Is being nasty to others ever allowed

black_and_blue

I've had some nasty people in my life, done horrible things to me, told me to go kill myself amongst some other horrible things. I normally fight fire with fire and told them to take their own advice. But I'm the bad guy.

Loads of horrible things done to me which resulted in me creating adverts on done deal so that they get random calls and an advert wanting to hook up. I know it's nasty of me but they were horrible to me first.

Leg End Reject

Have you considered therapy?

Bit sad to create false ads and the like.

Sir Osis of Liver.

Bit underhand to be fair,shoould have bet them black and blue instead.

mikemac2

black_and_blue wrote: »

I know it's nasty of me but they were horrible to me first.

Are you ten years old?

black_and_blue

mikemac2 wrote: »

Are you ten years old?

No. Some people are real asses though.

Collie D

black_and_blue wrote: »

No. Some people are real asses though.

11?

Potential-Monke

If you can't beat 'em, join 'em! Some people deserve it. It's so tempting to sign up customers who are dicks to me to random mailing lists!

Strumms

In life, you need to be able to stick up for and defend yourself.

I wasn’t always the type of guy to do that, I WAS quiet and not so proactive and when i didn’t it caused me, my family, loved ones a good bit of strife and could have cost me my life.

Now I stick up for myself. I have had to learn the hard way. My attitude is cause me a problem you will get two back. I won’t either be the one to care if you are a college lecturer, a medical doctor or professor, member of my family or whoever. We could have had a grand history but as soon as you cross the line rules are rewritten...

Don’t either make excuses for people...”ohhh his mother only died”....”ohhh they are having problems at home”.... etc... fûck em....

We all have ‘choices’ from the moment we wake in the morning, if you choose to make life difficult for someone else through acting unfair, cruel, unkind, harshly.... simply DONT ! If you don’t like someone edit them out of your life, don’t like a job ?... leave ! But don’t because you are in a disagreement with what they are doing, don’t like their success in life...think it’s ok to HURT someone. It’s not.

McMurphy

black_and_blue wrote: »

I've had some nasty people in my life, done horrible things to me, told me to go kill myself amongst some other horrible things. I normally fight fire with fire and told them to take their own advice. But I'm the bad guy.

Loads of horrible things done to me which resulted in me creating adverts on done deal so that they get random calls and an advert wanting to hook up. I know it's nasty of me but they were horrible to me first.

BuboBubo

black_and_blue wrote: »

I've had some nasty people in my life, done horrible things to me, told me to go kill myself amongst some other horrible things. I normally fight fire with fire and told them to take their own advice. But I'm the bad guy.

Loads of horrible things done to me which resulted in me creating adverts on done deal so that they get random calls and an advert wanting to hook up. I know it's nasty of me but they were horrible to me first.

Best thing to do with nasty people is ignore/cut them off - kick them out of your life.

Doing tit-for-tat adverts is a bit much, just walk away from the nasty ones and be kind to yourself.

black_and_blue

Johnny Dogs wrote: »

It wasn't him. But at least he apologized.

black_and_blue

BuboBubo wrote: »

Best thing to do with nasty people is ignore/cut them off - kick them out of your life.

Doing tit-for-tat adverts is a bit much, just walk away from the nasty ones and be kind to yourself.

Had someone pretending to be happy and moved on from my 'crap' and then they sent me a nasty message from their new number telling me all about how they moved on with their life. No apology from their side and all talk how it was all my fault. Nothing about what caused me to act out the way I did.

Ignoring is ok except when someone like that just comes back for more.

Strumms

black_and_blue wrote: »

Had someone pretending to be happy and moved on from my 'crap' and then they sent me a nasty message from their new number telling me all about how they moved on with their life. No apology from their side and all talk how it was all my fault. Nothing about what caused me to act out the way I did.

Ignoring is ok except when someone like that just comes back for more.

Thing is especially in this modern society, people more then ever crave attention, good or bad. To a negative fûckwit like that the very best thing to do is deny them the oxygen. When you see the beginning of the message on WhatsApp don’t open it. Deny them the satisfaction of a reply and the ‘blue tick’ notification that you have read it even... they don’t matter, silently let them know.

black_and_blue

Strumms wrote: »

Thing is especially in this modern society, people more then ever crave attention, good or bad. To a negative fûckwit like that the very best thing to do is deny them the oxygen. When you see the beginning of the message on WhatsApp don’t open it. Deny them the satisfaction of a reply and the ‘blue tick’ notification that you have read it even... they don’t matter, silently let them know.

This person is like talking to a brick wall, they take no responsibility for their own actions. I tried to get them to see how hurtful they were towards me but it didnt work. Talking to them didn't work, they only tried to intimidate me in my job... They've been blocked. I feel bad with what I did but this person is pure poison.

bottlebrush

Nastiness usually comes from jealousy. Jealous of something you have that they will never have. Jealous that you are somebody that they will never be. So instead of aspiring to the good and successful person you are its easier for them to try and bring you down to their level. So don't let them.
Stay good and successful. It's the best revenge.

paleoperson

That's called being a weasel OP, making you lower than some of the worst bullies. If you have a problem with someone, you confront them to their face or at least make it known it was you that did it.

