SHAME

Kylta

If possible could you give your definition of what the word SHAME means to you?
If somebody say you should be ashamed is that to make you feel guilty?
Or if someone says you shamed your family, does it mean you let your family down?

I have regret, i've been sorry for things I've done in the past, but i've never been ashamed or shame of the things I done.

So what is your take on SHAME

McGinniesta

all shameful and sh1t

EmmetSpiceland

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSAvitBpaNs

Kylta

EmmetSpiceland wrote: »

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSAvitBpaNs

I think that's call crap

Bobblehats

It’s a shame this shirt isn’t available without the sponsor

Bobblehats

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYsJsM77AYs

super_furry

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QL_GJbJ-WXE

un5byh7sqpd2x0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdA9QJv8pUE

Kylta

Bobblehats wrote: »

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYsJsM77AYs

Not my thing but not bad

Bobblehats

For shame

Kylta

Orlando Mealy Teller wrote: »

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdA9QJv8pUE

You do know its a body double that was used, is that a shame

"Shame on you": meaning -

Your reputation covered in sh|t and will take nearly forever to recover.

Gregor Samsa

We had a German Shepard growing up. He liked to poop in private down the back of the garden, between the shed and the coal bunker. If you looked out the window at him while he was going, he’d give this big-eyed sad look with his ears folded down, and kind of shuffle into the corner, still in a half seated position, in a vain attempt to get out of sight.

That’s the epitome of shame to me.

bigar

Bobblehats wrote: »

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYsJsM77AYs

Shame it is not the original version.

Bobblehats

bigar wrote: »

Shame it is not the original version.

It’s a



Travisty.

biko

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kf44LWY7cdQ

indioblack

Kylta wrote: »

If possible could you give your definition of what the word SHAME means to you?
If somebody say you should be ashamed is that to make you feel guilty?
Or if someone says you shamed your family, does it mean you let your family down?

I have regret, i've been sorry for things I've done in the past, but i've never been ashamed or shame of the things I done.

So what is your take on SHAME

Your two examples are often the way the word is used - often imposed on people by people. I'd say it's more like shame lite. The real, strong emotion of shame is more likely from within.

Wanderer2010

Using phrases like "hang your head in shame" is a classic emotional manipulation phrase designed to induce guilt and bend someones will to match your own i.e thats a shameful thing to say/do..inference being dont do it again and have the same beliefs as me. You need a lot of awareness to recognize it in action.

Like the word "should". That word never, ever comes from within eg i should have a bigger house, i should have a better car, more sexual experience. Should= family, school, peers and religious conditioning. Should is never from within.

Feisar

If I do something incongruent with my own moral compass I’ll feel a dose of it.

I don’t think the “SHAME, SHAME, shame on you” brigade actually know what the word means.

Wayne Jarvis

I'm a pretty laid back person and the notion of telling someone they should be ashamed is a bit silly with the obvious exception of anyone who does anything that is mildly annoying to me in which case I like to shame them in dramatic fashion.

Capt'n Midnight

“No he's lost the trust of his sheep that's punishment enough for a farmer, who deals primarily with sheep.”

indioblack

Feisar wrote: »

If I do something incongruent with my own moral compass I’ll feel a dose of it.

I don’t think the “SHAME, SHAME, shame on you” brigade actually know what the word means.

Yes. I wonder would it depend on the motivation of the person laying the charge of shame and the character of the recipient.
Some wouldn't care, [shame less?], some might be energized to rectify the situation. Some might take it too much to heart.
In some circumstances, depending on the individual, it could be corrosive.

buckwheat

Capt'n Midnight wrote: »

“No he's lost the trust of his sheep that's punishment enough for a farmer, who deals primarily with sheep.”

Don't look at me. Don't look at meeee.....

I'll never forget the look on the c***s face :mad:

Quantum Erasure

Is this what we're doing

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mnSk9wHabeI

JohnnyFlash

Having one of your parents walk in on you as you attempt to pull the skeleton out of yourself through your groin.

Gregor Samsa

Shame is very different from embarrassment.

Embarrassment is something you can recover from. It’s even something you can laugh about at the time, or at least afterwards.

With shame, a little bit of you dies. There’s no recovery. No laughter. There’s a sadness, for everyone involved. And once it has visited you, there’s no shaking it. No redemption.

You’ll tell people an embarrassing story about yourself at a party over cocktails, as a bit of whimsical entertainment. People, and you, will laugh.

The only person you’ll tell a shameful story to is a stranger in an empty bar, over a cheap, neat whiskey. And you’ll tell it as a cautionary tale, with a steely look in your eyes. And the silent stranger will be changed by your story.

Your mother finding you masturbating, that’s embarrassing.

Your daughter finding you masturbating, that’s shame.

Shame on us all that this thread hasn't been locked so far!


Yee're all SHAMELESS!