Housemates subletting, problems getting my deposit

Danniboo

Hi,

I'll keep this brief(hopefully). Thanks in advance for any advice and taking time to read.

So living with a couple the last maybe 7/8 months. We were in previous accommodation but they had to move and asked if I wanted to go with them.

So I did as it was a no brainer location, accommodation wise at the time (or so I thought).

Things were reasonably okay, but I have started to notice he can be passive aggressive with things he does, snide comments etc.

Anyways i'm travelling the end of next month and they have know for some time now I would be going. I told them back in April/June I planned on August.

Then in June said it will be mid-end of August when I leave.

So my rent is paid until the end of July. To be fair and keep things legit I made sure to give my months notice which would bring me up until the 18th August.

When I messaged her with this information I was met with a sour aggressive tone, stating I wouldn't get my deposit back straight away. When I asked why I was told I would have to wait until they get someone else in. So a few messages went back and forth and I told her she wasn't entitled to do this, that I didn't break any lease agreements and gave a months notice.

Then I have him messaging me saying oh we have a viewing on such a date, we need to get someone in asap. I told him if he would give me notice let me know when someone is coming over so I could be there, make sure the room is clean etc. He told me not to worry about being there as he would be there.

I told him I would like to know if someone is in and out of my room etc. So a few messages went back and forth and Tuesday was agreed(yesterday) and I said I would clean/sort the room Monday, which I did.

So she hadn't been tuning in to any of the messages between him and I (it's a group chat on Watsapp) she was having a rough day as it was the bday of a loved one that had passed, which is understandable.

So basically she is freaking about my deposit and he is wanting to get a viewing done as soon as I give notice and saying they need someone asap, money etc, bla bla bla. So I suggested if they wanted someone to take over from the 1st and then they could start fresh with a new tenant and I could take their deposit.

I messaged him the next morning (all on group chat) asking what was happening with the room etc and just got what do you mean? So I explained again about my suggestion and what they wanted to do, regarding me staying on until the 18th etc. I asked if there was a reason for the reluctance as it seems to make everyone's life easier.

She then decides to chime in with "If you want to move out the 1st that's grand but you won't get your deposit back"

So I just said what do you mean I won't get my deposit back, I was trying to suggest something that would make both your lives easier, yeah cheers. (I was p****d off at this point)

To which I got a reply saying what's with the smartness, we're not kids. Then she's like ah here I can't be dealing with this i'm in work.

So I was at the house the other night and they both were there. We were civil and got on okay and she brought it up and tried to laugh it off, saying oh I was having such a bad day and I told him not to be riling you up, I knew you wouldn't back down and he's stubborn too. That's why I was like stop being so childish

Bear in mind she was the only one "riling me up" as she so puts it. She said on more than one occasion oh you won't get your money back.

So here's my situation, they have changed the date on the ad for the room to the 1st August and didn't let me know. They had a viewing last night. I messaged last night to see how it went and nothing.

I messaged them there saying can you please let me know what's happening as if you want someone to move in sooner I need to make arrangements, start moving my stuff etc. Still nothing.

I am due to pay the rest of the rent (2 and a half weeks for August) soon if we're sticking to my original date.

I have a really bad feeling about this and i'm afraid they're going to try to screw me over. Any advice please?

Danniboo

Danniboo wrote: »

........... Any advice please?

Can you lock your room?

Danniboo

Augeo wrote: »

Can you lock your room?

Nope

groovyg

How much was the deposit? As they are couple maybe they are planning on not renting the extra room out and splitting the rent between the two of them.

Do you have somewhere to stay for the interim period?
Or is the deposit the main worry?

Danniboo

Augeo wrote: »

Do you have somewhere to stay for the interim period?
Or is the deposit the main worry?

I have somewhere to stay. But I had told them I would be lodging my rent tomorrow so need to know what's happening. I actually won't need to lodge it until Monday for it still to reach their account on time. I don't want to lodge and then they turn around and say oh we have someone new to move in.

My deposit is my main concern. I feel like they're going to try and screw me out of every penny. I am so surprised with her.

groovyg

Who are you paying the rent to?

Danniboo

My housemates

Danniboo

Danniboo wrote: »

I have somewhere to stay. But I had told them I would be lodging my rent tomorrow so need to know what's happening. I actually won't need to lodge it until Monday for it still to reach their account on time. I don't want to lodge and then they turn around and say oh we have someone new to move in.

My deposit is my main concern. I feel like they're going to try and screw me out of every penny. I am so surprised with her.

Pay no more, you have a bad gut feeling so you need to trust that.

groovyg

Well if its to the housemates and not the landlords account then I would hold off on paying them anything, especially if your housemate is not going to give you back your deposit and is being vague about getting another tenant. If she asks say you are using half of the deposit to cover those two weeks.

Danniboo

groovyg wrote: »

Well if its to the housemates and not the landlords account then I would hold off on paying them anything, especially if your housemate is not going to give you back your deposit and is being vague about getting another tenant. If she asks say you are using half of the deposit to cover those two weeks.

So they've got someone to move in the start of September. So all their money worries this and asap that but they're happy to go 2 weeks without rent :rolleyes:

spaceHopper

How much it the deposit? Basically they have spent the deposit and are waiting for the next person to pay it. None of that is your problem let them find a way if it comes to it can they take it out of an ATM on a credit card.

It's not unusual to have to get your deposit back from the new person moving in when housesharing, done it myself a few times.

fishy_fishy

Jaxx Dirty Revolver wrote: »

It's not unusual to have to get your deposit back from the new person moving in when housesharing, done it myself a few times.

She's not housesharing. The couple have licensed a room to her. If you're jointly liable for the whole rent then yes, what you're saying is the norm. But if you're renting a room as a licensee and you've given the required notice then no, you get it back as you leave.

Danniboo

So she said she'll discuss what I owe tonight. I told her 320e for rent and she tried to say 412e. Complete bs. Explained to her how I worked it out and she's oh right okay sorry not sure what I was doing. Then she quotes me bills that are due up until I leave. 30e for Sky. We just paid Sky 6 days ago so this is the month of August she's referring to. Bins 15e, again not due until August. Gas and Electricity 40e. We just paid this the end of June and there isn't even another bill in so not sure what the hell she is on about. I'm not going to just randomly pay bills that don't exist yet or have just been paid. She's off her tree.

Danniboo

Jaxx Dirty Revolver wrote: »

It's not unusual to have to get your deposit back from the new person moving in when housesharing, done it myself a few times.

Your deposit is legally the tenants property until there's due cause or reason to detain it. They've no right to have spent it. The fact "she doesn't have the money" this month is neither here nor there. I'm not a charity. They have two wages. They shouldn't have spent it. If they want to sublet they need to do things legit

the_syco

Comes down to; how much is this months rent, and how much is the deposit?

Danniboo

Rent is 319.

Deposit is 550

Ashbx

Do you have details for the landlord? Would you get him involved? Do they have permission to sublet?

hanna200

Danniboo wrote: »

So she said she'll discuss what I owe tonight. I told her 320e for rent and she tried to say 412e. Complete bs. Explained to her how I worked it out and she's oh right okay sorry not sure what I was doing. Then she quotes me bills that are due up until I leave. 30e for Sky. We just paid Sky 6 days ago so this is the month of August she's referring to. Bins 15e, again not due until August. Gas and Electricity 40e. We just paid this the end of June and there isn't even another bill in so not sure what the hell she is on about. I'm not going to just randomly pay bills that don't exist yet or have just been paid. She's off her tree.

