Girls and OnlyFans

LMHC

I was out with a mate today and he's been with a girl about 5 months he's a sound lad but he's just found out the girl he's dating is on OnlyFans with a lot of followers I haven't seen the content but was told its filthy.

I'm very liberal and I'm all for women being empowered but if me bird was on the T'internet getting the bits out and doing the self pleasure crack for Larry in his mas basement I'd be losing the run of myself.

My mate said he doesn't know what he thinks, but I think it's wrong. Paper chasing or not.

What do yas think? >>Mod Snip<<

Hannibal_Smith

Mod Note

Thanks for your post OP. As you are not seeking advice on an issue that is personally impacting you, this really isn't the right Forum for your thread.

I'm going to move it to the Gentleman's Club which might be a better place for it.

Thanks

HS

McCrack

Need to see some pics to make an informed opinion

LMHC

McCrack wrote: »

Need to see some pics to make an informed opinion

Hhaaha chancer it will cost you 13.99 a month

punisher5112

Are they a couple if not then free game on her part.

Do I think it's right honestly no, I think anyone male or female that puts everything to see on such sites are nuts.
These images will always be on the internet or people's phones etc.

I'd have no problem with it if it was my girlfriend.

LMHC

punisher5112 wrote: »

Are they a couple if not then free game on her part.

Do I think it's right honestly no, I think anyone male or female that puts everything to see on such sites are nuts.
These images will always be on the internet or people's phones etc.

Yeah they are together 5 months i don't know if exclusive but its not really on in my opinion

I wouldn't date someone like that. Definitely for a buddy, but not a girlfriend.

LMHC

[Deleted User] wrote: »

I'd have no problem with it if it was my girlfriend.

Really. Blokes having a tug to ur birds bits

Pawwed Rig

Definitely not something I could live with. I wouldn't really care if it was a friend but a girlfriend would be a step too far

punisher5112

[Deleted User] wrote: »

I'd have no problem with it if it was my girlfriend.

I see what ya did there....

LollipopJimmy

I know a girl making a serious amount of cash from it. Herself and her partner living the high life thanks to it. Two stoners who were on the dole beforehand

Beechwoodspark

Girl I know who pre covid was a deli counter worker has taken it up since last year.

I’m told she’s making multiples of her previous “just above minimum wage” salary. And no intention of coming back.

Little cracker, real head Turner although a little bit slim for me.

Fair play to her, that’s the modern economy for ya

LMHC

Beechwoodspark wrote: »

Girl I know who pre covid was a deli counter worker has taken it up since last year.

I’m told she’s making multiples of her previous “just above minimum wage” salary. And no intention of coming back.

Little cracker, real head Turner although a little bit slim for me.

Fair play to her, that’s the modern economy for ya

By any chance is this girl from down the country. As in outside Dublin

Seve OB

LollipopJimmy wrote: »

I know a girl making a serious amount of cash from it. Herself and her partner living the high life thanks to it. Two stoners who were on the dole beforehand

And probably still on the dole

Jizique

Seve OB wrote: »

And probably still on the dole

I think they call it the PUP these days...

Beechwoodspark

LMHC wrote: »

By any chance is this girl from down the country. As in outside Dublin

Yeah I won’t be specific but let’s say the midlands

LMHC

Beechwoodspark wrote: »

Yeah I won’t be specific but let’s say the midlands

Hahaha there's a possibility that its same girl she's making 21k a month sound familiar. Is she tattooed?

Beechwoodspark

I think so... I genuinely Havnt seen her onlyfans.

Blond. 5’5 or so. Skater girl type of image.

Just heard the goss last time I was in the shop and talking to her ex colleagues

LMHC

LMHC wrote: »

Really. Blokes having a tug to ur birds bits

How would that impact me?

Snog Marry Shag.

The op girl would qualify for two. Shur, why not.

MrStuffins

[Deleted User] wrote: »

How would that impact me?

Cuckold eh? If that's what you're into.

Wouldn't be for me.

Cyclepath

I've no problem with the idea of a female partner being seen naked or the fact that other guys would find her attractive enough to have a tug over. In fact that might actually turn me on.

What I do have a problem with are the practicalities of it and the effects that such a 'career' might have, for example:

• There is absolutely no guarantee/stability in terms of income
• It'll only last as long as the woman is attractive to men
• It'll give the woman a distorted expectation of income (are they likely to start a savings/pension scheme?)
• It rewards the woman almost exclusively for looks, and not based on any real effort - it sets up unrealistic expectations of the world
• The woman risks recognition in real life - especially when the money tap turns off and she's sat at a Tesco till with some weirdo grinning at her etc.

Or, maybe as a solid '5' I'm just resentful of attractive people getting paid for nothing they've actually done

MrStuffins

MrStuffins wrote: »

Cuckold eh? If that's what you're into.

Wouldn't be for me.

I'd suggest looking up the meaning of cuckold.

MrStuffins

Deleted User wrote: »

I'd suggest looking up the meaning of cuckold.

I know exactly what it means.

If you're into other blokes getting sexual gratification from your Mrs. that's up to you. Wouldn't be for me though.

BorneTobyWilde

How could you be dating someone for 5 months and not know anything about them.

BorneTobyWilde

I read this in paper yesterday.

https://www.irishmirror.ie/showbiz/irish-showbiz/irish-onlyfans-star-niamh-oconnor-24227191

Why Turkey, i mean wtf


I mean........ laws there.......
226/2:A person who broadcasts or publishes obscene images, printed or audio material or who acts as an intermediary for this purpose shall be sentenced to imprisonment for a term of six months to three years.

