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how find boyfriend?

  • 11-04-2005 07:25PM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭


    hi guys im 22 year old girl and never really gone out with anyone,
    i think i am too fussy, i hate meeting people in clubs etc maybe cos i couldnt be bothered with will he wont he take my number,
    then if he does will he wont he text etc!!

    i think as well im only attracted to people who have my interests??
    i want join gardai and as soon as guy says he is one or is applying im hooked!!
    problem is not too many them around or else i cant find any!!

    can any one help


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,522 ✭✭✭✭Gordon


    Moved from PI.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 36,184 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    You'll probably find a fair few of them on your training course in Templemore.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,962 ✭✭✭✭tk123


    Easy - commit a crime and you'll be introduced to some cops!!! Failing that join a club and there will be peeps with the same interests/ask friends to set you up/go to boards beers etc...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭shaz021


    templemore good idea thought of that but could be waiting a long time!!! thanks as for committing a crime i think i'll pass!! lol


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭shaz021


    whats boards beers?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 907 ✭✭✭tibor


    3 words...
    Copper.
    Face.
    Jacks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,388 ✭✭✭Kernel


    shaz021 wrote:
    whats boards beers?

    Are you good looking? If you are good looking I'll give you a spin if ya want.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 121 ✭✭Debyaka


    I wanted to be a cop when i was younger,
    You could always just get someone to dress up like a copper for you,
    I'd do it for ye..
    only if yer a looker but :D ..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭shaz021


    thanks lads good ideas im fussy but age too- im hopeless - no older than 24!! i am 22 they have be bit boyish!!!! am i asking too much


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,388 ✭✭✭Kernel


    shaz021 wrote:
    thanks lads good ideas im fussy but age too- im hopeless - no older than 24!! i am 22 they have be bit boyish!!!! am i asking too much

    Ahh.. that's me ****ed then.. I'm 28 and all man darling. Debyaka is younger tho. You say you have never had a relationship, have you not even gone on a few dates with any one guy??


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,346 ✭✭✭✭KdjaCL


    post a pic of yourself always helps.


    kdjac


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,388 ✭✭✭Kernel


    KdjaC wrote:
    post a pic of yourself always helps.


    kdjac

    Who, me? I'm in work now, I'll post one later if shaz is still interested..... might be a bit old for her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭shaz021


    lol too old thanks anyway!!

    have gone few dates nothing serious usually one r two and ive lost interest!! last boyfriend really was when 16!!!! the shame !!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,818 ✭✭✭StupidLikeAFox


    In fairness you dont look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

    (more for guys but ya get the idea)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,388 ✭✭✭Kernel


    shaz021 wrote:
    lol too old thanks anyway!!

    have gone few dates nothing serious usually one r two and ive lost interest!! last boyfriend really was when 16!!!! the shame !!

    In fairness, I don't know why you would want to go out with a 16 year old boy, and say that 28 is too old. You'd go out with a teenage kid 6 years younger, but not a fine strapping Dublin Garda who is 6 years older! I mean, I'm a dub, so automatically you would be trading up....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,346 ✭✭✭✭KdjaCL


    ColHol wrote:
    In fairness you dont look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

    Wont get intot he fire unless you nice to mantelpiece.

    post pic shaz

    kdjac


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,388 ✭✭✭Kernel


    KdjaC wrote:
    Wont get intot he fire unless you nice to mantelpiece.

    post pic shaz

    kdjac

    Where's your pic kdjac? Can you post a pic?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,346 ✭✭✭✭KdjaCL


    www.sexgod.com

    Im number 4


    kdjac


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭shaz021


    i have no pics to post at ll only in net cafe,


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭shaz021


    Kernel wrote:
    In fairness, I don't know why you would want to go out with a 16 year old boy, and say that 28 is too old. You'd go out with a teenage kid 6 years younger, but not a fine strapping Dublin Garda who is 6 years older! I mean, I'm a dub, so automatically you would be trading up....


    lol, i was 16 too!!!!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,388 ✭✭✭Kernel


    KdjaC wrote:
    www.sexgod.com

    Im number 4


    kdjac

    Nope, your picture isn't there... do you have any pics of yourself? Why ask shaz for one when you wont supply one yourself? ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    shaz021 wrote:
    hi guys im 22 year old girl and never really gone out with anyone,
    i think i am too fussy, i hate meeting people in clubs etc maybe cos i couldnt be bothered with will he wont he take my number,
    then if he does will he wont he text etc!!

    i think as well im only attracted to people who have my interests??
    i want join gardai and as soon as guy says he is one or is applying im hooked!!
    problem is not too many them around or else i cant find any!!

    can any one help

    perhaps of you could put an english sentence together, you might suddenly find love?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,388 ✭✭✭Kernel


    shaz021 wrote:
    lol, i was 16 too!!!!!

    Oh... :o That's ok then... ;)

    On a serious note, I wouldn't worry about dating, just enjoy life while you are young.... I know that is hard for girls to do, since you are all hardwired to get a mate and settle down, but plenty of time to find 'the one'.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭shaz021


    thanks white wash!!! it is my typing that i have a problem with!! practice makes perfect i guess!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭shaz021


    cheers kernal, i am not that bad though !!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 121 ✭✭Debyaka


    Kernel wrote:
    Ahh.. that's me ****ed then.. I'm 28 and all man darling. Debyaka is younger tho. You say you have never had a relationship, have you not even gone on a few dates with any one guy??

    Yea i'm only 22, so i meet that criteria, Dont know about all the other standards, Ye fussy sh|te!! ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,643 ✭✭✭impr0v


    This thread has caused a world-wide shortage of exclamation marks. Please refrain from using them in duplicate and triplicate until further notice.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 32,286 Mod ✭✭✭✭The_Conductor


    How find boyfriend (or even how to find one?)?

    Simple- stop looking.......

    A lot of the time you are looking so hard for a partner, that a type of tunnel vision stops you from noticing life around you. Also- having a singular aim, to find a boyfriend, can in itself be a turn-off.

    Diagnosis:

    Sit back, relax, take things easy. Life is too short to waste playing mind games on yourself. When you finally aren't on such a singular mission- but enjoying life and living- for what it is, someone will come along who will be right for you.

    So many people these days have microwave attitudes to life- pop it in the oven at 650, wait three minutes and *ping!!!* a ready made solution is served up on a plate. Life is not like that- all happens in its own good time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,216 ✭✭✭✭monkeyfudge


    perhaps of you could put an english sentence together, you might suddenly find love?
    "perhaps of you could" ?

    ha...

    Although "How find boyfriend" sounds like something Bizzaro Superman would say.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,867 ✭✭✭Third_Echelon


    Im 24 and I possess a truncheon.... Hows that for ya? :p


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