Have you ever had an unwanted sexual experience? Mod warning in op - updated 6/3/18

freshpopcorn

I had a mild one when I was around 19 at college this girl slightly became obsessed with me.
She basically sat on me and unbuttoned my shirt and then proceed to get to other areas. I pushed her off tough then.
She was obsessed with me. Never stopped talking about me to people. People taught we were going out. Eventually tough she blocked me on social media because I was trolling her or something. She then moved onto a guy that was nearly twice her age.
Have you ever had an unwanted sexual experience?



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*(wrong word but can't think of better)

Admin warning added 06/03/18:

freshpopcorn wrote: »

Can we please keep this thread reserved for the experiences that are being share.d

OK, if this mod instruction is not followed I will close the thread, which would be a big shame, as the wider topic is a very worthy one to remain in an active thread

Any questions, please PM me - do not respond to this post in-thread

Thanks

suicide_circus

Unwanted by whom?

Ultimate Seduction

No sexual experience is ever unwanted. I welcome all horny women to do as they please with me

The_Valeyard

Ultimate Seduction wrote: »

No sexual experience is ever unwanted. I welcome all horny women to do as they please with me

Steal a kidney?

antodeco

The_Valeyard wrote: »

Steal a kidney?

Well you wouldn't steal a movie!

Ulysses Gaze

Ultimate Seduction wrote: »

No sexual experience is ever unwanted. I welcome all horny women to do as they please with me

Step on your nuts with stilettos?

Mongfinder General

I got a finger in the sheriffs badge. I was like howling mad murdoch for a couple of seconds.

Koala Sunshine

Save the Black Babies wrote: »

Saturday night two weeks ago in my local. At the bar drinking, a bunch of pissed middle aged women to my left. I had my left hand down by my side and one of the women, quite discreetly, began rubbing her arse against my hand. She did have a nice behind so I actually enjoyed it. I'm addicted to sex too so I thought of bringing her home.

Classic female seduction, reversing that ass into you.

Koala Sunshine

corner of hells wrote: »

And where was this local ?

This happens everywhere, women are subtle about it so most men don't even realise it's happening around them unless they are the subject of the "inadvertent contact".

BurnUp78

freshpopcorn wrote: »

She looked a little like a Morbeg!

Wow.. I haven't heard of morbegs since I was like 3 years old yet as soon as I read the word the song popped into my head! Crazy.

whoopsadoodles

I've had plenty of men "try it on" that I had zero interest in but only two experiences stand out as bad.

One, where I was in a bar in Galway and a guy put his hand up my skirt and grabbed me. I instinctively punched him in side of the head. He seemed shocked I hadn't enjoyed it.

Another time I was at a boards beers, a fellow mod was filming my legs. When caught, he informed me that I wasn't to worry, that he wouldn't post it in After hours and it was only for him. He was removed by security. There had been a few witnesses. Absolute creep of the highest order. Sickened that he still posts here from his promoted position. Scumbag.

Discodog

whoopsadoodles wrote: »

I've had plenty of men "try it on" that I had zero interest in but only two experiences stand out as bad.

One, where I was in a bar in Galway and a guy put his hand up my skirt and grabbed me. I instinctively punched him in side of the head. He seemed shocked I hadn't enjoyed it.

Another time I was at a boards beers, a fellow mod was filming my legs. When caught, he informed me that I wasn't to worry, that he wouldn't post it in After hours and it was only for him. He was removed by security. There had been a few witnesses. Absolute creep of the highest order. Sickened that he still posts here from his promoted position. Scumbag.

Wow. That beats the Tesco scandal. Have you ever been tempted to out him ?

I was in a venue in Galway watching a band with a mate. I felt something rubbing my bum & mentioned it to my mate. He glanced around & said your in luck.

I turned around & a very pretty young girl flung her arms around my neck. I quickly realised that this was the only way that she could stand up :pac: I looked around the room & spotted her boyfriend at the bar.

I went to one of the bouncers & said that there was going to be trouble. Next minute the boyfriend was knocking nine bells out of the next lad that she used as a support.

freshpopcorn

BurnUp78 wrote: »

Wow.. I haven't heard of morbegs since I was like 3 years old yet as soon as I read the word the song popped into my head! Crazy.

whoopsadoodles

Discodog wrote: »

Wow. That beats the Tesco scandal. Have you ever been tempted to out him ?

Very tempted, yes.

However I decided it against it because it had been a beers that boards.ie had invited mods to, the company ran it themselves rather than your regular public meetup. I informed boards HO of the incident (there were witnesses remember) and a few weeks later he was promoted to Cmod, so I figured it was more likely that I'd get banned if I named him and someone that pathetic isn't worth getting banned for

Omackeral

Ultimate Seduction wrote: »

I welcome all horny women to do as they please with me

#MeToo

Discodog

whoopsadoodles wrote: »

Very tempted, yes.