Hello Love,

a couple of points to note:

1)
"I told him I would like to know if someone is in and out of my room etc." - You are making it difficult for them to sell to new lodger

2)
Originally Posted by Danniboo View Post
"........... Any advice please?"
"Can you lock your room?"
Augeo is posting a silly response here- because they also need to pay the rent, thus they are looking to reduce their losses by advertising it from the 1st, knowing that most likely a reasonable person needs weeks to move in.
Usually people who are in hostels or in strange circumstances that are willing to move in on the spot.

3)
about the bills:
"So she said she'll discuss what I owe tonight. I told her 320e for rent and she tried to say 412e. Complete bs. Explained to her how I worked it out and she's oh right okay sorry not sure what I was doing. Then she quotes me bills that are due up until I leave. 30e for Sky. We just paid Sky 6 days ago so this is the month of August she's referring to. Bins 15e, again not due until August. Gas and Electricity 40e. We just paid this the end of June and there isn't even another bill in so not sure what the hell she is on about. I'm not going to just randomly pay bills that don't exist yet or have just been paid. She's off her tree."

If you fill in the bins with your rubbish until 18th then it does not matter if you are pre-paying for a waste removal now, or if you pay for it on the day of your departure. The same goes for TV, wi-fi, gas, esb etc.

Try to understand them and make a simple pen & paper exercise:

work out your rent due until the 18th
work out your bills due until the 18th
sum them up. you will end with a figure.

Tell your housemates that you are paying your rent and bills until the 18th as agreed and that on the 18th you want Full deposit back. As them for a receipt of the amount you handed to them. I assume you have a receipt for the deposit.

Say to them that until 18th your room is open and they are free to show it to anyone at anytime you are not there and when you are there you will be happy to show it too.

Act as civilized person.

Wabbit Ears

OP,

Re-read your own post a few times and understand that you're not being particularly reasonable, you're really harassing them at work and with constant texts/calls and generally have worked yourself into a self righteous persecution complex.

In this case, its not them, its you.

Apologise to them for your behaviour, pay the bills, offer to help in absolutely anyway possible and generally stop acting the way you have been.

Diemos

hanna200 wrote: »

Hello Love,

Could you try to sound a little more condescending?

The OP has asked for their deposit back, and the couple appear to have spent it, or are refusing to play ball despite the fact that the Op has given correct notice etc.

As for viewings etc. The OP is under no obligation to allow anyone into their room at any stage, doing so is being nice.

For the bills, pay for the month of August, the entire month, it's petty to try to pay for 18/31'st of the month.

Danniboo

hanna200 wrote: »

Hello Love,

a couple of points to note:

1)
"I told him I would like to know if someone is in and out of my room etc." - You are making it difficult for them to sell to new lodger

He literally wanted someone in a couple of days after I had given notice and had no intention of given me the chance to clean room etc, I had been staying in an aunts. I don't think a simple courtesty text to say if someone is coming in and out of your room where you're renting is being difficult. What if I was out of the shower and getting dressed or something. He has previously walked in to my room before.

2)
Originally Posted by Danniboo View Post
"........... Any advice please?"
"Can you lock your room?"
Augeo is posting a silly response here- because they also need to pay the rent, thus they are looking to reduce their losses by advertising it from the 1st, knowing that most likely a reasonable person needs weeks to move in.
Usually people who are in hostels or in strange circumstances that are willing to move in on the spot.

I moved in on short notice to help them out as the previous tenant up and left with two days notice. I gave them the 1st as an option to get someone in fresh from the start of the month and because they were so keen to get someone and she was saying she doesn't have the money for my deposit this month.

3)
about the bills:
"So she said she'll discuss what I owe tonight. I told her 320e for rent and she tried to say 412e. Complete bs. Explained to her how I worked it out and she's oh right okay sorry not sure what I was doing. Then she quotes me bills that are due up until I leave. 30e for Sky. We just paid Sky 6 days ago so this is the month of August she's referring to. Bins 15e, again not due until August. Gas and Electricity 40e. We just paid this the end of June and there isn't even another bill in so not sure what the hell she is on about. I'm not going to just randomly pay bills that don't exist yet or have just been paid. She's off her tree."

If you fill in the bins with your rubbish until 18th then it does not matter if you are pre-paying for a waste removal now, or if you pay for it on the day of your departure. The same goes for TV, wi-fi, gas, esb etc.

Try to understand them and make a simple pen & paper exercise:

work out your rent due until the 18th
work out your bills due until the 18th
sum them up. you will end with a figure.

Tell your housemates that you are paying your rent and bills until the 18th as agreed and that on the 18th you want Full deposit back. As them for a receipt of the amount you handed to them. I assume you have a receipt for the deposit.

Say to them that until 18th your room is open and they are free to show it to anyone at anytime you are not there and when you are there you will be happy to show it too.

They won't always know if i'm there, well not according to his logic, when he previously walked in to my room. He barely knocked before when I was in there and just walked in before I even had a chance to answer the door. This is why I would prefer a simple text just to give me a heads up. I don't think it's much to ask.My personal space is not a free for all

Act as civilized person.

I've been more than civilised. They just think they can take liberties and cross boundaries.

Danniboo

Diemos wrote: »

Could you try to sound a little more condescending?

The OP has asked for their deposit back, and the couple appear to have spent it, or are refusing to play ball despite the fact that the Op has given correct notice etc.

As for viewings etc. The OP is under no obligation to allow anyone into their room at any stage, doing so is being nice.

For the bills, pay for the month of August, the entire month, it's petty to try to pay for 18/31'st of the month.

I would agree but she's now saying well their will be bills due in September for August and you will have to pay for 18 days. Which is fair enough, but she just kind of seems to be plucking figures from the sky.

Danniboo

Wabbit Ears wrote: »

OP,

Re-read your own post a few times and understand that you're not being particularly reasonable, you're really harassing them at work and with constant texts/calls and generally have worked yourself into a self righteous persecution complex.

In this case, its not them, its you.

Apologise to them for your behaviour, pay the bills, offer to help in absolutely anyway possible and generally stop acting the way you have been.

I have helped by offering to move out 3 weeks earlier to alleviate their apparent stress and anxiety about money worries and moving someone in. I haven't been harrassing anyone. All morning she has been hounding me about bills that she has not worked out properly etc.

They advertised the room from the 1st and had a viewing and didn't give me an update, so I had to ask them. I want as little contact as possible. Every time I ask them what's happening I get a smart snide passive aggressive response and they turn something which should be very simple and straight forward in to a huge drama.

From the moment I told her I was moving out/gave notice she had her back up and started sending messages about not getting deposits etc, adding a load of exclamation marks to every sentence,calling me childish.

Danniboo

Ashbx wrote: »

Do you have details for the landlord? Would you get him involved? Do they have permission to sublet?

I could probably get in contact with him if I needed to. As far as i'm aware they do.

Danniboo

groovyg wrote: »

How much was the deposit? As they are couple maybe they are planning on not renting the extra room out and splitting the rent between the two of them.

Hi, my deposit is €550.

No they are definitely renting it, they want someone in asap.

They are charging 850e for the room inc bills.

I currently pay €550 exc bills

hanna200

Diemos wrote: »

Could you try to sound a little more condescending?

The OP has asked for their deposit back, and the couple appear to have spent it, or are refusing to play ball despite the fact that the Op has given correct notice etc.

The couple are trying to look for a prospect lodgers and the OP is preventing them from doing so.

Diemos wrote: »

As for viewings etc. The OP is under no obligation to allow anyone into their room at any stage, doing so is being nice.

The OP is merely a guest in their home, she has no rights to prohibit them from trying to work things out by accommodating prospective viewers. It's her attitude and the fact that she is stubborn and nearly hostile towards them.

As for the bills, she will be using amenities until the 18th, therefore there are a couple of ways to work that out:

i.e. an estimate from the previous month
i.e. take down a meter reading and do some pen & paper work.

