their brain or emotions. It's just their_dick_in_a_hole.

Sounds ****ed (and is ****ed) but as a male I can tell you it can be zero emotion. Just a hole.

Blondie86Star

THAT IS THE WORST EXCUSE EVER.

DO U NOT THINK WOMEN HAVE URGES TOO :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

AARRRGH

Hey, I'm seriously not trying to fight with you. I'm just saying how some men think.

Yes, cheating is wrong. Yes, it hurts people. Yes, it is not very nice/healthy/etc/etc.

But I'm just saying for some men it is just like playing football. There is no brain/emotional action behind it.

...

Also, women are different than men. When women cheat there is brain/emotional action involved. Women do not have a dumb piece of meat dictating their thoughts.

(I'm genuinely not trying to argue)

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

Hey, I'm seriously not trying to fight with you. I'm just saying how some men think.

Yes, cheating is wrong. Yes, it hurts people. Yes, it is not very nice/healthy/etc/etc.

But I'm just saying for some men it is just like playing football. There is no brain/emotional action behind it.

...

Also, women are different than men. When women cheat there is brain/emotional action involved. Women do not have a dumb piece of meat dictating their thoughts.

(I'm genuinely not trying to argue)

Ok, just when it happens to you (which is has) doesn't really give off the best impression of men in general.

Lex_Diamonds

dublindude wrote:

Sounds ****ed (and is ****ed) but as a male I can tell you it can be zero emotion. Just a hole.

http://www.fleshlight.com

Blondie86Star

Lex_Diamonds wrote:

http://www.fleshlight.com

:rolleyes:

AARRRGH

Hahah... Yeah, seen that before. No need for utilities when you live in Dublin...

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

Hahah... Yeah, seen that before. No need for utilities when you live in Dublin...

threadin on thin line there

AARRRGH

Why? I can not think of any other city in the world which is as easy to score in than Dublin.

I live in the City Centre. I could go out right now and get a girl. It's that easy (I'm a normal, average looking bloke.)

Dublin is sex city. If you want to get laid, just talk to someone.

Blondie86Star

suppose, but we're not all like that!

AARRRGH

Blondie86Star wrote:

suppose, but we're not all like that!

Of course. But Dublin is a party city. So many foreigners... so many loose Irish women... so many drunk people... It's not difficult to meet someone (for sex, at least.)

Blondie86Star

I wish there were nicer and hotter men in Dublin

AARRRGH

Blondie86Star wrote:

I wish there were nicer and hotter men in Dublin

There are many men in Dublin.

Where do you drink?

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

There are many men in Dublin.

Where do you drink?

Mainly stick to the soutside suburbs! Am just sick of guys from Dublin...

AARRRGH

Well, I can understand being sick of Irish people. I stopped being (/talking/making an effort) with Irish women about 5 years ago. Best decision I ever made!

What's wrong with foreign blokes?

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

Well, I can understand being sick of Irish people. I stopped being (/talking/making an effort) with Irish women about 5 years ago. Best decision I ever made!

What's wrong with foreign blokes?

Yeah I love them! especially german guys! kinda hard to find anyone but a refugee in Dublin tho

AARRRGH

Bollox! All my friends are foreign. I cannot help but meet foreign people.

You know "The Mezz" in Temple Bar? All foreign.

Really, get away from the suburbs and you'll meet the men you desire...

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

Bollox! All my friends are foreign. I cannot help but meet foreign people.

You know "The Mezz" in Temple Bar? All foreign.

Really, get away from the suburbs and you'll meet the men you desire...

Where abouts is the Mezz?

AARRRGH

You know Apache Pizza on Dame Street (bottom of Georges Street, beside Centra, across from the Mary Robinson rug)?

The street on the corner of Apache Pizza (don't know the name) has the Irish Film Institute and The Mezz on it.

Walk across the Millenium Bridge from the North Side and keep going straight. You can't miss it...

Blondie86Star

Cool thanks!

I think I'm ready to leave Irish men behind!

Since the ex :mad: cheated I haven't been to fond of em!

At least he's outta the country now!

Bring on the foreign boys!

