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Can I Accommodate Homeless Couple?

  • 24-05-2018 6:33pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭


    Hi guys,

    I just met a couple and they are currently homeless. The DSP and County Council homeless unit can't help and told them to go and sort themselves out or return to Italy. The wife is 7months pregnant with twins

    We have 4bed and no spare room, but I have a pump bed but not sure if by law we can accommodate them temporarily pending the time they will apply for PPS number and look for job. The husband is desperate to work. I plan to throw in my pump bed in living room for them but I just want to know if I need to inform my county council as I am on Hap. Also do I need to inform my social welfare office? I just want to help.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,684 ✭✭✭✭Samuel T. Cogley


    Laudable OP but no good deed goes unpunished.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,268 ✭✭✭✭uck51js9zml2yt


    While is laudable what you consider doing.
    You would be better off buying a plane ticket for them to go home to Italy.

    If they have no PPS and no job it would appear that they came here with no plan.

    On a practical note, you have a full house, no idea how long tey would end up staying with you and a baby on the way. Are you really going to throw them out in 2 months or when baby is born.?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,841 ✭✭✭Squatter


    20784 wrote: »
    Hi guys,

    I just met a couple and they are currently homeless. The DSP and County Council homeless unit can't help and told them to go and sort themselves out or return to Italy. The wife is 7months pregnant.

    We have 4bed and no spare room, but I have a pump bed but not sure if by law we can accommodate them temporarily pending the time they will apply for PPS number and look for job. The husband is desperate to work. I plan to throw in my pump bed in living room for them but I just want to know if I need to inform my county council as I am on Hap. Also do I need to inform my social welfare office? I just want to help.

    They won't be able to get a PPSN without good reason.

    "Evidence of identity and address must be provided. In addition, evidence as to why a PPS Number is required must also be provided"

    And they may not be able to get onto the social housing list.

    IMHO it is completely insane of them to have turned up in Ireland on spec.

    My (probably worthless) advice to you is to tread very carefully.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,189 ✭✭✭✭Sleeper12


    Being from Italy they are EU citizens & are entitled to live & work here. I'd imagine that they are entitled to social welfare here too.

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with you putting them up. I suggest that you photo copy their passports in case you come home and you've no furniture left. Don't leave card or bank statements lying around and be careful with them on your pc. Take the same precautions you'd take if you took in an Irish homeless couple.

    Did they come to Ireland with no money at all?

    I'd love to see how you get on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭20784


    Sleeper12 wrote: »
    Being from Italy they are EU citizens & are entitled to live & work here. I'd imagine that they are entitled to social welfare here too.

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with you putting them up. I suggest that you photo copy their passports in case you come home and you've no furniture left. Don't leave card or bank statements lying around and be careful with them on your pc. Take the same precautions you'd take if you took in an Irish homeless couple.

    Did they come to Ireland with no money at all?

    I'd love to see how you get on.

    Yes that's correct. The wife is Italian and the husband is the Spouse and has the EUFam.. They have right to live here legally. They came to live here and the uncle who assured them of accommodation didn't pick his call and his number is no longer going through.

    The husband want to work and start family life. They are expecting twins.


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  • Posts: 11,614 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    20784 wrote: »
    Yes that's correct. The wife is Italian and the husband is the Spouse and has the EUFam.. They have right to live here legally. They came to live here and the uncle who assured them of accommodation didn't pick his call and his number is no longer going through.

    The husband want to work and start family life. They are expecting twins.

    I'm going to sound so heartless but are you 100% they are Italian? Like seen their passports? The uncle story sounds suspicious to me. Could you help to find the uncle instead?

    In a situation like this, you're leaving yourself very vulnerable. Best case scenario they are just down on their luck. Worst case? They change the locks while you are out leaving you homeless? Please go into this with eyes wide open.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,461 ✭✭✭Bubbaclaus


    20784 wrote: »
    Yes that's correct. The wife is Italian and the husband is the Spouse and has the EUFam.. They have right to live here legally. They came to live here and the uncle who assured them of accommodation didn't pick his call and his number is no longer going through.

    The husband want to work and start family life. They are expecting twins.

    This "uncle" story sounds very suspect. I'd be keeping well away from this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 633 ✭✭✭zoe 3619


    No advice for you really,but fair play to you for caring.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭20784


    I'm going to sound so heartless but are you 100% they are Italian? Like seen their passports? The uncle story sounds suspicious to me. Could you help to find the uncle instead?

