where to look for friends

Dublin8

Hi
Guyz and Gullz

im new to this forum thing so my appologies if i say some thing wrong

i am thinking of making some new friends
and may b having a gf :rolleyes: too

does anyone knows where to meet nice people
i find it hard to approach people and specially ask girls out
i just dont know what to say to them

any advices any suggessions all welcomed

cheerios

Shrimp

all right, this is a pretty wide request.. if you check back through the personal issues forum, there's more than likely gonna be some threads on these issues.. Well, for starters.. go to the areas that intrest you in this site, and get talkin to other people that have commmon hobbies, etc...

Dublin8

ic thanks
i havent came across to anything on this website that some one is looking for friends

well looking in hobbies section might b a good idea

good

thanks million 4 ur suggession

Shrimp

Oh and one other thing..alot of people on this site are not very partial to txt spk.. so try not to use..

4 instead of for
2 instead of to, too
C instead of see
etc... :rolleyes:

You may incounter alot of bitter people aswell, but dont mind them..

Dublin8

hi once again thanks for ur reply

i see well about bad people you get all sorts good comes with bad.
never mind i will ignore all the bad people
have u seen the movie "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind"
and u remember they erase the memory in that movie

i wish there was a device so you can remove all the bad memories
so that allthe bad peoople cant put u in the bad mood may b by 2030 we have some think like this on shelves in tescos called "targated memory eraser" i dont have many bad memories thank god but for some people it could be life saving

Shrimp

lol, interesting theory.. so, whats your age?

Dublin8

i am 24 years old male
and my date of birth is 1st march 1980

LegacyUser

You sound like a 5 year old with bad ADD.

Dublin8

and you sound like a 2 year old with a sick mind

if you cant say anything good i think its better to b quiet

thats my comment for u
other wise ul b insuletd by this whole world

so think about it man

monster_fighter

Dublin8 wrote:

i am 24 years old male
and my date of birth is 1st march 1980

No offence, but you write like you are a lot younger.


Might help if you posted details on what you do (work, college etc.) interests etc.

Lafortezza

cheesedude wrote:

You sound like a 5 year old with bad ADD.

I posted something like that and then had a fit of conscience and deleted it.
Won't happen again.

pwd

go to the pissups organised on this site
okcupid.com also does pissups. free chat site for people in your situation basically.

Dublin8

thanks pwd im checking that site out
thannks for all the options


and i sould young coz i am not used to to the forum things

i hope u read my first post and i appologised before i started
so by the passage of time il b ok

Shrimp

are you irish?

LegacyUser

Are you Latvian?

Dublin8

im britishasian

monster_fighter

Dublin8 wrote:

im britishasian

??? Indian, Chinese?

Thought that would explain the coming across a being young.

Agent Smith

you live in ireland?

pwd

funny i thought you came across like some of the asian dudes i worked with before

Gordon

Cheesedude, that was a personal insult imo. Please refrain from pi's in PI, that is a warning.

Dublin8 - do you have friends that you can go to a pub with?

DoctorEdgeWild

You could always try sports too. Most of my friends are either from school or I have 'collected' over the years through different sports. Even if you aren't into any sport in particular, just being a supporter means that you become part of a crowd of peiople with similar intrests.

Other than that, try some adult education (the name makes it sound so much worse than it is). thats always god for a laugh.

billy the squid

Well you say that you are brittish asian. by this i can only assume that you are new to the country and probably dont know anyone. moving to a new country, or even a new city in the same country can be intimidating.

what can you do? you culd think about going to the pub for a pint with your workmates on a friday and get to know them.outside the workplace.

if your into the likes of computer games there are LAN parties organised on this website where some users get to gether and play computer games over local area networks. these are a handy way to get to meet other people.

other than keeping an eye on the events forum (can be found in the system drop down menu at the top of the page) and keep an eye out for boards.ie get togethers there is not much more i can say but good luck and hope things become easier for you in the future.

Dublin8

thanks a million to all those nice people who replied to my message <in a nice way > and those who even read that
i wasent expecting a reply but you guys are really nice
and decent

thanks once again

hope u all have a nice day
keep intuch guys and gulz

talk soon

el rabitos

well calling girls - "gulz" and having a star trek logo as your tag wont help your cause.

Gordon

Don't listen to the mexican cartoon internet poster Dublin8.

YOU DA MAN!

popinfresh

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Dublin8

haha i dont change my self for girls i dont care about star trek logo or
gulz i think if a girl read boys this way she will b too narrow minded

there is much more in relation than to look at logos and what the person writes like if you think that way that i shud change my self for girls u need some help
lol

and thanks million gordon

for ur support and sugessions



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el rabitos
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well calling girls - "gulz" and having a star trek logo as your tag wont help your cause.

ferdi

asking if someone is Latvian is a personal insult.

lol.