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How to fix intimacy issues after kids

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  • #32
    Yellow pack crisps
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 564 ✭✭✭Yellow pack crisps


    Thelonious Monk wrote: »
    I don't think you need to analyse it that much, it's just a married couple having a few drinks and a bit of craic. Worth a shot anyway.

    This 100 percent!


  • #33
    Neyite
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,948 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    TheBoyConor wrote: »
    I know what you mean, but to be honest I think the suggesting of using alcohol as a tool to induce someone to have sex or incline them towards it, where they otherwise might not, is very much an abuse of alcohol. It makes no difference if it is garnished Prosecco in Waterford Crystal, or a naggin of Huzzar in a bottle of coke. The purpose and mechanism of the scheme is the same.

    I think this would be better addressed by discussing the subject and maybe getting relationship counselling so they can find common ground.


    What that poster described is just a bog-standard date night- a few drinks, chilling out, chatting, enjoying a bit of music or a film and see where the evening leads.

    Nobody suggested alcohol as a tool to induce sex except you but I'll confirm as a parent, I can't feel sexy in parent mode. I need to detach from being mammy. When I've got my son to bed, sitting down with a drink of choice in peace with my partner is a nice way to do that.


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