Do you want to be married/long term relationship?

MilesMorales1

Do you lot want to get married? Or be in long term relationships if thats what you're into. Or just relationships in general.
I can't see myself being married, or a long term relationship. Except with the cat. And I don't mean that in a weird way, I just find it next to impossible to connect with anyone. I mean I'm not great looking, but there's probably worse looking.But I'm not sexual, or attracted to anyone. I'm really looking for a non sexual relationship, but still with a woman. I'm quite self centred really. Not looking to accommodate someone else in my life.

How about you?

anewme

No.

Nomis21

You should join Couchsurfing.com


Since joining Couchsurfing in 2008 I've had nearly 400 females from forty five different countries sleep in my house and I've still managed to stay single

Stephens Night is the 25th anniversary of me asking my now wife out during the slow set.

So it's a bit late for me to answer "no"...

MilesMorales1

Nomis21 wrote: »

You should join Couchsurfing.com


Since joining Couchsurfing in 2008 I've had nearly 400 females from forty five different countries sleep in my house and I've still managed to stay single

I think thats just bad luck

uch

Bit late, I'm 16 years in

theteal

Been married nearly 2 years, so.....


.....no.

ChikiChiki

Funny enough had this discussion with my gf of 3 years down the pub earlier. A resounding no..........

corner of hells

Im married , separated , married etc...to same spacer for 16 years now.

For the last few weeks she's been as nice as pie for some reas...... it's Christmas, the little swine.

I never wanted to be married. I thought I loved my freedom too much and could never see myself giving that up.

Then I met my wife. Everything changed. Now I cant imagine a life without her.

Don't worry OP you will meet someone. I wasn't married until I was 38. You also have to allow yourself to have feelings for someone. Trust me, when those same feelings are returned, nothing else matters.

arayess

corner of hells wrote: »

Im married , separated , married etc...to same spacer for 16 years now.

For the last few weeks she's been as nice as pie for some reas...... it's Christmas, the little swine.

all to the same person? wow

i am happy either way tbh

B00!

only to a compatible person... any other kind of person and you waste your sanity.

Your Face

MilesMorales1 wrote: »

Do you lot want to get married? Or be in long term relationships if thats what you're into. Or just relationships in general.
I can't see myself being married, or a long term relationship. Except with the cat. And I don't mean that in a weird way, I just find it next to impossible to connect with anyone. I mean I'm not great looking, but there's probably worse looking.But I'm not sexual, or attracted to anyone. I'm really looking for a non sexual relationship, but still with a woman. I'm quite self centred really. Not looking to accommodate someone else in my life.

How about you?

You're exactly where you should be going by that post.

Qreq

No, I prefer solitude by far.

Given we can not actually get married in our LTR it is a question we had to ask ourselves at the outset. And the conclusion we came to is that we are not really pushed about marriage either way really.

Nomis21

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Given we can not actually get married in our LTR it is a question we had to ask ourselves at the outset. And the conclusion we came to is that we are not really pushed about marriage either way really.

What is an LTR?

It's OK, Google has it...

Long terminal repeats (LTRs) are identical sequences of DNA that repeat hundreds or thousands of times found at either end of retrotransposons or proviral DNA

Still confused though...

Perhaps some reference to the threat title might help you out. Never underestimate the power of context when trying to understand the text of others.

DoozerT6

Didn't we just have a thread like this?....

Cee-Jay-Cee

Married 8 years now but I was the sabe as you, a committed single but that changed when I was 36, married at 38 and two children within 3 years. Wouldn't change it for anything in the universe.

Long-term relationship? Yep. Marriage? Not so much but it does make things easier. I'm hoping to be 10 years with her before getting married but it will probably be 7-8.

Mister Vain

I would like a relationship but I definitely don't want to get married. I hate weddings and I really can't think of anyone to be my best man.