Followed & Watched

Milly15

My ex husband still is following me, watching my home & movements. His most recent stunt last week was being caught going through my refuse bin by a neighbour in the middle of the night.

People might say go to the guards, I have and they are powerless. Go to court.... I have and he gets away with it.

Is there anyway to be free if this pathetic spineless bully who think he can terrorise me?
Help.

gibgodsman

Milly15 wrote: »

My ex husband still is following me, watching my home & movements. His most recent stunt last week was being caught going through my refuse bin by a neighbour in the middle of the night.

People might say go to the guards, I have and they are powerless. Go to court.... I have and he gets away with it.

Is there anyway to be free if this pathetic spineless bully who think he can terrorise me?
Help.

Surely a barring order would be something to look into? Have you got a solicitor? They would be the best people to ask regarding something like this, if your neighbor is willing to say what they saw it should be fairly straight forward.

Milly15

gibgodsman wrote: »

Surely a barring order would be something to look into? Have you got a solicitor? They would be the best people to ask regarding something like this, if your neighbor is willing to say what they saw it should be fairly straight forward.

I have a solicitor, tried to get a safety order. He pulled a stunt with his solicitor and gave a promise to the court to stay away....which he’s clearly broken. My neighbour has reported this to the gardai. I’m afraid to even walk my dog at this stage.

Sono

What the hell is he looking for in the bins? Seems bizarre behaviour

gibgodsman

Milly15 wrote: »

I have a solicitor, tried to get a safety order. He pulled a stunt with his solicitor and gave a promise to the court to stay away....which he’s clearly broken. My neighbour has reported this to the gardai. I’m afraid to even walk my dog at this stage.

Surely you have went to your solicitor since with your neighbour? I would be shocked if a barring order wasn't granted

Milly15

gibgodsman wrote: »

Surely you have went to your solicitor since with your neighbour? I would be shocked if a barring order wasn't granted

Thank you, I have left a message for my solicitor, just in the meantime what am I supposed to do?

gibgodsman

Milly15 wrote: »

Thank you, I have left a message for my solicitor, just in the meantime what am I supposed to do?

Do you have kids? What is your living situation? If you have family maybe go and stay with them until its sorted, If your ex is being this much of a weirdo I honestly would not risk staying in that house on your own.

Milly15

gibgodsman wrote: »

Do you have kids? What is your living situation? If you have family maybe go and stay with them until its sorted, If your ex is being this much of a weirdo I honestly would not risk staying in that house on your own.

I live with my 4 children,
My family sadly died six years ago, I have lovely neighbours who watch out for me but leaving my home is an impossibility for me. I lock up and try to be vigilant.

nuac

Mod
As already advised you should see your solicitor immediately.
As this is a public forum that can be read by anyone I am closing it. I think that would be in your best interests,
Good luck