hmmmm.......?

LegacyUser

Right, so there's this guy in my class who i used to think was a total prick but recently we've been getting on well.....and now im of the opinion that maybe there's something in it....
He can be so nice and genuine and showed a side i (or anybody else) thought would ever exist in him.....but sometimes he can be one of the "LADS" if ya get my drift.....
He flirts and we get on.....
I just dont know if im reading the signs right....
Could he be a potential boyf or just a good mate...?
Hes told me before of fit birds and all that before.....
I dont understand him....one minute he can really get on my nerves the next we're laughing....
its like a love hate relationship xcept not really hate just disappointed......

TOTAL CONFUSION I MO CHEANN..............

LegacyUser

Its love/hate because you obviously have intense feelings for him. I dont know if you're reading it right as you haven't said what kind of signs he's given you?

Seed

Don't go out with pricks. Simple.

Bluebells

Sound dodgy. People like that are usually just looking for some fun, or are just insecure. Personly id enjoy having a laugh but not expect anything.

LegacyUser

its not that hes a complete w/anker but i can tell he likes me(most of the time).
but i dunno....... i like him but then again i dont.
its not like hes two faced or anything.

hes the sort of guy who'd come across all co/cky to an outsider,depends on the situation hes in.

hes kinda insecure yeah. but tries to cover it up which..gets my goat.
i wouldnt say my feelings are "intense" tbh.

Signs - obvious ones- like, just flirting girl boy- the norm,
sitting close together, putting hand touching mine...ah i cant describe it.
its a mix of feelings.

tbh i was prejudice at the start- classed him as a prick but he has a meanginful side and that attracts him to me.we can talk.

he was telling me bout some girls he was spinning(driving round,boy racing lets say!!) with the other day....i just dont know what to think.
and i dont think either of us'll do anything bout "us".

i dont like some of his mates...not all but some, kinda seem like they use him....nearly burnt his house down once and left.......
but one of my oldest mates is good friends with him2....and hes funniest fooker ever....
so to do anything might end up with serious embarrasment.......
MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM????????
tbh we'll probably just end being mates,it works all round

KnowItAll

help.mo.cheann wrote:

its not that hes a complete w/anker but i can tell he likes me(most of the time).
but i dunno....... i like him but then again i dont.
its not like hes two faced or anything.

hes the sort of guy who'd come across all co/cky to an outsider,depends on the situation hes in.

hes kinda insecure yeah. but tries to cover it up which..gets my goat.
i wouldnt say my feelings are "intense" tbh.

Signs - obvious ones- like, just flirting girl boy- the norm,
sitting close together, putting hand touching mine...ah i cant describe it.
its a mix of feelings.

From a male perspective I definetly think he likes you. He sounds like a typical teenager who likes a girl! Acts the big man in front of his friends/audience and cannot admit he likes you. Teenage boys won't go near girls who they don't like never mind touch them.

Btw, What signals are you sending him? Does he know you like him? He could be just as confused as you are.

Larianne

Sounds a lot like what happened with me and guy in school. He wasn't a prick, more an eejit who i oved to hate. Secretly I fancied him like mad but would be mean to him and we would always be smart with each other. And he would come up behind me and grab me to scare me.

Anyway it wasn't till way after school that we met one night and were drunk and told each other we fancied each other. So embarrassed that night that we didn't do anything about it.

So just see what happens but it sounds that he likes you too....

LadyJ

Ah yes,have you seen the Simpsons episode where Lisa goes out with Nelson?
This reminds me of it.
However,tbh,sounds like he likes you and I get the impression that your relationship could end up being mighty passionate. I could be wrong though!

LegacyUser

i think hes as unlikely to act on it as me. unless a night of drinking was involved tbh.
i know he likes this other girl but unless pigs can fly i doubt he's gona get her, shes goin steady for serious amount of time.and tbh doesnt really think much of him,but anyways...

its the kind of situation where we both know that we do actually like each other.......but theres other stuff in the way.

Bottle_of_Smoke

help.mo.cheann wrote:

its the kind of situation where we both know that we do actually like each other.......but theres other stuff in the way.

Just don't understand this! are you embarrassed about being seen with him or something?