    In a situation like this, you're leaving yourself very vulnerable. Best case scenario they are just down on their luck. Worst case? They change the locks while you are out leaving you homeless? Please go into this with eyes wide open.

    I saw their passports. The guards involved already. I dropped them off the guards station where they got more information what and what they need to register in full.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,858 ✭✭✭✭fritzelly


    She's Italian, he's from outside the EU, they arrive in Ireland to meet an "uncle"

    There's a familiar story here...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 834 ✭✭✭GGTrek


    Sleeper12 wrote: »
    Being from Italy they are EU citizens & are entitled to live & work here. I'd imagine that they are entitled to social welfare here too.

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with you putting them up. I suggest that you photo copy their passports in case you come home and you've no furniture left. Don't leave card or bank statements lying around and be careful with them on your pc. Take the same precautions you'd take if you took in an Irish homeless couple.

    Did they come to Ireland with no money at all?

    I'd love to see how you get on.
    They are not entitled to any social welfare at all unless they have paid at least a few years of PRSI in Ireland (I forgot how long), these people are very irresponsible in coming to Ireland with a woman that is 7 months pregnant and will very likely screw the OP big time and even worse the OP's family who should have a say in the matter. In my life anytime I helped an irresponsible person, things have always gone pear shaped, now I am older and my cynism (being a landlord having to deal with bad tenants has considerably increased my level of cynism) has helped me a lot in life and even more in business.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,059 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    I admire you caring nature. BUT, surely if they present themselves to homeless services with twins on the way and so on they will be given priority temporary accommodation in an hotel or B+B surely?

    Steer them in that direction.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭20784


    Bubbaclaus wrote: »
    This "uncle" story sounds very suspect. I'd be keeping well away from this.

    The guards involved already, I actually dropped them off the guard station where they got more information what and what they need to register in full as per they need proof of address. So nothing suspicious at all. I've experienced this myself years ago although I well planned myself then. The difference :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,732 ✭✭✭BarryD2


    20784 wrote: »
    Hi guys,

    I just met a couple and they are currently homeless. The DSP and County Council homeless unit can't help and told them to go and sort themselves out or return to Italy. The wife is 7months pregnant with twins

    We have 4bed and no spare room, but I have a pump bed but not sure if by law we can accommodate them temporarily pending the time they will apply for PPS number and look for job. The husband is desperate to work. I plan to throw in my pump bed in living room for them but I just want to know if I need to inform my county council as I am on Hap. Also do I need to inform my social welfare office? I just want to help.

    Presume you're renting? Maybe you should also check with the person who owns the house?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,578 ✭✭✭Scraggs


    I find it very difficult to believe that in 2018 there is no other way to contact this uncle. The cynic in me says tread carefully!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,858 ✭✭✭✭fritzelly


    I wonder how old the Italian passport is and whether she is actually Italian by birth, not a marriage of convenience but a route into another country by marriage of a granted residency of another non EU person
    Seems very fishy to move to another country with no money, nowhere to live and no job when you are about to drop 2 kids


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭20784


    GGTrek wrote: »
    They are not entitled to any social welfare at all unless they have paid at least a few years of PRSI in Ireland (I forgot how long), these people are very irresponsible in coming to Ireland with a woman that is 7 months pregnant and will very likely screw the OP big time and even worse the OP's family who should have a say in the matter. In my life anytime I helped an irresponsible person, things have always gone pear shaped, now I am older and my cynism (being a landlord having to deal with bad tenants has considerably increased my level of cynism) has helped me a lot in life and even more in business.

    They are not here to claim benefit. They came to live and work. I agree that they didn't have a plan B only they rely on the uncle. However, the deed has been done and I think this is not the time to put blame on anyone. The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,189 ✭✭✭✭Sleeper12


    BarryD2 wrote:
    Presume you're renting? Maybe you should also check with the person who owns the house?


    Funny I presumed that they were a homeowner. It's more than a bit cheeky if they are renting


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭20784


    fritzelly wrote: »
    I wonder how old the Italian passport is and whether she is actually Italian by birth, not a marriage of convenience but a route into another country by marriage of a granted residency of another non EU person
    Seems very fishy to move to another country with no money, nowhere to live and no job when you are about to drop 2 kids

    No not at all, the wife is Italian from birth, they are both from the same village and grew up together according to the wife they actually speaks the same language.