Grow up.

hanna200

Normally bills are not more than €50/ month in a shared places, this can go up if you have sky and broadband...

hanna200

Danniboo wrote: »

I've been more than civilised. They just think they can take liberties and cross boundaries.

it's their property and you are a lodger, you are barely a guest, try to be an adult and allow them to sell it. It will help you and them.

Try to feel if you are in their position and you need to fork €1,600/month plus bills and your lodger tells you to wait for her permission to show the room in your house. You'll be very stressed.

Stop this attitude, you really sound like self entitled goddess. Remember, they invited you to their home and you are a guest.

Ashbx

Danniboo wrote: »

Hi, my deposit is €550.

No they are definitely renting it, they want someone in asap.

They are charging 850e for the room inc bills.

I currently pay €550 exc bills

€300 a month for bills....jeez they are making themselves a small fortune there huh!

I would say to them that you are willing to pay bills and rent until 18 August and on that date you expect to get your deposit back (and I understand what you are saying about the room, but to keep things civil give them as much access to your room as you can). If they still refuse then, I would tell them that you will have to speak to the landlord directly about it, and see what they say then.

I sublet on behalf of my landlord. But my landlord is in charge of deposits etc. I just collect the rent and pay him the full amount myself. In this day and age, its very rare for landlords to allow subletting so id say its quite possible that the landlord doesn't know and the couple are chancing their arm. Honestly, it doesn't sound like they are scamming you or anything. I think they genuinely spent your money and are stuck, which is unfortunate but not your problem either!

Is the house on daft at the moment?

OldMrBrennan83

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hanna200

Ashbx wrote: »

I think they genuinely spent your money and are stuck, which is unfortunate but not your problem either!

there is no evidence of that.

I bet the OP won't be heard of after the 18th and we won't know how it ended.

My guts tells me that she is difficult to deal with and has loads and I mean loads of entitlements.

Access to room not given without her permission? Who is she to behave like that?

No wonder they started threatening that she won't get deposit back once they have heard that OP is making it so difficult to even get prospective viewers in

hanna200

Patww79 wrote: »

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Couple are selling a room by advertising it and by trying to get potential viewers in.

Doesn't matter how you call it.

OldMrBrennan83

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Danniboo

hanna200 wrote: »

it's their property and you are a lodger, you are barely a guest, try to be an adult and allow them to sell it. It will help you and them.

Try to feel if you are in their position and you need to fork €1,600/month plus bills and your lodger tells you to wait for her permission to show the room in your house. You'll be very stressed.

Stop this attitude, you really sound like self entitled goddess. Remember, they invited you to their home and you are a guest.

It's not their home. It's a rental property. I am not a guest, I am a paying tenant. Their position is not my worry, they are more than comfortable. They have no concern with trying to screw me out of the deposit as a single person on a single wage who is trying to emmigrate.

Being assertive when someone is taking advantage does not make me self entitled. I am entitled to my deposit back and to have my space respected. My bills are paid on time, I clean the house, respect their space etc, gave them more than enough notice. Why would I not be entitled to my deposit back?

hanna200

Patww79 wrote: »

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You gut tells you wrong.

Ashbx

hanna200 wrote: »

it's their property and you are a lodger, you are barely a guest, try to be an adult and allow them to sell it. It will help you and them.

Try to feel if you are in their position and you need to fork €1,600/month plus bills and your lodger tells you to wait for her permission to show the room in your house. You'll be very stressed.

Stop this attitude, you really sound like self entitled goddess. Remember, they invited you to their home and you are a guest.

Its not their house. They are tenants, so the OP is not a "guest", she is a paying licensee! The OP seemed to have done everything by the book and has been there 7/8 months so therefore has more rights than you seem to think they do.

