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Vaginismus

  • 20-05-2017 3:25pm
    #1
    Nerd Queen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 301 ✭✭


    Really struggling with this the last 2 years. I have always had it (unknown to myself) but i have never been able to have sex. Been to a gynae who referred me to a physio where they have used every word but this for my condition- overactive pelvic floor, tight hips etc. Really want to have a baby with DH and really feeling down about it. Just looking to see has eveyone else had a similar experience?


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  • #2
    catrionanic
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,091 ✭✭✭catrionanic


    Is there anything that helps it at all? Does it relax a bit after a few drinks (not that I'm advocating getting drunk every time you have sex!). If so, it may be because you are more relaxed yourself - in which case meditation etc may help?
    I'd imagine that sex has become such a battle now that you're already worried and worked-up before you even get started, which will make matters worse.
    Is there anything in your life that's annoying/worrying you? Sometimes this can contribute too, and once circumstances change, it gets easier.


  • #3
    Nerd Queen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 301 ✭✭Nerd Queen


    catrionanic wrote: »
    Is there anything that helps it at all? Does it relax a bit after a few drinks (not that I'm advocating getting drunk every time you have sex!). If so, it may be because you are more relaxed yourself - in which case meditation etc may help?
    I'd imagine that sex has become such a battle now that you're already worried and worked-up before you even get started, which will make matters worse.
    Is there anything in your life that's annoying/worrying you? Sometimes this can contribute too, and once circumstances change, it gets easier.

    Yep its a circle of anxiety! I think Im just a stressed person in general! Tried alot of different things. Going to try a counsellor now to see will that help


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