  • Posts: 11,614 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    20784 wrote: »
    The guards involved already, I actually dropped them off the guard station where they got more information what and what they need to register in full as per they need proof of address. So nothing suspicious at all. I've experienced this myself years ago although I well planned myself then. The difference :D

    What do you mean the guards are involved already? Them going to the garda station to ask what they need to register does not mean they are perfectly kosher and a desk sergeant handing them leaflets doesnt equate to them being 'involved'.

    As another poster said does the uncle have a Facebook? A surname? A job? If you fully believe their story, your next task is finding tbe uncle.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 364 ✭✭LincolnHawk


    If it's just you or your other half then sure, do what you like although it sounds risky. If you have your own kids too then you're stark raving mad imho


  • Posts: 11,614 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Sleeper12 wrote: »
    Funny I presumed that they were a homeowner. It's more than a bit cheeky if they are renting

    The OP said they are receiving the HAP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,858 ✭✭✭✭fritzelly


    20784 wrote: »
    No not at all, the wife is Italian from birth, they are both from the same village and grew up together according to the wife they actually speaks the same language.

    He's not from the Italy tho. If he's been living all his life in Italy from a kid why is he not a registered Italian citizen

    Curious how you came to meet them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 769 ✭✭✭annoyedgal


    Seems madness that anyone would move to another country at 7 month pregnant with twins without proper set up of job and accommodation. And even crazier that they would not return home now that it's fallen through. Your intentions are very good fair play op but thread carefully esp if you have children of your own in the house.
    Do you really want to take on two strangers and newborn twins??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 925 ✭✭✭RHJ


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭20784


    What do you mean the guards are involved already? Them going to the garda station to ask what they need to register does not mean they are perfectly kosher and a desk sergeant handing them leaflets doesnt equate to them being 'involved'.

    As another poster said does the uncle have a Facebook? A surname? A job? If you fully believe their story, your next task is finding tbe uncle.

    Met them close by the guards entrance when they approached. I believe the uncle deliberately switched off his phone when he realised they are truly coming over. This happens a lot...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,593 ✭✭✭Wheeliebin30


    Jesus, something tells me I’ll hear the op on joe Duffy in a few months.

    Stay well clear.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,315 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    Sounds like the women hopes that the twins get Irish citizenship when born here.

    The uncle not picking up the phone sounds like the uncle doesn't want them, f he even exists!

    They could take anything not bolted to the wall, and it'll be your word against theirs that you didn't give it to them. Likewise with jewelry going missing.

    =-=

    Increasing the people in the house without the LL's prior written permission could lead to you being evicted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,310 ✭✭✭✭Mantis Toboggan


    Sounds like a scam OP you wouldn't be the first person to be duped, steer clear.

    Free Palestine 🇵🇸



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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,480 ✭✭✭wexie


    the_syco wrote: »
    Sounds like the women hopes that the twins get Irish citizenship when born here.

    There wouldn't be any real advantage to Irish citizenship over Italian though would there?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,586 ✭✭✭4068ac1elhodqr


    Sounds like an issue Lily Allen or Madonna could probably out help with.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,858 ✭✭✭✭fritzelly


    20784 wrote: »
    Met them close by the guards entrance when they approached. I believe the uncle deliberately switched off his phone when he realised they are truly coming over. This happens a lot...

    So they approached you

    Happens a lot? People arrive heavily pregnant to meet an uncle?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,423 ✭✭✭tinkerbell


    You are being very foolish to go ahead with this and are putting the welfare of your own family at risk. This would be a very stupid move. If they have nowhere to live and work then they should consider going back to Italy where they have local family supports.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,423 ✭✭✭tinkerbell


    Just saw that they approached you ... scam!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭20784


    fritzelly wrote: »
    He's not from the Italy tho. If he's been living all his life in Italy from a kid why is he not a registered Italian citizen

    Curious how you came to meet them.

    I have no idea about registration in Italy. Obviously they showed me their passports and marriage certs as I can't just get involved with total strangers, I was convinced as we went in the guards station together. But they were referred to homeless unit. The homeless unit require pps number, and to get pps number you must provide proof of address. You understand now. I've accommodated an Irish guy for two days who got drunk sometimes last year, although i informed guards about it and they said it's ok but i must ask his ID which he showed me. So if this similar it would have been more easier. Thanks anyway.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,858 ✭✭✭✭fritzelly


    You've seen his passport - where is he from?