The OP isn't asking for them to wait for her permission to see the room they just want to know WHEN the room will be viewed. I get what you are saying about being more helpful to them and I do agree they should. However their personal stuff is in the room so absolutely they should have notice if someone is going to enter it. They are still paying rent today so its still their private personal space!

Would it be better to have the bedroom in a state and have people view it then?

Danniboo

hanna200 wrote: »

there is no evidence of that.

I bet the OP won't be heard of after the 18th and we won't know how it ended.

My guts tells me that she is difficult to deal with and has loads and I mean loads of entitlements.

Access to room not given without her permission? Who is she to behave like that?

No wonder they started threatening that she won't get deposit back once they have heard that OP is making it so difficult to even get prospective viewers in

Well clearly there is because she says she doesn't have the money and said she won't have it until someone else moves in.

Danniboo

hanna200 wrote: »

there is no evidence of that.

I bet the OP won't be heard of after the 18th and we won't know how it ended.

My guts tells me that she is difficult to deal with and has loads and I mean loads of entitlements.

Access to room not given without her permission? Who is she to behave like that?

No wonder they started threatening that she won't get deposit back once they have heard that OP is making it so difficult to even get prospective viewers in

Read my post properly. They started threatening way before that. It was in the very first response when I gave notice. Nothing to do with having people look at the room.

I helped these people when we were moving doing runs back and forward to the old place with their stuff, I offer them lifts and drop them here and there because i'm the only one driving. I never have people over. I pay my bills on time.

I don't see how you can equate that with being difficult

Danniboo

Danniboo wrote: »

It's not their home. It's a rental property. I am not a guest, I am a paying tenant.

If they are the lease holders then it is effectively their home and if you pay them your rent you are a licensee not a tenant and a licensee is essentially a guest.

I'm not try to argue with you are anything put its important to know this as you have no rights and they can ask you to leave in the morning if they want to.

If they won't give you back your deposit then you will have to take them to the small claims court, though you would need to give them a chance to pay it before going down that route.

OldMrBrennan83

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Danniboo

Ashbx wrote: »

€300 a month for bills....jeez they are making themselves a small fortune there huh!

I would say to them that you are willing to pay bills and rent until 18 August and on that date you expect to get your deposit back (and I understand what you are saying about the room, but to keep things civil give them as much access to your room as you can). If they still refuse then, I would tell them that you will have to speak to the landlord directly about it, and see what they say then.

I sublet on behalf of my landlord. But my landlord is in charge of deposits etc. I just collect the rent and pay him the full amount myself. In this day and age, its very rare for landlords to allow subletting so id say its quite possible that the landlord doesn't know and the couple are chancing their arm. Honestly, it doesn't sound like they are scamming you or anything. I think they genuinely spent your money and are stuck, which is unfortunate but not your problem either!

Is the house on daft at the moment?

I am happy to pay all bills until the 18th and then Septembers share. I told them everything up until I leave will be settled. The passive aggressiveness and tone in which she's speaking to me is what has caught me by surprise. She was straight on the defense as if this was a personal attack on her. I told them back in early June it would be mid/end of August I was leaving.

It is up there.

Danniboo

Jaxx Dirty Revolver wrote: »

If they won't give you back your deposit then you will have to take them to the small claims court, though you would need to give them a chance to pay it before going down that route.

Thanks for the advice, it's good to know where I stand legally.

This is the thing i'm concerned with, I don't have time to go down the small claims route and they are aware of that. I'm afraid they're hoping i'll leave to go travelling and then not look for it.

Patww79

Patww79 wrote: »

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You are correct which is why I mentioned the fact he can go to the small claims court. Is there reason to believe that they won't pay him the deposit after they get in a new lodger, if not then surely its not a big deal to wait a little while to get it.

edit: the going travelling part complicates it a little but you can still chase them for it and tell them to lodge it in your account and take them to the small claims court when you return if you still haven't got it.

