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Neice univited me to her Hen

  • 02-08-2018 4:40pm
    #1
    mindlet
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51 ✭✭


    uninvited to neices Hen no idea why
    Happened 3 months before wedding. Very hurt. Decided not to go to wedding
    This was last year. Still no apology and now they have a baby and we were not invited to family gathering to see baby. Stabbed in the heart twice. Really hurt. Any advice welcome.


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  • #2
    Dial Hard
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,222 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    mindlet wrote:
    Any advice welcome.

    Speak to her and ask her what's going on.


  • #3
    5rtytry56
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,828 ✭✭✭5rtytry56


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    Speak to her and ask her what's going on.

    Literally GRASP THE NETTLE op.


    Or take it on the chin.


  • #4
    jobbridge4life
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,759 ✭✭✭jobbridge4life


    To be honest OP I think the best you can do is as other posters have suggested, talk to your neice, or failing that her family. I also think you will have to accept that there is probably blame on both sides. You were disinvited to a hen party, but you chose not to attend the wedding, which you were still invited to and is obviously the more important event. I'm not trying to make you feel bad but I think you should be prepared to to acknowledge that it may have hurt your neice.


  • #5
    GingerLily
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,767 ✭✭✭GingerLily


    What other family were invited to the hen?


  • #6
    GingerLily
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,767 ✭✭✭GingerLily


    OP, I've seen your other thread on PI.

    You weren't invited to the hen, so it's unfair to say you were uninvited.

    How are you related to your niece? Are you her aunt through marriage?


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  • #7
    rainbowtrout
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,397 ✭✭✭✭rainbowtrout


    GingerLily wrote: »
    OP, I've seen your other thread on PI.

    You weren't invited to the hen, so it's unfair to say you were uninvited.

    How are you related to your niece? Are you her aunt through marriage?

    Sounds like it. She mentioned that the other sisters in law were going which sounds like she married the niece's uncle.


    OP, you weren't invited to the hen, hens are invite only. You probably owe your niece an apology.


  • #8
    manonboard
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,104 ✭✭✭manonboard


    You didn't go to her wedding, and now wonder why you are not invited to other intimate events?

    OP, if you got a grievance with her, talk to her. Saying you've been stabbed in the heart twice when you bailed on her wedding is a bit pot/kettle.


  • #9
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Mod note: Thread closed as OP has an identical one in PI.

    OP, please do not start multiple identical threads, thanks :)


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