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Are people becoming less attractive

  • 03-07-2020 11:18pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 852 ✭✭✭2lazytogetup


    At the beach recently and couldnt see any good lookers in swimsuits. Just fat people. I remember the 90s and people were alot nicer on the eye..

    Are we doomed?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    At the beach recently and couldnt see any good lookers in swimsuits. Just fat people. I remember the 90s and people were alot nicer on the eye..

    Are we doomed?

    Yes we are fcuked OP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,513 ✭✭✭bb1234567


    No I don't think so. People are becoming a bit more pudgy on average but your weight is only one element of attractiveness. I think people generally have better skin today and look younger on average than they did in earlier decades with people smoking and drinking less, wearing sunscreen more, etc


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭I Am Nobody


    Life ain't easy when your fat and greasy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,878 ✭✭✭✭gmisk


    At the beach recently and couldnt see any good lookers in swimsuits. Just fat people. I remember the 90s and people were alot nicer on the eye..

    Are we doomed?
    Hmmm if you remember eyeing up people in the 90s...your no spring chicken yourself....your part of the problem!


  • Posts: 3,637 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    bb1234567 wrote: »
    No I don't think so. People are becoming a bit more pudgy on average but your weight is only one element of attractiveness. I think people generally have better skin today and look younger on average than they did in earlier decades with people smoking and drinking less, wearing sunscreen more, etc

    Pudgy, more accurately referred to as fat, should not be accepted as attractive. Great skin doesn’t address the fact that someone is overweight, eats too much and does too little. Moisturising and using suncream isn’t going to combat diabetes and heart disease or the whole host of other illnesses and diseases that are more frequently resulting from people who think being fat is fine. Fat is fat. Call it what it is for a start.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,033 ✭✭✭✭Richard Hillman


    Too many unattractive people were mating in the 80s and 90s. There was also a lot of emigration, particularly women. So there was an abundance of men to women, who would ride anything that walked.

    The opposite of the scenario is Eastern Europe after WW2. There were tons of women compared to men, and the men had the pick of the lovely ladies. That's why Eastern European women are very attractive.

    It will be interesting to see what will be in 20-30 years with the popularity of online dating. 20% of males get 80% of the females. So there may be an abundance of strong attractive males on the market but the ladies will be a mixed bunch.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,417 ✭✭✭✭Kermit.de.frog


    Speak for yourself OP.


  • Posts: 14,344 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    JayZeus wrote: »
    Pudgy, more accurately referred to as fat, should not be accepted as attractive. Great skin doesn’t address the fact that someone is overweight, eats too much and does too little. Moisturising and using suncream isn’t going to combat diabetes and heart disease or the whole host of other illnesses and diseases that are more frequently resulting from people who think being fat is fine. Fat is fat. Call it what it is for a start.


    What's a more unattractive trait, though? someone that's "pudgy", yet out and about and at the beach, or someone who spends their Friday nights on the internet at 1am complaining about other people being "pudgy".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 111 ✭✭joeharte123


    I wouldn’t entirely agree with what you’re saying for the fact that there seems to be a heavy emphasis on people high protein diets now (equivalent of one boiler chicken specie a day) and exercise, which in itself is only a good thing!

    However, I’ve notice make up for young girls has gone over the top. Some girls opt to get their lips injected with botox at a very young age and it really doesn’t look healthy. This is coupled with fake teeth and sun beds. I understand that it’s only a certain cohort of people that engage in this “fashion” but it appears to be rampant throughout towns in Ireland today. It reminds me of a reality tv show in the uk Love Island.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39,469 ✭✭✭✭PTH2009


    Too many unattractive people were mating in the 80s and 90s. There was also a lot of emigration, particularly women. So there was an abundance of men to women, who would ride anything that walked.

    The opposite of the scenario is Eastern Europe after WW2. There were tons of women compared to men, and the men had the pick of the lovely ladies. That's why Eastern European women are very attractive.

    It will be interesting to see what will be in 20-30 years with the popularity of online dating. 20% of males get 80% of the females. So there may be an abundance of strong attractive males on the market but the ladies will be a mixed bunch.

    We also have other nationalities over here who would find 'supposed uglier women' attractive and would marry them have kids etc


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 111 ✭✭joeharte123


    Too many unattractive people were mating in the 80s and 90s. There was also a lot of emigration, particularly women. So there was an abundance of men to women, who would ride anything that walked.

    The opposite of the scenario is Eastern Europe after WW2. There were tons of women compared to men, and the men had the pick of the lovely ladies. That's why Eastern European women are very attractive.

    It will be interesting to see what will be in 20-30 years with the popularity of online dating. 20% of males get 80% of the females. So there may be an abundance of strong attractive males on the market but the ladies will be a mixed bunch.

