5 month pregnant with two kids and one liar.

pinkpanter2014

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TheadoreT

Is it possible with your hormones that you're overreacting a tad here?

Those groups are harmless enough OP, immature for sure, do nothing for me personally, but I definitely know a few people(always married or in LTR for whatever reason) that send that type of thing regularly in certain groups. Maybe it's escapism of some form but these people I'd consider good family people otherwise.

Just a guys perspective before you go nuclear. But for sure let him know how it makes you feel, especially when you may be feeling a little but more vulnerable right now.

Larbre34

I'd advise him to switch off all visible and audible notifications to any Whatsapp groups he doesn't want you to know about and to switch his phone unlock to fingerprint scan.

You brought this worry on yourself. It would have been fine if you hadn't gone snooping. No good ever comes of it. Ever.

All men look at pornographic material, and still have perfectly good relationships. If you split the relationship up over this and end up in emergency accommodation with a newborn and two other kids, you'll have done it to yourself.

Ignore it, move on, concentrate on being healthy for the baby's birth.

pinkpanter2014

Hey, I thought that, and have always ignored it before now. But this was women’s locations And how nearby they were and their photos. I really hope my mind and hormones up to 90 because I’m devastated. Thanks for your perspective maybe is should talk and reevaluate!

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/120429092#Comment_120429092

Well, you know what they say about men being like dogs chasing parked cars - they won't have a clue what to do if they actually catch one.

I'd argue it's time for a heart to heart talk. Yes, all men look at porn, but there's a difference between that and subsribing to a secret chat and ignoring your partner.

pinkpanter2014

Thanks I have just asked straight out was there any thing to it 🥹 he admitted he has met with someone. I’m sick.

greasepalm

At the moment you have a roof over your head and your kids are safe and i agree moving out might be like the homeless with very little choices . I am sorry this has happened to you but having a roof is important.

Dare i ask if it was for a drink and a chat or other.

Praying you dont do something silly that might cause issues to you or the baby

pinkpanter2014

Other, I have been thinking the worst so I wasn’t shocked. I didn’t ask for detail after that because I wouldn’t be able for it. Thanks for your advise I will keep my head down

HildaOgdenx

Mod - As the OP has deleted their opening post, I am closing the thread.

Hilda