Danniboo

Jaxx Dirty Revolver wrote: »

You are correct which is why I mentioned the fact he can go to the small claims court. Is there reason to believe that they won't pay him the deposit after they get in a new lodger, if not then surely its not a big deal to wait a little while to get it.

edit: the going travelling part complicates it a little but you can still chase them for it and tell them to lodge it in your account and take them to the small claims court when you return if you still haven't got it.

I'm depending on this for going travelling. They've know for a while now my approx deadline, more than adequate time I feel to get the money together between two people. We're talking maybe €20 each per week from when I first told them to my moving out date.

Ashbx

OP just reading back your original post again and I know its too late now but is there a reason why you didn't get put onto the lease yourself when you moved from the original house to this one? Seems odd that three people move in together but only two go on the lease.

According to the RTB website: Any money that a licensee pays to the tenant as a deposit is a personal payment to the tenant and is not a deposit with the meaning of the Residential Tenancies Act 2004, as that meaning is confined to deposits paid by tenants to landlords.

So if it were me, I would threaten the tenants with "ill talk to the landlord myself directly about this" and see what response you get. If they are legit, they will let you speak to the landlord no problem (still wont guarantee you will get the deposit back before you leave but at least you know there is nothing dodgy going on). If they are taking the piss, they will NOT want their landlord to know what they are doing. If the latter is the case, I would pack up my bags then and there, don't pay the rent or bills between now and 18th August as agreed and unfortunately take a loss on the deposit and just learn from it. Expensive lesson I know but we all have learned something the hard way.

Either that or small claims court like suggested.

Danniboo

Ashbx wrote: »

OP just reading back your original post again and I know its too late now but is there a reason why you didn't get put onto the lease yourself when you moved from the original house to this one? Seems odd that three people move in together but only two go on the lease.

According to the RTB website: Any money that a licensee pays to the tenant as a deposit is a personal payment to the tenant and is not a deposit with the meaning of the Residential Tenancies Act 2004, as that meaning is confined to deposits paid by tenants to landlords.

So if it were me, I would threaten the tenants with "ill talk to the landlord myself directly about this" and see what response you get. If they are legit, they will let you speak to the landlord no problem (still wont guarantee you will get the deposit back before you leave but at least you know there is nothing dodgy going on). If they are taking the piss, they will NOT want their landlord to know what they are doing. If the latter is the case, I would pack up my bags then and there, don't pay the rent or bills between now and 18th August as agreed and unfortunately take a loss on the deposit and just learn from it. Expensive lesson I know but we all have learned something the hard way.

Either that or small claims court like suggested.

The reason being is I only ever intended to stay short term. The landlord in the previous property gave notice as "he wanted his daughter to have the house". I could have stayed in the other property for a very limited time before he wanted the house back, so it seemed like the best idea at the time.

Turns out (which may be irrelevant) that the landlord moved new tenants in shortly after and didn't get his daughter in at all. The girl previously to me also left at short notice, two days before the rent was due so I moved in at short notice to replace her. Apparently she was trying to get the deposit back off the previous landlord and my housemate.

Danniboo

hanna200 wrote: »

there is no evidence of that.

I bet the OP won't be heard of after the 18th and we won't know how it ended.

My guts tells me that she is difficult to deal with and has loads and I mean loads of entitlements.

Access to room not given without her permission? Who is she to behave like that?

No wonder they started threatening that she won't get deposit back once they have heard that OP is making it so difficult to even get prospective viewers in

You might want to read this previous issue i've had with them before you accuse me of being difficult or self entitled.

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057739589

traveller0101

Danniboo wrote: »

You might want to read this previous issue i've had with them before you accuse me of being difficult or self entitled.

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057739589

People can be so strange at times. What happened in that situation? Maybe that's why the GF doesn't like you

jimmycrackcorm

The simplest answer is to accommodate them getting someone in respect of your given notice, agree your pro rata bills and insist you get your deposit back when you leave or else you go to the small claims court.