Are women as desperate for sex?

mr_fegelien

as men are? I went to an all boys school and remember how horny the guys were given by their talk about teachers and women that passed by outside. Funny thing is, I have a few female friends and that seems not to be the case. Never hear about women talking about shagging men.

Sure some female friends of mine admire a cute guy, but I've never heard them say "I'd **** him". Is it just not a thing with women? Are men really more desperate?

corner of hells

mr_fegelien wrote: »

as men are? I went to an all boys school and remember how horny the guys were given by their talk about teachers and women that passed by outside. Funny thing is, I have a few female friends and that seems not to be the case. Never hear about women talking about shagging men.

Sure some female friends of mine admire a cute guy, but I've never heard them say "I'd **** him". Is it just not a thing with women? Are men really more desperate?

Why not ask one of your female friends ?
This could be your task for today and let us know the answer .

tuxy

Is this account real or some kind of weird thread starter parody?

theteal

Yes

mistress_gi

Not sure this will is a real thread or not but it's interesting so I'll give it a go at a reply.
As a woman I was brought up to keep my sexual desires in check. It has never been encouraged for me to express my sexual needs or wants.
In addition, growing up in a Catholic country, I was taught that wanting sex was something I should be ashamed of. In fact women who openly express sexual desire were more like to be rapped and rightfully deserved it.
So with all that in place it's not that we don't want sex, it's a case of we are taught to keep it to ourselves and never express it out loud.
With time I learned that this should not be the case and I have gotten better at expressing it. Still not great at it though.

Mad_maxx

Most men are not attractive to most women, a majority of women are attractive enough to most men

Women are picker.

Signore Fancy Pants

tuxy wrote: »

Is this account real or some kind of weird thread starter parody?

It's almost as if by some freak of nature that a baby just went from being 1 week old and BAM, woke up the next day as a clueless 15 year old.

With no guidance from parents, friends or peers, the baby must learn to understand the world through the internet.

That, or its like a real life version of the film Coneheads.

Oafley Jones

I’m still not convinced the OPs not a piece of software.

facehugger99

Women are desperate for sex, just not with you OP.

lalababa

This country was Roman Catholic ,papal driven , priest ridden, and docterine plagued for centuries.
They had you from the cradle to the grave ,literally , and they still do. More powerful than any Government, culture, ideology, natural instinct or force. They said jump , and you said how high?
Women in this docterine (to this day!) are seen as essentially lesser being s, a conduit of evil and evil temptresses, lowly if essential vessels of reproduction. Check out Mary McCaleses work of the last few years.
If a women stepped outside or even seemed to step outside RC s accepted views she was in serious ****e. Ergo if you felt you wanted or needed a ride you sure as hell kept it to yerself.
This culture will take some time to dissipate.
There is also a more international view across religions and cultures and sexes , but predominantly on the male side, such that; sex is a proactive action by a man only, initiated by a man, and carried out by a man during penetration. In simple terms 'a man fcuks a woman, and a woman is fcuked by a man'. The female being subjucated. Which is BS of course but is reinforced by real life experiences & cultural conditioning.
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Deebles McBeebles

tuxy wrote: »

Is this account real or some kind of weird thread starter parody?

Boards want to keep this quiet but he's an employee tasked with keeping AH moving. Pass it on.

Kimbot

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Boards want to keep this quiet but he's an employee tasked with keeping AH moving. Pass it on.

Bots cant be employee's :P

Johnny Sausage

tuxy wrote: »

Is this account real or some kind of weird thread starter parody?

im convinced its an alter ego of another poster who was one of the biggest headcases going who now is back

Bob Harris

Boards needs to start using this.

JohnnyFlash

Most of the time, yes. I in my mid-50’s and in the market for recently separated or divorced women from 40-50. Raw from saw to be honest. Plenty of them were in sexless marriages with Nice Mike and now want something a bit different. Some absolutely filthy women out there. Fantastic!!

weemcd

Certainly not

Deebles McBeebles

Kimbot wrote: »

Bots cant be employee's :P

Shhh, the plebs don't know about the Boards Robot Division.

RacoonQueen

Mad_maxx wrote: »

Most men are not attractive to most women, a majority of women are attractive enough to most men

Women are picker.

Very few men are visually 'unattractive' - women may just be more likely to be initially attracted to a mix of looks and personality.
I know lots of good looking men who I wouldn't be at all attracted to.

Richard Hillman

If women were as randy as men, the world population would be 100bn.

Sky King

Richard Hillman wrote: »

If women were as randy as men, the world population would be 100bn.

No, STDs would have taken care of most of them.

Fr_Dougal

mr_fegelien wrote: »

as men are? I went to an all boys school and remember how horny the guys were given by their talk about teachers and women that passed by outside. Funny thing is, I have a few female friends and that seems not to be the case. Never hear about women talking about shagging men.

Sure some female friends of mine admire a cute guy, but I've never heard them say "I'd **** him". Is it just not a thing with women? Are men really more desperate?

You mean are women as desperate for sex as you are?

ArchXStanton

You don't see many male prostitutes, and the few that are, are normally gay

Reviews and Books Galore

Richard Hillman wrote: »

If women were as randy as men, the world population would be 100bn.

It's interesting that the countries with the most population have the largest amount of aprhodisiacs in the food. Cinnamon, chilli, ginseng...tbh, pretty much everything in that part of the world.



I honestly think women are more randy, but there are more options and so there is more selection, but that is more due to a few different factors rather than sexual desirability. If you go to countries where the women do the pursuing, it actually leads to a case of the women being in the men's position in lots of ways.



Also, female clothing is more sexualised than male clothing and that definetly plays a role. If women were surrounded with pants that highlighted/hid a bulge, the man's tighs, and specialized gloves to show off a man's masculine hands, there would be more thinking about sex :P



It's a shame that male fashion has kind of died out lately. Now, we're telling men to dress like women (smooth skin, tight clothes, so on so forth), but they should be showing their masculinity and not estrogen features so to speak.

ILoveYourVibes

No.

Are you?

I don't think its a man thing ..i think its an individual thing...or a you thing.

begbysback

Bob Harris wrote: »

Boards needs to start using this.

Just couldn’t help myself from clicking on that

Greyfox

When women are really attracted to a guy they want sex just as much as the guy but they would also be willing to wait a few weeks or months for the right guy. Most men see a half decent looking woman and 1 second later they'd like to have sex with them.

banie01

ArchXStanton wrote: »

You don't see many male prostitutes, and the few that are, are normally gay

That would point more to a thesis of women don't need to pay for it, than it would a lack of any innate horniness on their part IMO.

Tacitus Kilgore

Jesus

ILoveYourVibes

banie01 wrote: »

That would point more to a thesis of women don't need to pay for it, than it would a lack of any innate horniness on their part IMO.

Honestly ...I think its both. Women are less horny whilst not being nuns though ...and don't need to pay for it.

Obviously there are some exceptions.

PC brigade will probably kill me.

Raconteuse

On the whole, no (numerous individual examples can be given to contradict this of course, but I'm only referring to the collective). As said, the dearth of male prostitutes serving women is a strong indicator of this.

That doesn't mean women *enjoy* sex less, just that our need for it isn't as urgent (I mean as a collective btw). Also clitoral discomfort can be sorted out by ourselves alone.

I don't buy the Catholic guilt thing. Sexuality is not shameful now - the opposite.

Patrick2010

Tacitus Kilgore wrote: »

Jesus

I think any further post on this topic would be superfluous after Tacitus's well thought out comment which has shed such clarity on the subject.

branie2

Not all of them, I'd say

Stark

This thread reminds me of https://lifestyle.clickhole.com/6-myths-about-female-sexuality-that-we-need-to-stop-spr-1825123628

gmisk

Signore Fancy Pants wrote: »

It's almost as if by some freak of nature that a baby just went from being 1 week old and BAM, woke up the next day as a clueless 15 year old.

With no guidance from parents, friends or peers, the baby must learn to understand the world through the internet.

That, or its like a real life version of the film Coneheads.

You will narfle the garthok!

Tacitus Kilgore

Patrick2010 wrote: »

I think any further post on this topic would be superfluous after Tacitus's well thought out comment which has shed such clarity on the subject.

I agree, but in my defence - the obvious cassanovas on the thread have already said all that needs to be said.

Them women. With their bags of sand on their chests.

ArchXStanton

Mad_maxx wrote: »

Most men are not attractive to most women, a majority of women are attractive enough to most men

Women are picker.

In most species the female is usually the choosier of the two sexes

completedit

My gf is way hornier than me

Huntergonzo

Well look if yous know any women desperate for sex send them my way......seriously help a lad out here!

In before thread lock.

Gynoid

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

It's a shame that male fashion has kind of died out lately. Now, we're telling men to dress like women (smooth skin, tight clothes, so on so forth), but they should be showing their masculinity and not estrogen features so to speak.

This. Oh my goodness many modern male fashions seem designed to hide all evidence of the presence of testosterone.

And I really can hardly believe there are still people who froth so freely about how the Church ruined every bit of libido in Ireland up until about 15 minutes ago. Weird. Truly weird.

Women are probably more cyclical in their sex drive than men, with the ovulation period naturally spiking desire, and then a crazy few days of extra horniness pre menstruation which does not really make sense at all...well, except as some kind of raw existential scream for life from the engorged womb before it relentlessly sheds.
Ahhh, glad to get that off my heaving bosom....

Raconteuse

Gynoid wrote: »

Women are probably more cyclical in their sex drive than men, with the ovulation period naturally spiking desire, and then a crazy few days of extra horniness pre menstruation which does not really make sense at all..

:eek:

I'd get up on a gust of wind! I would not like to feel that way all the time when single, which young men it seems do.

Gynoid

Raconteuse wrote: »

:eek:

I'd get up on a gust of wind! I would not like to feel that way all the time when single, which young men it seems do.

During that few days pre menstruation you mean? It is desperate !

Raconteuse

Gynoid wrote: »

During that few days pre menstruation you mean? It is desperate !

And the bauld ovulation.

Plopsu

Raconteuse wrote: »

:eek:

I'd get up on a gust of wind! I would not like to feel that way all the time when single, which young men it seems do.

Sure, that's why the good lord gave them opposable thumbs.

Sarahdunners

No, women are not as desperate for sex: it is a simple case supply and demand. How could I possibly be desperate for something, when it is so easily available to me. If I go to a nightclub - Many men ask me to go home with them.

I logged onto a dating app for one day toa ee what it was like, and I had 100 men asking me for sex over the course of two days.

Do men not know that this happens to women? That we are constantly bombarded by men looking for sex.

So, when I have so many men asking me for sex - I am only going to choose the best for me. But I could also be totally happy going without sex tor a long while. I am happy with myself.

The real question is why are men so absolutely desperate for sex?

Are men so unhappy in themselves, that they can only feel worth something, when they are in a woman, when they accepted by a woman? They never seem to be happy by themselves.

It says alot about the self esteem of men.

Sarahdunners

I think that men are desperate for sex due to these reasons in today's society:

1) They are told by other men that their worth is directly linked to how many women they have had sex with.
So there is sex shame and pressure from their friends. My male friend is a teacher - he teaches male teenagers. He said that even he is bored of all their sex talk. It is constantly "who had it the most" , and showing off. And lies, due to the peer pressure from each other.

2) very Low self esteem in men, so they only feel good about themselves when they have been sexually accepted by women.

3) Porn gives men a very skewed sense of sexuality. It is very domineering, aggressive and violent.

4) In Ireland - men have been taught for a long time that women are worth less than them, are there to serve them, and are "just for sex". I remember a man in Dublin saying this to me, that he was taught that women were "just for sex".

This all adds up to bad attitudes from men to women. This society needs to change

Richard Hillman

Females want to mate with something that they feel can provide a strong child and protect them.

Men want to mate with as many females as possible to enhance their dominance.

We are still primates are heart, especially when it comes to mating.

ArchXStanton

Sarahdunners wrote: »

No, women are not as desperate for sex: it is a simple case supply and demand. How could I possibly be desperate for something, when it is so easily available to me. If I go to a nightclub - Many men ask me to go home with them.

I logged onto a dating app for one day toa ee what it was like, and I had 100 men asking me for sex over the course of two days.

Do men not know that this happens to women? That we are constantly bombarded by men looking for sex.

So, when I have so many men asking me for sex - I am only going to choose the best for me. But I could also be totally happy going without sex tor a long while. I am happy with myself.

The real question is why are men so absolutely desperate for sex?

Are men so unhappy in themselves, that they can only feel worth something, when they are in a woman, when they accepted by a woman? They never seem to be happy by themselves.

It says alot about the self esteem of men.

Men are coming from a scarcity mentality, and like you've admitted women come from an abundance mentality, this has actually been exasperated through the likes of Tinder and online dating were it's like window shopping for them, we're nearly reverting back to a tournament mating system,.

I'd also say that society has women conditioned to see themselves as the prize whether it's valentines day, a man having to get down on one knee and propose or through social media were they seek validation and attention from posting selfies, additionally they can give themselves an extra 2-3 points on the attractiveness scale through make up, heels, fake this and that etc.

Reviews and Books Galore

Sarahdunners wrote: »

I think that men are desperate for sex due to these reasons in today's society:

1) They are told by other men that their worth is directly linked to how many women they have had sex with.
So there is sex shame and pressure from their friends. My male friend is a teacher - he teaches male teenagers. He said that even he is bored of all their sex talk. It is constantly "who had it the most" , and showing off. And lies, due to the peer pressure from each other.

2) very Low self esteem in men, so they only feel good about themselves when they have been sexually accepted by women.

3) Porn gives men a very skewed sense of sexuality. It is very domineering, aggressive and violent.

4) In Ireland - men have been taught for a long time that women are worth less than them, are there to serve them, and are "just for sex". I remember a man in Dublin saying this to me, that he was taught that women were "just for sex".

This all adds up to bad attitudes from men to women. This society needs to change

That is absolute cadswollop.

Sarahdunners

ArchXStanton wrote: »

Men are coming from a scarcity mentality, and like you've admitted women come from an abundance mentality, this has actually been exasperated through the likes of Tinder and online dating were it's like window shopping for them, we're nearly reverting back to a tournament mating system,.

I'd also say that society has women conditioned to see themselves as the prize whether it's valentines day, a man having to get down on one knee and propose or through social media were they seek validation and attention from posting selfies, additionally they can give themselves an extra 2-3 points on the attractiveness scale through make up, heels, fake this and that etc.

Yes but men are putting THEMSELVES in a scarcity mentality. Which is them thinking "because I am not having sex, I feel terrible about myself".

As I said, I can go without sex for ages and be perfectly happy, there are so many other things to do , painting , walks on the beach.

Why do men tie up so much of their happiness and self value in sex?

Tacitus Kilgore

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

That is absolute cadswollop.

Agreed, men haven't changed a whole lot in 1000s of years, but yeah - it's porns fault...