However I decided it against it because it had been a beers that boards.ie had invited mods to, the company ran it themselves rather than your regular public meetup. I informed boards HO of the incident (there were witnesses remember) and a few weeks later he was promoted to Cmod, so I figured it was more likely that I'd get banned if I named him and someone that pathetic isn't worth getting banned for

At least you have the "pleasure" of knowing that he knows you know

I was bemoaning the lack of Galway Beers - now I know why ?

whoopsadoodles

Discodog wrote: »

At least you have the "pleasure" of knowing that he knows you know

I was bemoaning the lack of Galway Beers - now I know why ?

The best AH beers I ever went to was in Galway! So much craic.

suicide_circus

^^thought you were joking with your first post! That's mad.

Pherekydes

Ultimate Seduction wrote: »

No sexual experience is ever unwanted. I welcome all horny women to do as they please with me

What if they aren't women? Never hear of hazing?

retro:electro

A few weeks ago in a bar in Galway I was walking up the stairs to the toilet and the guy coming up behind me unzipped my dress all the way down and undid my bra clasp and was going to feel my boob. He got a fine smack in the gob for his efforts.

qwerty ui op

whoopsadoodles wrote: »

Very tempted, yes.

However I decided it against it because it had been a beers that boards.ie had invited mods to, the company ran it themselves rather than your regular public meetup. I informed boards HO of the incident (there were witnesses remember) and a few weeks later he was promoted to Cmod, so I figured it was more likely that I'd get banned if I named him and someone that pathetic isn't worth getting banned for

It's likely he's reading this now, I wounder what he thinks. He must be afraid you'll say, feck it and blurt it out.

suicide_circus

anna080 wrote: »

A few weeks ago in a bar in Galway I was walking up the stairs to the toilet and the guy coming up behind me unzipped my dress all the way down and undid my bra clasp and was going to feel my boob. He got a fine smack in the gob for his efforts.

All while you were walking up a flight of stairs?

limnam

anna080 wrote: »

A few weeks ago in a bar in Galway I was walking up the stairs to the toilet and the guy coming up behind me unzipped my dress all the way down and undid my bra clasp and was going to feel my boob. He got a fine smack in the gob for his efforts.

That's some amount of work to get done before the slap.

Some weirdos out there. Very fast moving weirdos though.

Schindlers Pissed

Was out one night with a few friends from work. A female from work deliberately reversed into my groin and knew exactly what she was doing.....however, she grew up on the same street as my wife, and she knows I'm married.....happily married. She was just trying to start trouble, not to be trusted so she was disappointed when I walked away.

retro:electro

limnam wrote: »

That's some amount of work to get done before the slap.

Some weirdos out there. Very fast moving weirdos though.

I didn't feel him unzip the dress! Only realised what was happening when I felt his hand going around for the grab

joe199

Schindlers Pissed wrote:

Was out one night with a few friends from work. A female from work deliberately reversed into my groin and knew exactly what she was doing.....however, she grew up on the same street as my wife, and she knows I'm married.....happily married. She was just trying to start trouble, not to be trusted so she was disappointed when I walked away.

But what really happened? And was she good?

suicide_circus

Schindlers Pissed wrote: »

Was out one night with a few friends from work. A female from work deliberately reversed into my groin and knew exactly what she was doing.....however, she grew up on the same street as my wife, and she knows I'm married.....happily married. She was just trying to start trouble, not to be trusted so she was disappointed when I walked away.

Did you tell the wife?

Schindlers Pissed

Ha! That's what really happened and no, I didn't tell my wife....

wakka12

anna080 wrote: »

A few weeks ago in a bar in Galway I was walking up the stairs to the toilet and the guy coming up behind me unzipped my dress all the way down and undid my bra clasp and was going to feel my boob. He got a fine smack in the gob for his efforts.

Gosh he got a lot done before you reacted!

eviltwin

qwerty ui op wrote: »

It's likely he's reading this now, I wounder what he thinks. He must be afraid you'll say, feck it and blurt it out.

If he's reading this now I hope he realises what an utter scumbag he is. He owes Whoops an apology.

retro:electro

wakka12 wrote: »

Gosh he got a lot done before you reacted!

I know! Shame on me!
:rolleyes:

wakka12

Some gay guys can be a little bit too forward but one time stood out when a guy came up behind me and put his hand all the way into my trousers down my boxers and felt my ass and actually was trying to start fingering me i think, this was in the middle of a dance floor in a small not very busy club
Im gay myself but it was still a bit shocking

banie01

anna080 wrote: »

I know! Shame on me!
:rolleyes:

Ah now dont start with the victim blaming, its never your fault
#youtoo

But that said, opening a dress and bra and only being twigged on the reach around!
Were you molested by a ghost?

DBB

whoopsadoodles wrote: »

I informed boards HO of the incident (there were witnesses remember) and a few weeks later he was promoted to Cmod, so I figured it was more likely that I'd get banned if I named him and someone that pathetic isn't worth getting banned for

It's a bit difficult to take as genuine any measures Boards HQ initiate to deal with sexism (to either or any sex), bullying etc, when you realise that they allowed the "promotion" of someone they know to have committed a sexual assault.
They should be fcukin ashamed of themselves. The CMod who committed a sexual assault against you should hang his head in shame. I hope at the very least that he is remorseful enough to never have committed such an act again.
He's lucky you didn't bring it further by reporting him.
What a lowlife dreg he is.

wakka12

anna080 wrote: »

I know! Shame on me!
:rolleyes:

lol. I didn't mean it like that

Omackeral

wakka12 wrote: »

Some gay guys can be a little bit too forward but one time stood out when a guy came up behind me and put his hand all the way into my trousers down my boxers and felt my ass and actually was trying to start fingering me i think
Im gay myself but it was still a bit shocking

Was that A. Porter?
No wait, that's too obvious. Was it Al P.?

The Backwards Man

Anyone who thinks the phrase 'horny old goats' is just a saying has never had to separate the bastards.

retro:electro

banie01 wrote: »

Ah now dont start with the victim blaming, its never your fault
#youtoo

But that said, opening a dress and bra and only being twigged on the reach around!
Were you molested by a ghost?

No but I was half cut so reactions and my surroundings weren't my strong point! Should have kicked him in the goolies

banie01

anna080 wrote: »

No but I was half cut so reactions and my surroundings weren't my strong point! Should have kicked him in the goolies

And nearly half naked!
But yeah you should have kicked him square in the nuts!

Avatar MIA

DBB wrote: »

I hope at the very least that he is remorseful enough to never have committed such an act again.

It's not as if his previous actions resulted in a negative response, so...

Whoops, if you don't mind it being asked, is that why you quit as a mod?

qwerty ui op

eviltwin wrote: »

If he's reading this now I hope he realises what an utter scumbag he is. He owes Whoops an apology.

He does! and he should be made come on here immediately and say who he is. He could be making a whole bunch of videos for himself unknowns to people.

Mister Vain

anna080 wrote: »

A few weeks ago in a bar in Galway I was walking up the stairs to the toilet and the guy coming up behind me unzipped my dress all the way down and undid my bra clasp and was going to feel my boob. He got a fine smack in the gob for his efforts.

suicide_circus wrote: »

All while you were walking up a flight of stairs?

And they say men can't multitask. :pac: Crafty bugger.

Discodog

qwerty ui op wrote: »

He does! and he should be made come on here immediately and say who he is. He could be making a whole bunch of videos for himself unknowns to people.

And there might not be much that anyone could do to stop him as I don't think that filming people, in a public place, is an offence.

There was a guy, in Galway again :eek:, who used to film motorists mounting the pavement at the top of Taylor's Hill. I thought that it might constitute behaviour likely to cause a breach of the peace but apparently not.

justfillmein

years ago at a work christmas night out, as I was walking through the club someone had had a good grope of my box.
when I turned around to see who it might have been, I couldn't tell because the place was too packed.
absolutely horrible feeling knowing that someone was in that room knowing they had done that to me, but I didn't know who THEY were.



told someone this the other night.
In a party in an apartment years ago, I woke up to the feeling of someone pulling my jeans down at the front. rolled over onto my stomach still half asleep, and then felt the same pulling was done to the back of my jeans.
then I heard the sounds of him **** himself off.

dived up out of the bed.
it was just the two of us left in the apartment, and I left with no coat and actually hadn't even a clue where I was.
(f*cking great friends I had at that time)

I actually think something was put in my drink that night too, but that's another story

Mr.Crinklewood

OP must work in a Galway bar.

c.p.w.g.w

Got myself grabbed by some wan's on there hen not so long ago... Thankfully the bar staff removed the offender, who was the bride to me... Despicable carry on by this particular female

SSr0

qwerty ui op wrote: »

He does! and he should be made come on here immediately and say who he is. He could be making a whole bunch of videos for himself unknowns to people.

And so the lynch mob begins...

Ajsoprano

I was in an Internet cafe and and Eastern European was at the computer beside me talking on the phone. He stunk. I noticed he’d his hand down his jox ****. I just left him to it bit weird.

Another time an old fat dude waved a hotel curtain to get my attention as I was walking by his window. He then stood in full few and shook his bits about.
I’m a no nonsense type old school man so I laughed and carried on with my day.
I’m not sure if they are advanced or not.
Defiantly unwanted and sexual though.

andekwarhola

Nothing major really. Had my arse grabbed a few times in bars by women and once, at a some party I ended up at, another man persistently trying to grab my sack and come on to me. Off his head and about 10 years younger than me, to be fair. Had to eventually threaten him to make him stop.

Snotty

When I was about 6 or 7 I was in a shop with 2 other friends, walking along chatting away, think I had my head turned around to chat to one of the lads when I felt this grab to my genitals, literally lasted a split second and at first I though I had walked into someone, I think I even said "Sorry".
Turned around and there was this dirty old man, 70+ quickly walking away. It all happened so quickly that it took me a few minutes to realise what had happened, I was even doubting myself, but there was definitely some "cupping", of course I did nothing and told no one.
Anyway, that was 30+ years ago and I'm sure the old bastard is long dead, but that's the kind of sick people that populate this world.

lawred2

Yeah she was rank but I shagged her anyway