It's fair enough to want to punch back and get retribution but you're not entitled to it and sometimes it just doesn't happen.

Mad_maxx

black_and_blue wrote: »

I've had some nasty people in my life, done horrible things to me, told me to go kill myself amongst some other horrible things. I normally fight fire with fire and told them to take their own advice. But I'm the bad guy.

Loads of horrible things done to me which resulted in me creating adverts on done deal so that they get random calls and an advert wanting to hook up. I know it's nasty of me but they were horrible to me first.

More odd than nasty, what good was it if they didn't know you were behind it?

73bc61lyohr0mu

I swear this site is gone to the dogs. Just full of moaners complaining about inane stuff. We'll all be dead soon, what does it matter.

black_and_blue

bottlebrush wrote: »

Nastiness usually comes from jealousy. Jealous of something you have that they will never have. Jealous that you are somebody that they will never be. So instead of aspiring to the good and successful person you are its easier for them to try and bring you down to their level. So don't let them.
Stay good and successful. It's the best revenge.

This is very true. Same person loved copying me. They just loved me so much because they're life was so miserable.

black_and_blue

paleoperson wrote: »

That's called being a weasel OP, making you lower than some of the worst bullies. If you have a problem with someone, you confront them to their face or at least make it known it was you that did it.

It's fair enough to want to punch back and get retribution but you're not entitled to it and sometimes it just doesn't happen.

What if you did confront them with their own behaviour towards you but they turn it around on you. It's what they do. And they continue and continue to be asses.

bottlebrush

black_and_blue wrote: »

What if you did confront them with their own behaviour towards you but they turn it around on you. It's what they do. And they continue and continue to be asses.

Are they people it would be difficult to get away from such as family, neighbours or work colleagues?

Cee-Jay-Cee

R u ok hun??


I thought the OP accidentally posted this thread instead of replying to the Facebook status thread.

Redneck Reject

OP needs Dr.Phil. seriously fvck them and move on. Your only empowering them by hanging on to the crappy things they done to ya.

paleoperson

black_and_blue wrote: »

What if you did confront them with their own behaviour towards you but they turn it around on you. It's what they do. And they continue and continue to be asses.

Well tough. You can escalate your confrontation or move on. Nobody said life is fair. Either you confront them up front or you work on your own life.

Think about if you had the NK leader as your master and you hated him but could punish him in some way without him knowing it. Are you going to do that? Probably not because it's a waste of your time and will probably just make things worse. You either try to get to the root problem or you move on.

ILoveYourVibes

No its not.

Sunny Disposition

Putting up fake ads to irritate someone. Not very mature but I think this is genius and very funny!

jaxxx

An eye for an eye turns the whole world blind.


That being said, I'm not shy of throwing some hyperboles around when the need arises.

wakka12

Well we dont know the whole story. Im sure there are reasons that they told you to go kill yourself, those comments dont come out of nowhere. Do you provoke them? If they were unwarranted then I see nothing wrong with your petty little revenge schemes

jaxxx

wakka12 wrote: »

Well we dont know the whole story. Im sure there are reasons that they told you to go kill yourself, those comments dont come out of nowhere. Do you provoke them? If they were unwarranted then I see nothing wrong with your petty little revenge schemes

You've obviously never played multiplayer video games online. Part and parcel of the whole gig, sadly.

Strumms

black_and_blue wrote: »

This person is like talking to a brick wall, they take no responsibility for their own actions. I tried to get them to see how hurtful they were towards me but it didnt work. Talking to them didn't work, they only tried to intimidate me in my job... They've been blocked. I feel bad with what I did but this person is pure poison.

Don’t feel bad, you needed to stick up for yourself and you did. They had no regard for your wellbeing so to defend yourself you did what you had to... i also believe that if someone punches you once you punch them back twice and twice as hard....

ILoveYourVibes

jaxxx wrote: »

You've obviously never played multiplayer video games online. Part and parcel of the whole gig, sadly.

Its everywhere online.

Weird thing is if you message them to try and sort things out they can't deal with it. They then feel bullied. Which might be how they truly feel.

Some people have zero self control over what they type. And they can't follow rules.

Roger Hassenforder

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Its everywhere online.

Weird thing is if you message them to try and sort things out they can't deal with it. They then feel bullied. Which might be how they truly feel.

Some people have zero self control over what they type. And they can't follow rules.

Thirst a kid on PUBG, and you're in for a whole new level of hate.
Gold though.

ILoveYourVibes

Roger Hassenforder wrote: »

Thirst a kid on PUBG, and you're in for a whole new level of hate.
Gold though.

I left. It was another level of crazy.

One tracked me down on fb and then tried to ask me out.

Graces7

to the header. No. Best to stay silent.

Tangatagamadda Chaddabinga Bonga Bungo

Johnny Dogs wrote: »

A Minister of Finance that didn't have a bank account.

He won all his money at the horses.

You couldn't make that up and make it believable.