    I'm 100% convinced you are being taken for a ride.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,644 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    Bizarre that you would take in a story and then move people in.

    They sound like economic tourists where they know the system is much better here.

    Best place for them is back home.


  • Posts: 11,614 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    20784 wrote: »
    Met them close by the guards entrance when they approached. I believe the uncle deliberately switched off his phone when he realised they are truly coming over. This happens a lot...

    Why do you keep saying the guards are involved if you met them, actually was approached by them near a garda station?

    Im close to the Jeanie Johnson right now but it doesn't mean I'm involved in the navy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,858 ✭✭✭✭fritzelly




  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I admire you caring nature. BUT, surely if they present themselves to homeless services with twins on the way and so on they will be given priority temporary accommodation in an hotel or B+B surely?

    Steer them in that direction.

    Kind of unfair that some Homeless Irish person might lose their spot in a homeless shelter because these people turned up to a foreign country with no means of supporting themselves.

    To be brutally honest and a bit cold I would stay well away from this, its their own stupidity for taking such a risk when she is pregnant. I would never dream of taking such a risk if my wife was pregant.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,082 ✭✭✭enricoh


    Is the italian passport real or fake?
    Decided to relocate while 7 months pregnant?
    Can they not go back to that war torn hellhole - Italy?
    Is their money tied up in a Nigerian diamond mine and just need 10k to get it out?!

    If I was your landlord and got wind of this I'd congratulate you on your humanity and serve you with an eviction notice!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,286 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    BUT, surely if they present themselves to homeless services with twins on the way and so on they will be given priority temporary accommodation in an hotel or B+B surely?

    Steer them in that direction.

    Nope, not if they don't have any connection to this country.

    OP, how do you know it's twins? How do you know they're Italian - do you know an Italian speaker who can have a conversation with them to check the story out?

    There is a slight chance that their story is legit.

    There's a far higher chance that some Roma people have learned enough English to have advanced to this next level of "fundraising".


    And lastly ... no you cannot accommodate them. You are on HAP. Conditions of this include getting the council's approval for anyone who lives in the house - and there's no way the council will appprove overcrowding.


    TBH, I would recommand contacting your local branch of Vincent de Paul (or Focus or Peter McVerry or similar if they are in your areas). Their folks are experienced at realistic compassion, and will help this couple secure tickets home or whatever else is appropriate.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,378 ✭✭✭CeilingFly


    I've tried very hard to see it from your angle, but everything shouts scam.

    The uncle, the willingness to show passports and even marriage certs, the 7 month pregnancy (handy, just at the no travel stage)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,957 ✭✭✭CelticRambler


    20784 wrote: »
    They are not here to claim benefit. They came to live and work.


    ... to live and look for work, which is their right under EU freedom of movement. But if they don't find any within three months, then their entitlement to stay expires unless they have sufficient resources to support themselves. That does not appear to be the case, so the advice they've been given - go back to Italy - is the best they're going to get.


    I see the other side of this here in France, with people (mostly English :confused: ) just deciding some day that they want to live and (look for) work in France, with absolutely no idea of what they're getting themselves into. They can spend over a decade living in a mouldy caravan in the middle of nowhere before finally giving up and going to back to the UK. Chances are you'll have your lodgers for the same length of time if you're not careful.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,841 ✭✭✭Squatter


    20784 wrote: »

    They came to live and work.

    To live where?

    The husband/partner may have come here to work - with what qualifications, if any?

    But his 7 months pregnant wife/partner definitely didn't.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 962 ✭✭✭James 007


    She wont be expecting any twins if you put her on a blow up bed. Expect to be sued.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,750 ✭✭✭Avatar MIA


    20784 wrote: »
    Hi guys,

    The wife is 7months pregnant

    Any room in the Inn?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 359 ✭✭tintin67


    They are both Roma scam artists. Good love your innocence. If you are determined to throw your money away buy them Ryanair flights to 'Italy' but do not under any circumstances allow them into your home.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 771 ✭✭✭HappyAsLarE


    You are being had, OP. Could be a hard lesson.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,268 ✭✭✭✭uck51js9zml2yt


    20784 wrote: »
    No not at all, the wife is Italian from birth, they are both from the same village and grew up together according to the wife they actually speaks the same language.

    And you verified this story how exactly?


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