Bullying

Sangre

smorton wrote:

its not calling them gay sangre. its describing their gay acts in great and disgusting detail in front of their lackeys which is the important bit. they find it very hard to laugh at me when im saying stuff like that. and yes i am angry cos i know there's still so many ppl who haven't realised ppl like sangre are the g*b****es and not themselves like he'd have them believe.

Jesus smorton you're getting into that, what have you been watching lately?

Oh my God Smortons on a boner!

<everyone> SMORTONS ON A BONER!

Yeah...

Anyway, bullies loves reactions so just don't give them, brush off like it hasn't even registered with you. You may find it tough but they'll get bored.

Sangre

smorton wrote:

and sangre, you have far more issues to work on than anyone else here. maybe you should work on yourself before you tell people whats wrong with them.

i think you honestly don't realise the harm that what your doing does to people. i guarantee you that what you consider "takin the piss" is damaging other people who don't realise your joking. highlighting other peoples' failings hurts. plain and simple. you just don't see it because your not the one having all your insecurities laughed at by a large group every day

And I think you honestly have know idea how these people feel so you can't say.

Glipmac

Dude Sweet! Well said, humour was one of the things i tried often but i used to make them laugh and THEN beat me up... to be honest I have tried every thing i was even a mouthy little sh1t (thinking it might help) WRONG! It made things worse so dont try that approach, but don't be quiet about it stand up for yourself don't get pushed around if you are with your friends they will back you up

Glip :cool:

P.S keep those stories coming

smorton

so far you've "taken the piss" out of everything i've said. and you can't quite hit the point of what i'm saying when you're trying to make me seem wrong. first you pretended i said "i call them gay" so you could slag me and then when you couldn't twist my next post around to make me look stupid you tried to do it by saying i was on a boner. these are standard bullying practises: try everything you can to keep the other person down in the hopes they don't realise its all a bluff.

im not sure who you're talking about when you say "you have know idea how these people feel". if you're talking about the bullies, well its not very hard to see through their hard man act so the soft, slightly thick, underbelly and if its the bullied you're talking about, i was one for years. i suppose people still bully me every now and then but i don't notice cos these people are pond scum to me. i know im a good person and its a waste of my time listening to idiots telling me im not. i just let them say what they want and then they go away and i forget them.

glipmac, being a mouthy little sh*t isn't the way, you just have to be really cheerful and agree with them until they go away so you can get back to more important things. its good leave loads of awkward silences by giving one word resposes to their big schpiels all about what an eejit you are.

i tried ignoring them but it always seemed like i was "making a point" of ignoring them and that's just as good as any reaction. and if i tried to stand up for myself it was like being savaged by a duck. they have no respect for you so standing up for yourself is pointless. they'll just ignore what you say or twist it like sangre above.

the trick is not to "show them you don't care what they say", because the fact that you want to show them proves you do. the trick is to actually not care what they say. they will probably never stop so you just have to realise they're insecure people who point out everyone elses failings cos they're afraid people will point out theirs. you have to have the same respect for them that they have for you. let them get their ego fix by slaggin you. that way they'll think they've won and they'll go away. then forget them

Emmo

lads perhaps this isnt the most healthy way to discuss this?

Acknowledge everyone has a different point of view and whats good for one is not good for the other.

Emmo

Beruthiel

smorton
sangre

perhaps you could both agree to disagree and leave it at that shall we?
or
take the discussion to Humanities
B

Sangre

I don't agree to that!

Beruthiel

Sangre wrote:

I don't agree to that!

c'est la vie my petit chou chou

now back on topic!

eyebrows

Beruthiel wrote:

c'est la vie my petit chou chou

huh?

Glipmac

Beruthiel wrote:

c'est la vie my petit chou chou

I cant speak/spell english letalone what ever language that was

eyebrows

Glipmac wrote:

I cant speak/spell english letalone what ever language that was

french

this is what it translated to:
it is the life my small cabbage cabbage

Beruthiel

good lord!

that's life my little collieflower

now would you lot get back on topic!
B

Emmo

well at least it was a term of endearment (think it was meant in a patronising manner but......maybe she likes you!)

Agree to disagree cause nothing will be resolved over the tinternet. If you feel so strongly about something your opinion is not going to be changed by reading something posted by a partially anonymous person on the internet.

Emmo

Glipmac

This place has been dead too long lets get it back up and running again

Glip :cool:

Beruthiel

Glipmac wrote:

This place has been dead too long lets get it back up and running again

you got seven pages out of this thread Glip
why do you need to keep it up and running, each thread in here has a life span, after that we like to let it die.
was there something that wasn't covered for you so far?

Glipmac

not really but it might help others...

Glip :cool: