online dating

tipphunter82

Hi all,

I have recently started online dating. I met a a slightly older woman on a dating app, we met and had a few drinks, where she then tells me she is married and only looking for fun.

My questions are, Is it common for married women to use dating apps for NSA?? Do any of ye have married friends who use the apps discretely?? New to this so was completely caught off guard and i am curious to know if its a common occurrence??

Thanks

beertons

Hold on till I open the popcorn.

Bigmac1euro

Smash and Dash pal

tipphunter82

beertons wrote: »

Hold on till I open the popcorn.

Jesus is it that bad out there lol lol

Apiarist

tipphunter82 wrote: »

Do any of ye have married friends who use the apps discretely?

Well, if they use the dating apps discretely, then how would I know?

To the topic though. Have you read your date's profile description on the dating app? Has she marked herself as single and looking for a long term relationship? Or as attached and looking for NSA?

tipphunter82

victor8600 wrote: »

Well, if they use the dating apps discretely, then how would I know?

To the topic though. Have you read your date's profile description on the dating app? Has she marked herself as single and looking for a long term relationship? Or as attached and looking for NSA?

Of course i did and no mention of anything like that until we met.

biko

I'm more of a CIA guy myself.

Junkyard Tom

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qrin0GyQfrQ

Church on Tuesday

I guess it depends on what you are comfortable with.

Not for me, but you're both grown adults, it happens all the time.

Deebles McBeebles

Here's you solution, OP. Have a look on Grindr. If the hubby is there, work away.

Otherwise I would say, pick better people.

Insect Overlord

tipphunter82 wrote: »

Jesus is it that bad out there lol lol

Which magazine/website are you writing for?

tipphunter82

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Here's you solution, OP. Have a look on Grindr. If the hubby is there, work away.

Otherwise I would say, pick better people.

Whats Grindr???

Pick better people you say?? Now how in the world would you know if a person is BETTER as you say, unless you meet them just like i did?? Its a profile on a dating app and anyone could turn up to the date. A bit of common sense please.

tipphunter82

Insect Overlord wrote: »

Which magazine/website are you writing for? [/QUO

I wish i was writing for a magazine/website lol lol

In fairness to the woman she told me within 10 mins of meeting.

Roger Hassenforder

tipphunter82 wrote: »

Hi all,

I have recently started online dating. I met a a slightly older woman on a dating app, we met and had a few drinks, where she then tells me she is married and only looking for fun.
Thanks

You'd never PM her details there bud?
For a *cough* friend

tipphunter82

Church on Tuesday wrote: »

I guess it depends on what you are comfortable with.

Not for me, but you're both grown adults, it happens all the time.

totally agree there but i was wondering how common it is or did i just get lucky??

tipphunter82

Roger Hassenforder wrote: »

You'd never PM her details there bud?
For a *cough* friend

Haha worth a try bud.

Darranj85

tipphunter82 wrote: »

totally agree there but i was wondering how common it is or did i just get lucky??

That indeed is the question OP. Did you get lucky?

tipphunter82

Darranj85 wrote: »

That indeed is the question OP. Did you get lucky?[/QUO

Im asking the people on here if ye have encounter anything similar.

Dating sites are awash with both married men and married women.

Been a while since I was on any but I've bumped into several married women.

Roger Hassenforder

Darranj85 wrote: »

That indeed is the question OP. Did you get lucky?

Now Im imaging it was Linda Martin as the older lady in the OP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nZYQluJW-dM

FFS Sharon, Im eating my breakfast

Church on Tuesday

tipphunter82 wrote: »

totally agree there but i was wondering how common it is or did i just get lucky??

I'd imagine it's common enough. Prob more so on Tinder than any other dating app.

Seemingly a lot of married men are on Tinder.

Deebles McBeebles

tipphunter82 wrote: »

Whats Grindr???

Pick better people you say?? Now how in the world would you know if a person is BETTER as you say, unless you meet them just like i did?? Its a profile on a dating app and anyone could turn up to the date. A bit of common sense please.

You might be well matched. A better person would have walked as soon as she mentioned infidelity.

Church on Tuesday

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

You might be well matched. A better person would have walked as soon as she mentioned infidelity.

Depends really. Sure the husband might know all about it and is fine with it.

Loads of dead marriages are like that, staying together for the kids or whatever other collateral arrangement or convenience.

Red_Wake

tipphunter82 wrote: »

Hi all,

I have recently started online dating. I met a a slightly older woman on a dating app, we met and had a few drinks, where she then tells me she is married and only looking for fun.

My questions are, Is it common for married women to use dating apps for NSA?? Do any of ye have married friends who use the apps discretely?? New to this so was completely caught off guard and i am curious to know if its a common occurrence??

Thanks

You should give her your username, seems appropriate.

Rufeo

I'm on one (what you use to light a fire - no not tinder and not a lighter) and it's mostly older women. Late thirties, forties and fifties.

Most of them look angry or wired. God knows they could probably do with a bit of NSA to lighten them up. Miserable witches

nthclare

Rufeo wrote: »

I'm on one (what you use to light a fire - no not tinder and not a lighter) and it's mostly older women. Late thirties, forties and fifties.

Most of them look angry or wired. God knows they could probably do with a bit of NSA to lighten them up. Miserable witches.

Lol I hear you.

My profile states
I'm not looking for a relationship or anything serious, NSA NSA NSA

No hopeless romantics, narcissists, or dregs

Happily single.... Just seeking company now and again.

It cuts out all the aul retched dramatics and control freaks.

Ironically my matches have gotten way better.
Successful educated professional women who are educated, independent and honest.

Honesty set's you free from the hopeless romantics and bunny boilers

corner of hells

nthclare wrote: »

Lol I hear you.

My profile states
I'm not looking for a relationship or anything serious, NSA NSA NSA

No hopeless romantics, narcissists, or dregs

Happily single.... Just seeking company now and again.

It cuts out all the aul retched dramatics and control freaks.

Ironically my matches have gotten way better.
Successful educated professional women who are educated, independent and honest.

Honesty set's you free from the hopeless romantics and bunny boilers

Yeah , but the bunny boilers are the fun ones , okay you're car might get keyed and a dinner thrown at you but the ridin' can be amazing.

nthclare

corner of hells wrote: »

Yeah , but the bunny boilers are the fun ones , okay you're car might get keyed and a dinner thrown at you but the ridin' can be amazing.

Lol they do like to impress that's for sure