A straight guy wondering about anal sex

LegacyUser

I'm a married man in my early 40's healthy sex life recently my wife and I started experiencing with anal foreplay she didn't like it but I found it very pleasurable and arousing

By Myself I started playing round with a dildo and I was wondering what it would be like for a guy to have sex with me, I'm not attracted to men in any way this is something I would like to try, my wife would definitely not go along with it, I might even bottle it if I did try It

Has any straight guys ever wondered what it would be like to get anal sex, maybe it's a phrase I'm going through

Sleepy

Sex shops sell most of their strap-ons to straight couples queriousguy, pegging is becoming increasingly common. Maybe your wife would be interested in trying that with you?

Engine No.9

Get your wife in on the act. If it's a man and a woman doing it, it's still heterosexual sex. As you say, you might bottle it if you tried it with a guy. Even if you did it with a guy, you'd probably hate yourself for it, not least for the fact you'd be cheating on your wife. Haven't done it with a strap on myself but my "friend" and I use dildos all the time. Great feeling. Make sure she knows she's under know obligation to provide anal sex just coz you're putting yourself in that position. She might go for it.

Tenigate

Op take a good hard look at yourself.
Happily married, good sex life.
I think you should ditch the dildo. Nothing good's going to come from those fantasies you're promoting by using it. If it's a neurotic fantasy (that includes posting to boards) maybe some professional help or meditation would help you get over it.

Tell me how

Tenigate wrote:

Op take a good hard look at yourself. Happily married, good sex life. I think you should ditch the dildo. Nothing good's going to come from those fantasies you're promoting by using it. If it's a neurotic fantasy (that includes posting to boards) maybe some professional help or meditation would help you get over it.

Check your calender. It's 2018.

Dr. Kenneth Noisewater

Tenigate wrote: »

Op take a good hard look at yourself.
Happily married, good sex life.
I think you should ditch the dildo. Nothing good's going to come from those fantasies you're promoting by using it. If it's a neurotic fantasy (that includes posting to boards) maybe some professional help or meditation would help you get over it.

Not helpful. The OP is not here to be judged, he's asking a question.

OP, I'd echo the strap on suggestions. If you're not actually attracted to men, anal with another guy mightn't be a great idea. It could end up messing with your head. Try the strap on thing first with your wife and you'll know pretty quickly what direction you want to take it.

XsApollo

Not normal or healthy ha.
Back to the confession box with you.
It’s 2018, what ever tickles your boat.
Maybe get your wife involved with a strap on as others have suggested.
Or even suggest a threesome with another guy to your wife?
Ye both might enjoy it.
Whatever the outcome keep your wife involved.

leggo

Tenigate wrote: »

Op take a good hard look at yourself.
Happily married, good sex life.
I think you should ditch the dildo. Nothing good's going to come from those fantasies you're promoting by using it. If it's a neurotic fantasy (that includes posting to boards) maybe some professional help or meditation would help you get over it.

Ridiculous and offensive advice, you’re essentially suggesting he cure himself of these impure thoughts. It’s also total bollocks in the real world. This is perhaps the most popular ‘specialist’ kink among straight couples today.

This is really normal OP. Your wife may not be into it and that’s okay too, in which case I’d suggest continuing to do it yourself before cheating (there are a lot of good solo toys you could explore as well). If that’s the case and you find the urge too strong to control, then that’s the stage where you evaluate the marriage itself before going out and cheating on her.

Grab All Association

Tenigate wrote: »

Op take a good hard look at yourself.
Happily married, good sex life.
I think you should ditch the dildo. Nothing good's going to come from those fantasies you're promoting by using it. If it's a neurotic fantasy (that includes posting to boards) maybe some professional help or meditation would help you get over it.

Are you going to throw holy water over him and read from the bible?

If you eventually decide that you want to do it head on over to the LGBT forum. They’d be very helpful for sexual health advice/tips I’d guess.

WIZWEB

OP. My straight neighbour enquiried about anal play one night over a few drinks. He was curious and wanted to check it out with one of his various girlfriends on him. I explained the joys of massaging the prostate etc. Caught up a few weeks later and he wouldn't shut up about the new found joys of sticking various things up there! I don't know if he'd go as far as a bloke. Won't be me as I'm not interested in him that way Whatever/whoever else he decides on having fun with is (hopefully) his own business and completely normal.