Have you ever changed your mind over somebody you turned down

Purple Roses

Has a man or woman ever changed their mind over somebody they turned down?

banie01

No!
Of course not! Once a decision is made...
It's done, no second chances!

Surely everyone else's genitals are infallible too?

I mean, people never change their minds so the OP is obviously trolling!

Purple Roses

I really liked a guy and I asked him out, he turned me down. I can't ask him again. I'm kind of hoping he might change his mind so does it ever happen?

biko

Maybe, there is just no way of knowing for us.

Jimmy Bottlehead

Yep. Went on a date with a girl (Girl A) years ago, but I'd been on a few dates with another girl (Girl and chose to pursue her instead. I remained friends with Girl A. When I broke it off with Girl B about a year later, I met up with Girl A for dinner and we fell for each other. Ended up in a relationship together for close to a year.

So yes it can happen.

October

Yes! About 26 years ago a guy asked me out a few times and I kept saying no! Didn’t see him again for 17 years despite us having mutual friends. Met again and we are now 5 years married. Neither of us were married in between the time!

Lyan

Some archeological evidence in upper Mesopotamia indicates there may have been a case in the 5th century BC. Other records point to occurences in pre-colonial Peru. All modern anecdotes are unverified.

Purple Roses

October wrote: »

Yes! About 26 years ago a guy asked me out a few times and I kept saying no! Didn’t see him again for 17 years despite us having mutual friends. Met again and we are now 5 years married. Neither of us were married in between the time!

This is what I want except not 17 years. It's been 20 days. Does the time get any easier without them?

Sephiroth_dude

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