She'll be doing hard time in no time.

This is the thing about young clueless women and easy money, their decision making is not the best to say the least.

BorneTobyWilde

All it takes is one person to report her ,and she'll have 20 Turkish soldiers smashing her back door in.

PsychoPete

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

All it takes is one person to report her ,and she'll have 20 Turkish soldiers smashing her back door in.

Be like looking down the jack lynch after them

LMHC

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

How could you be dating someone for 5 months and not know anything about them.

You'd have to go looking to find this stuff out its not like its Facebook.

BorneTobyWilde

LMHC wrote: »

You'd have to go looking to find this stuff out its not like its Facebook.

It's not something you forget to mention, what do people talk about, and do for 5 months. Surely he's been in her place, would be not ask what the lighting cameras and webcams are for;

LMHC

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

It's not something you forget to mention, what do people talk about, and do for 5 months. Surely he's been in her place, would be not ask what the lighting cameras and webcams are for;

I've no idea but he didn't know

celt262

LMHC wrote: »

I've no idea but he didn't know

Tell him to get into the act in some of her videos and get a cut of the proceeds.

MrStuffins

MrStuffins wrote: »

I know exactly what it means.

Evidently not.

Fann Linn

LollipopJimmy wrote: »

I know a girl making a serious amount of cash from it. Herself and her partner living the high life thanks to it. Two stoners who were on the dole beforehand

Entrepreneurs.

Buddy Bubs

I'm glad I make enough money not to have to buy a house outside Dublin, never mind outside the EU. Big deal, someone bought 2 apartments in turkey. Presume it's a cheap ****hole

MrStuffins

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Evidently not.

Whatever you say Chief!

Slattsy

Get rid of her. It's not a decision that needs any more than a split seconds thought.

More power to this young lady and any others who choose to do similar

ArtyM

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

How could you be dating someone for 5 months and not know anything about them.

I was 12 months into a relationship before I discovered that my partner thought it appropriate to serve tomatoes with fish, so I can understand this.

You really never know the dirty secrets that others can hide.

Ms. Newbie18

On one I say far focks to all the people making money off of OF. It won't last forever so I hope they're all being smart with their money now.

Would I want to date someone who was on it? It would depend on the content and how honest they were with me about it.

LMHC

Ms. Newbie18 wrote: »

On one I say far focks to all the people making money off of OF. It won't last forever so I hope they're all being smart with their money now.

Would I want to date someone who was on it? It would depend on the content and how honest they were with me about it.

Me personally I'd not date someone on it me mate is doing heavy duty thinking. She's making serious paper like yearly salary for her job before OF in 6 7 weeks. She has 137k followers on her insta. Its scary money like for doing **** all

Ms. Newbie18

LMHC wrote: »

Me personally I'd not date someone on it me mate is doing heavy duty thinking. She's making serious paper like yearly salary for her job before OF in 6 7 weeks. She has 137k followers on her insta. Its scary money like for doing **** all

I really think it depends on the type of interaction your having with your fans..I've read a few different articles online about OF. Those who post content and those who subscribe. A lot say its more about the personal interaction then filthy pics and sexts.

I would also want to know where their main fan base was. If it was in Ireland I think that would really put me off. I'd be worried about the safety aspect of it.

eviltwin

LMHC wrote: »

Me personally I'd not date someone on it me mate is doing heavy duty thinking. She's making serious paper like yearly salary for her job before OF in 6 7 weeks. She has 137k followers on her insta. Its scary money like for doing **** all

Good for her. Hope she is investing it well and enjoying it. Once they are both happy where is the problem? No one is getting hurt.

LMHC

Ms. Newbie18 wrote: »

I really think it depends on the type of interaction your having with your fans..I've read a few different articles online about OF. Those who post content and those who subscribe. A lot say its more about the personal interaction then filthy pics and sexts.

I would also want to know where their main fan base was. If it was in Ireland I think that would really put me off. I'd be worried about the safety aspect of it.

She makes personalisedncontent so if johnny115 likes her to wear red undies and do her thing she does it while personalising it to him. I think a lot are irish

LMHC

eviltwin wrote: »

Good for her. Hope she is investing it well and enjoying it. Once they are both happy where is the problem? No one is getting hurt.

She doesn't need to he's making good P's for both of them.

lalababa

Cuckold is the husband of an adulterous woman. That's all. That's been the definition for centuries.
I don't like slang coming into things if it muddies the waters.
I'd date an only fans girl. And make her pay the bills😊

LMHC

lalababa wrote: »

Cuckold is the husband of an adulterous woman. That's all. That's been the definition for centuries.
I don't like slang coming into things if it muddies the waters.
I'd date an only fans girl. And make her pay the bills😊

Naw women don't pay bills.

eviltwin

LMHC wrote: »

She doesn't need to he's making good P's for both of them.

He’s only her boyfriend, she can’t be financially relying on him. She is making a decent income and hopefully will use it well. Once they are both ok with it it’s not really anyone else’s business.

guy2231

OnlyFans is every fathers worst nightmare

Ms. Newbie18

LMHC wrote: »

She makes personalisedncontent so if johnny115 likes her to wear red undies and do her thing she does it while personalising it to him. I think a lot are irish

OF had an increase of users since the pandemic. I think it went from 7 mil users to 85 mil within a year. It's not that easy to make a lot of money from right off the bat , which leads to beleive she must have been posting racy pics publicly on Instagram before going on OF. That is how most build their profiles.

If what she says about the money is true, then the content must be fairly explicit and that would turn me off dating them.