LUSTful thoughts

LegacyUser

Anyone know of any cure for lust?!

Ok seriously...

I know this girl about a year now, met through friends and I am am infatuated with her - I mean like a lustful feeling of just wanting to have sex with her..... I wouldn't mind but I have a gf. I think about her alot.... but it's not love ... I know that... I just want to s*Ha*g her. But If I do thats cheating on my gf + couldn't do that. But how to cure or get rid of my lust? Sex with my gf is great - that ain't the reason for this lust.any advice?

seamus

Reduce the amount of time you spend with her. Think of her when you slap the salami - very soon she'll become mundane.

Bottle_of_Smoke

seamus wrote:

Think of her when you slap the salami - very soon she'll become mundane.

or she'll take over completely, careful now.

It should pass soon enough, just try have no contact with her, then maybe you'll run into her on a fat day.

LegacyUser

you're a guy, other than chopping your nuts off there aint no cure.

iguana

Ok, so you're attracted to this girl. It's not a big deal. You get attracted to someone when your sub-conscience recognises something in their pheromones that knows you would make good babies together. And there isn't just one person in the world that you will make good babies with. No matter how much you love your gf the fact is that every so often you will be strongly attracted to other women.

You just need to learn to deal with it. I'm not sure if not being around her is the best course of action. That could make you fantasise about her more. Perhaps you should just focus on forming a proper friendship with her. The more normal you make the relationship, the less you will think about her. Over time the attraction will fade. And stop beating yourself up about it, you aren't doing anything wrong.

Just don't do anything with her that you can't tell your gf about. If you meet her for drinks, make sure you don't keep it a secret from your gf. Or don't secretly text or email her. If I was in your situation I wouldn't tell my partner that I was attracted to someone else, but I'd let them know about anything else in the friendship.

WhiteWashMan

ask your missus if you can act out some roll play during sex and call her *insert wonder womans name here (no, not linda carter)*

or, when you shag this chick, call her by your girlfriends name, then its only half cheating

Debyaka

WhiteWashMan wrote:

or, when you shag this chick, call her by your girlfriends name, then its only half cheating

Thats the job!!
Call your misses by her name and see how long you can hang on before she kills you

Sleepy

You could always see if the missus is up for a threesome

TerrorFirmer

you're a guy, other than chopping your nuts off there aint no cure.

Crude but honestly true. Happens us all.

DaBreno

WhiteWashMan wrote:

when you shag this chick, call her by your girlfriends name, then its only half cheating

Absolutey class!

gsand

I'm pretty sure this happens to everyone at some stage. I wouldnt get too worried...Some of the above solutions sound more than realistically viable...no doubt...try em all and let us know how u get on.

dahamsta

seamus wrote:

Think of her when you slap the salami - very soon she'll become mundane.

Seamus could be right, but I think it might be more effective if he does it while having a ****. Big salami savings to be had.