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Worried about family member

  • 15-09-2020 6:14pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4


    Hi everyone,

    I'm writing this post as im very concerned about my dad who is 63 years old and is still working as a plasterer. My dad had open heart surgery over a year a go and was advised to give up work as he is getting older and the job can be very physically demanding. Unfortunately my dad does not have a private pension and therefore he cannot afford to retire. On top of this my mum suffers from a chronic mental illness and my Dad has to pay for psychiatrists and doctors for her. Unfortunately i cannot afford to give my parents money as i am a housewife. I love my dad very much and my. Mum and im very worried that something may happen to him on the job. He is feeling breathless sometimes while working and i know he cant keep going. I want to ask is there any financial support for elderly construction workers and also how much is the state pension?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,229 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    State pension is €248 per week but unfortunately your dad is still too young to claim it.

    If is health is as bad as you say he may qualify for disability allowance, there's a State Benefits forum on here that would probably be the better place to get advice on this, I'm sure the mods will move the thread if you want.

    I hope you/he gets sorted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,405 ✭✭✭Airyfairy12


    My dad is in a similar situation, heart condition, physical job and no pension. Theres really nothing you can do, sorry to say but your dad has known for along time that he would one day need a pension, this might sound a bit cold but he should have prepared, we all have to prepare when we know we wont have a fall back.
    If anything, look into supports for your mother as that will take the pressure off your dad. Is she entitled to a medical card? does she work herself? if she's not working due to her illness could your dad go onto the carers allowance?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 548 ✭✭✭JasonStatham


    Could you get a side gig going, and give your Dad some money. There's loads of websites where you can make money online. Upwork, fiverr, usertesting....

    Where's the rest of the family? Uncles, Aunts, your husband? Isn't there someone who could give your Dad a dig out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,405 ✭✭✭Airyfairy12


    Could you get a side gig going, and give your Dad some money. There's loads of websites where you can make money online. Upwork, fiverr, usertesting....

    Where's the rest of the family? Uncles, Aunts, your husband? Isn't there someone who could give your Dad a dig out.

    It's not up to her to financially support her dad and not all families are able or willing to lend each other money.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,022 Mod ✭✭✭✭wiggle16


    Mod:

    Dial Hard is right, I think this would be better suited to the State Benefits forum, so I'm going to move it there. Posters should note that their charter now applies.

    I think you should contact your nearest Citizens Information office for further information. He may well be entitled to carer's allowance and it would be worth finding out if he would be entitled to an invalidity pension if his health does continue to decline to the point where he cannot work but cannot claim the state pension either.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 873 ✭✭✭StackSteevens



    My dad had open heart surgery over a year ago and was advised to give up work as he is getting older and the job can be very physically demanding.

    Was he advised this by his GP or Consultant or by a concerned friend?

    If the former then he really should have been advised to consider applying for DA and/or IB.

    Either way he can do it now and should (assuming that he's been paying either the Class A (employee) or Class S (self-employed) rate of PRSI).

    On top of this my mum suffers from a chronic mental illness and my Dad has to pay for psychiatrists and doctors for her.

    As previously advised, look into your father getting carer's allowance - or carer's benefit - for your mum; as well as applying for a medical or GP card.

    Citizens information is the place to start - Citizens Information Phone Service is at 0761 07 4000 (Monday to Friday, 9am to 8pm).

    Down the road he may also be eligible for the HBP.


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