AARRRGH

I'm sorry to break it to you, but i think foreign men cheat at least as much as Irish men, possibly more.

Sorry...

Blondie86Star

K then...lesbianism here I come!

OfflerCrocGod

LOL I love the way Blondie86Star started off ranting againts dublindude and is now taking advice on places to go to get laid/a man Class.

Dublin Dude, you have to be the smoothest man out there

AARRRGH

Papa Smut wrote:

Dublin Dude, you have to be the smoothest man out there

Yes, I have the skills.

LOL

WTF are we doing awake at 1.49 on a Tuesday night? I know the only reason I am up is because I opened a very expensive bottle of wine and I feel guilty to go to sleep without drinking it (and I really don't want to drink it.)

Also, I'm tired of sleeping.

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

Yes, I have the skills.

LOL

WTF are we doing awake at 1.49 on a Tuesday night? I know the only reason I am up is because I opened a very expensive bottle of wine and I feel guilty to go to sleep without drinking it (and I really don't want to drink it.)

Also, I'm tired of sleeping.

I'm babysitting my nephew. My bro n his wife have gone out for the first time in months, plus I don't mind cos he's really cute!

I'm playing poker

AARRRGH

Papa Smut wrote:

I'm playing poker

Not PPP I hope. Evil company!

I'm considering going to the 78 Club on Aungier Street (my neighbour) for some Blackjack, but I know my drunkeness will lead me to empty my wallet.

I do love Blackjack though.

Oops, battery low, need to get a plug.

Sleepy

I'm offering 5 to 1 that dublindude will cheat on his girlfriend with Blondie86Star before the morning!

Blondie86Star

Sleepy wrote:

I'm offering 5 to 1 that dublindude will cheat on his girlfriend with Blondie86Star before the morning!

:eek:

AARRRGH

Blondie86Star wrote:

:eek:

Does that position count as cheating???

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

Does that position count as cheating???

:rolleyes:

AARRRGH

Blondie86Star wrote:

:rolleyes:

Ahhh don't be getting all sensitive on me

When people were at home, bored, PRE-INTERNET, what the **** did they do???

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

Ahhh don't be getting all sensitive on me

When people were at home, bored, PRE-INTERNET, what the **** did they do???

Yeah what did they do? And what did people do before mobiles?!
can't even think about it, it's soo scary!!!

Hmm a bottle of wine in my bros fridge, sure a glass wouldn't hurt....

AARRRGH

Blondie86Star wrote:

Hmm a bottle of wine in my bros fridge, sure a glass wouldn't hurt....

Please do. We can drink wine together. I will take your guilt, you can take mine.

My wine is 1996 Baron De Lestac Bordeaux. Red.

I sense yours is white and in the €5.99 range... Don't ask me how I know this. I just do. There is also an important man in your life. His name starts with "J".

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

Please do. We can drink wine together. I will take your guilt, you can take mine.

My wine is 1996 Baron De Lestac Bordeaux. Red.

I sense yours is white and in the €5.99 range.

Yea!
yes it's white Ernest and Julio, €7.99, (i buy it a lot), nice student friendly prices!

I hate red wine...reminds me of blood

Blondie86Star

dublindude wrote:

His name starts with "J".

sorry what!!!

Guys... Really... could you now hook up webcams and start IMing each other?


The cyberspace equiv of:


GET A BLEEDIN' ROOM!!!!

AARRRGH

Hmmmm. OK open it and start drinking. I have already started. The wine is actually quite nice but my tongue is so burnt from hot soup I can't really taste anything.

I'm hungry.

AARRRGH

Papa Smut wrote:

Guys... Really... could you now hook up webcams and start IMing each other?


The cyberspace equiv of:


GET A BLEEDIN' ROOM!!!!

LOL. OK, I'll try.

Do you know of any software I can use to record when someone is stripping on a webcam?

(joke)

Blondie86Star

lol
Taxi just coming up the driveway now, and my nephews waking up! so until next time! night!

BlitzKrieg

wtf?

seriously.

iguana

How about keeping it on topic? I doubt 3 pages of flirting was what the op was after.