Engagement Ring Shopping - Solo or together?

HairyCabbage

Ladies, apologies if this has been asked before. I’m wondering what the norm in Ireland is now. Did you go with your partner to pick out your ring or did he go by himself? If you went with him, was it before or after the proposal? What did he propose with if it was after?

Grey123

I bought one for my then girlfriend. It was “off the shelf” so she had the ability to return it if she didn’t like it.

She loved it.

I didn’t know what the norm was but was surprised at the amount of people who were impressed I did it myself. I wanted it to be a proper surprise.

Eldudeson

I had no idea what my OH would have liked in a ring so I bought an "asking" ring. Paid about €100 for it and popped the question. We were together less than a year so I didn't want to pick something and have it not to her taste in engagement rings. That was a bit too much of a risk for me.

Then the next weekend, spent a day in Dublin city centre going around to jewellers looking at rings. I had done a bit of research before so had a good idea where to go and what to look for. It worked out and the day was really nice with a cocktail lunch and nice dinner out at the end of it with the ring on.

Padre_Pio

Go with her, find out what style, size, shape she likes, and what looks good on her hand. Find out if she cares about real or manufactured diamonds. Then buy a ring by yourself. Go somewhere you can choose the characteristics of the diamond. An F colour VS1/VS2 clarity is the minimum visually flawless diamond. There's little points buying better ones.

Kurooi

I went alone but only because she told me before, somewhat organically, exactly what she likes. She'd remark on jewellery and I probed a little to get her taste.

isiris

Just got engaged. We went together to look at rings, get my size, etc. I loved it, and the proposal itself. was a huge surprise.

witchgirl26

I was given a proposal ring that was lovely & I still wear all the time but we went together to look at actual engagement rings which was just as well as I went with something I don't think I originally would have thought I'd like!

The Davestator

I bought an 'asking ring' like the Eldudeson, but I got mins in Claire's accessories for €3.50! We went shopping together afterwards, but I did get another surprise in when I showed her photos of the jeweller putting some of her dad's ashes into the band