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Deserted father

  • 26-08-2021 8:26am
    #1
    waylander2002
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 311 ✭✭


    A good friend was recently deserted by his partner, just to say was not abusive relationship. Covid put pressure on both and she met a new beau online. Stated no connection with kids or him. All young kids. He's working full-time and his parents stepped in to help. Lady has history mental health and new partner same just released from a institute. All allowances in her name. He's all over place , anyone any advice where he should start? No negative comments please



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  • #2
    Ash.J.Williams
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,430 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058205853/deserted-father

    explain "stated no connection...." sentence



  • #3
    Widdensushi
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,385 ✭✭✭Widdensushi


    Self explanatory unfortunately, she feels no love/connection for her partner or children, not op obviously so that is just my understanding.



  • #4
    homer911
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,150 ✭✭✭homer911


    Gather all PPSNs and start with the Dept of Social Welfare..



  • #5
    jules86
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 557 ✭✭✭jules86


    Into the Intreo office, needs to apply for child benefit, they could also advise if he qualifies for anything else - One Parent Family or Working Family Payment. National Childcare Scheme will also help pay creche/afterschool fees. will need to contact local providers to see if they have places if they aren't in already.



  • #6
    munsterman2008
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 146 ✭✭munsterman2008


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117804954#Comment_117804954

    Consult family law solicitor for advice to ensure he ringfences custody of the children, particularly in light of the ex-partners mental health issues (and that of her new partner), in case she has a change of mind and looks for full/partial custody down the road.



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