    Online dating is so sterile imo. To me, it is a last resort. The way I look at it, easy come easy go.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,644 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    Why op were you thinking of trying out animals or cars for affection?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 92 ✭✭ShedTower


    The police are after me. I'm so gorgeous they want to put me under arrest.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,644 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    ShedTower wrote: »
    The police are after me. I'm so gorgeous they want to put me under arrest.

    You also wanted to put a huge tool in Mrs Doyle's box....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,751 ✭✭✭MyPeopleDrankTheSoup


    no OP you're just losing your libido


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,644 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    The face a mother could only love....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,589 ✭✭✭touts


    At the beach recently and couldnt see any good lookers in swimsuits. Just fat people. I remember the 90s and people were alot nicer on the eye..

    Are we doomed?

    No OP. It's just if you can remember the 90s then you have reached the stage where the good looker's don't tell you where they hangout these days. Welcome to middle age.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,531 ✭✭✭Car99


    Wo wo wo !!! Good looking people dont go to the beach unless its empty and they can can get some nice selfies for their social media accounts. Cant risk sand , wind and sun damage affecting their image.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    At the beach recently and couldnt see any good lookers in swimsuits. Just fat people. I remember the 90s and people were alot nicer on the eye..

    Are we doomed?

    I think specsavers are doing two for the price of one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 82 ✭✭Risingshadoo


    Op definitely a troll. Lame ass attempt -1/10


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,019 ✭✭✭I see sheep


    No I think the opposite. Do you remember how women looked in the 80s!
    Women are a much more attractive now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,397 ✭✭✭Hamsterchops


    At the beach recently and couldnt see any good lookers in swimsuits. Just fat people. I remember the 90s and people were alot nicer on the eye..

    Are we doomed?

    It's true, people are on average a stone or two heavier than they were back in the 70s, 80s or 90s.

    Maybe fast food plays a part in it? There are still lovely good looking people around though :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,950 ✭✭✭ChikiChiki


    Male baldness well up as opposed to decades ago.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,644 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    Beer goggles..... The goggles do nothing


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 165 ✭✭Hand in Your Pants


    Fat people tend to look younger as they have plenty of collogen in their faces. You can see that many of them turn rotten looking when they lose the few pounds. Often it's better to keep the weight if you're a bit older and bring additional emphasis to your face, or your lips and breasts if you are a woman. Signal that you're down for the dirty and keep those chubby cheeks girls.


  • Posts: 5,369 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    JayZeus wrote: »
    Pudgy, more accurately referred to as fat, should not be accepted as attractive. Great skin doesn’t address the fact that someone is overweight, eats too much and does too little. Moisturising and using suncream isn’t going to combat diabetes and heart disease or the whole host of other illnesses and diseases that are more frequently resulting from people who think being fat is fine. Fat is fat. Call it what it is for a start.

    Are you really deciding for everyone else what level of body fat they can find attractive?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,172 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    No I think people are much more into health and fitness now. Irish women in particular look far better now than they did in the 90's/early 00's.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,342 ✭✭✭Filmer Paradise


    No I think people are much more into health and fitness now. Irish women in particular look far better now than they did in the 90's/early 00's.

    Some are for sure. I think there's more extremes out there now.

    There's more people into the fitness now, but on the other hand it's shocking the amount of truly obese people around these days.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,254 ✭✭✭Esse85


    No I think people are much more into health and fitness now. Irish women in particular look far better now than they did in the 90's/early 00's.

    Yet obesity has never been higher.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 147 ✭✭Lily_Aldrin7


    Esse85 wrote: »
    Yet obesity has never been higher.

    It seems like most of my female co- workers are quite obese and always trying new trendy diets. I have the feeling that obesity has something to do with this! I have two kids and I’m thinner than I’ve ever been in size 6 just because I eat as healthy as possible and I exercise a little. I keep telling them that losing weight is all about creating good habits you can stick to but it seems like everyone is looking for a quick and easy way to lose weight so they try detox pills and shakes and keto diets etc, lose 10 pounds in 3 days and then gain 20 over and over again. It’s the media, I’m telling ya! Too many ads for “easy fixes” and sugary treats


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    It seems like most of my female co- workers are quite obese and always trying new trendy diets. I have the feeling that obesity has something to do with this! I have two kids and I’m thinner than I’ve ever been in size 6 just because I eat as healthy as possible and I exercise a little. I keep telling them that losing weight is all about creating good habits you can stick to but it seems like everyone is looking for a quick and easy way to lose weight so they try detox pills and shakes and keto diets etc, lose 10 pounds in 3 days and then gain 20 over and over again. It’s the media, I’m telling ya! Too many ads for “easy fixes” and sugary treats

    I have to admit I was rather shocked when I came home this year. I'd been outside the country for the last two years, and while, Irish people were often 'slightly' overweight, they weren't exactly fat. (I could always appreciate the "big boned" comment for many Irish people) However, now, it seems like every third person is heavily overweight, a lot of them being women in their 30s/40s.

