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No kissing

  • 13-03-2017 12:44pm
    #1
    sallyanne12
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 259 ✭✭


    I am in a relationship where we never kiss properly and it's normal for us now. We have sex often and we kiss on the lips at times but the passionate kissing days are gone. I fancy him very much and miss when he used to kiss me for ages. We kissed so much when we met and first started seeing each other. Is it normal for long term couples to stop French kissing? He never initiates it and I have once or twice but then wondered if he didn't like it so I stopped. Don't get me wrong he used to LOVE kissing me. I even asked him before if he likes kissing me and he said yes yet never does. What do I do? Is this an issue? I just miss the fireworks I used to feel when we would kiss. I know I'd still feel them if he kissed me but he never does. This is also not something new as in my last long term relationship we didn't kiss either. Is this normal? Does kissing stop when u know someone so well? We both love each other so much. Thank you


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  • #2
    bee06
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    Do ye French kiss during sex? I'm married and we don't spend hours making out like we used to when we got together but we'd still kiss when we have sex.


  • #3
    sallyanne12
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 259 ✭✭sallyanne12


    bee06 wrote: »
    Do ye French kiss during sex? I'm married and we don't spend hours making out like we used to when we got together but we'd still kiss when we have sex.

    No we don't ever kiss during sex. Is that weird?


  • #4
    Yourself isit
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,257 ✭✭✭Yourself isit


    It's not all that uncommon. There's a lot going on.


  • #5
    bee06
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    sallyanne12 wrote: »
    No we don't ever kiss during sex. Is that weird?

    I wouldn't say it's weird because it's all down to what works for individual couples but obviously it something you would like to do so just talk to him about it.


  • #6
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    bee06 wrote: »
    obviously it something you would like to do so just talk to him about it.

    Yeah, it's like anything you want to do in the bedroom (or kitchen, or hallway, or wherever!;)) you have to talk about it, measuring yourself up against other couples and what they do or don't do isn't really a sensible thing to do- if you found out nobody in the world snogs during sex, but you wanted to, would it stop you wanting it? Probably not.


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