Jealous fiancee issues

LegacyUser

Fiancee as of a few months ago has jealousy issues over a childhood female friend. Without going into details it's come to a point where she says she wouldn't be welcome at our wedding even though she would have been an extremely good friend of mine for 15+ years although naturally you drift away and only talk infrequently in recent years.

There was a minor spat between them years ago due to the gfs anxiety issues at the time and taking social media "likes" on pictures to heart with a girl that was never anything more than a friend of mine - more of a sister than anything else!! It could have ended our relationship as my gf tried stamping her "authority" which I wasn't letting happen.

Any does one deal with this!?

NiceFella

You only have the one option I'm afraid and that's to confront her about it. But obviously it is a sensitive issue so it will take some skill on your part to not get engaged in a furore of petty insults and accusations. This will invariably happen when you do. You just need to stay on point and stay calm and keep bringing it back to the issue. You can't have a healthy relationship with someone who is trying to decide for you who you can and can't be friends with.

Batgurl

You seem to be trying to minimise your fiancées issues with this girl as “in her head” and “completely unfounded”. Are you sure this is the case? If they are causing your partner pain then your diminishing of her feelings is probably just exacerbating it.

You say you’ve lost touch with this girl, is it really important you invite her to your wedding?

GingerLily

If this friend doesn't like your fiancé then why would she go to the wedding?