    I dunno. I see many people out running, who are obviously overweight. Fair play to them trying to do something about it. On the other hand though, there seems to be a lot of people who have either given up, or don't care. I've seen the ads or references to "big is beautiful" and heard in conversations about fat shaming being a terrible thing to do... but seriously? Do Irish people really want to look like obese Americans? Just seems bizarre to me (I'm very skinny naturally, and have never been able to gain any substantial weight (even in my 40s), so this is all very alien to me personally)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 85 ✭✭lickalot


    As you get older obviously people around the same age are going to start losing their attractiveness.

    I still see a few fit grannies that I would certainly do.


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Gloria Faint Apparel


    sure i'm gone downhill every day


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 165 ✭✭Hand in Your Pants


    Very good looking women hit their peak and plateau for up to ten years at 35. Most of the girls I went to school with were ugly as sin, but the one or two that were good looking have really blossomed in their late 30s. Ripe for the plucking and down for a..
    Their marriages are often going sour at that stage too so you can move in for the kill.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,179 ✭✭✭✭fr336


    Very good looking women hit their peak and plateau for up to ten years at 35. Most of the girls I went to school with were ugly as sin, but the one or two that were good looking have really blossomed in their late 30s. Ripe for the plucking and down for a..
    Their marriages are often going sour at that stage too so you can move in for the kill.

    Username strong


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    No idea. Everyone's wearing masks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,302 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    Other people become less attractive as you older and are less influenced by someone simply by blonde hair and/or massive tits. Plus alot more people are obese now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 85 ✭✭lickalot


    Once there happy to get bruises on their knees I'm happy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 30 Koolguy


    I can only speak for myself

    I'm becoming more attractive


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,214 ✭✭✭Cypher_sounds


    Obesity is a big problem...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,862 ✭✭✭Mysterypunter


    Obesity is a big problem...

    Acceptance of obesity is a bigger problem


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 852 ✭✭✭2lazytogetup


    I have to admit I was rather shocked when I came home this year. I'd been outside the country for the last two years, and while, Irish people were often 'slightly' overweight, they weren't exactly fat. (I could always appreciate the "big boned" comment for many Irish people) However, now, it seems like every third person is heavily overweight, a lot of them being women in their 30s/40s.

    I dunno. I see many people out running, who are obviously overweight. Fair play to them trying to do something about it. On the other hand though, there seems to be a lot of people who have either given up, or don't care. I've seen the ads or references to "big is beautiful" and heard in conversations about fat shaming being a terrible thing to do... but seriously? Do Irish people really want to look like obese Americans? Just seems bizarre to me (I'm very skinny naturally, and have never been able to gain any substantial weight (even in my 40s), so this is all very alien to me personally)


    Best post. Sums it up better than I could


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 852 ✭✭✭2lazytogetup


    lickalot wrote: »
    Once there happy to get bruises on their knees I'm happy.

    With that username, sounds like you are getting bruised knees too


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,438 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    Increasing stress levels has a lot to do with increasing levels of obesity


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,224 ✭✭✭zerosugarbuzz


    At the beach recently and couldnt see any good lookers in swimsuits. Just fat people. I remember the 90s and people were alot nicer on the eye..

    Are we doomed?

    Might be your age OP, try HRT 😊


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Wanderer78 wrote: »
    Increasing stress levels has a lot to do with increasing levels of obesity

    Ahh yes, because Irish people turned obese during the Troubles... or the periods of unemployment before we got hit by the various recessions?

    I find people are very quick to find excuses for those who become very heavy. Being obese should be the same as becoming a heavy smoker, or an alcoholic (as a smoker, that seems to be the attitude of many towards that habit. No sympathy or patience allowed)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,438 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    Ahh yes, because Irish people turned obese during the Troubles... or the periods of unemployment before we got hit by the various recessions?


    There's far more availability of highly addictive foods nowadays, in which have a calming effect on the human brain, unfortunately this has a major negative effect on our health


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Wanderer78 wrote: »
    There's far more availability of highly addictive foods nowadays, in which have a calming effect on the human brain, unfortunately this has a major negative effect on our health

    Ok.. that's one I can accept... :D TBF Governments have made a big deal about educating and providing a safer life for people, but then, do nothing about these foods (especially the cheap stuff). Oh sure, they'll do a sugar tax but not actually ban the products that cause the damage.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 165 ✭✭Hand in Your Pants


    Two of the most beautiful women I ever met in my life were balloons. Extraordinarily obese but stunning faces. If I could go back in time I would take the plunge. I was too shy but they were very flirtatious.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    Two of the most beautiful women I ever met in my life were balloons. Extraordinarily obese but stunning faces. If I could go back in time I would take the plunge. I was too shy but they were very flirtatious.

    After the glue thing I'd take your credibily with a pinch of salt, are you related to fig?


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