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Is love enough?

  • 15-10-2016 7:44pm
    #1
    Lovehate1989
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 ✭


    I really love my boyfriend and I know he loves me but lately we've been arguing over nothing. We had a really great relationship before all this but now I'm left feeling insecure and probably causing friction in the process. We've had several talks about improving things but we always seem to fall into the same pattern. I think I'm anticipating arguments now even before they happen. I don't want to end it but I also don't want to feel anxious constantly .


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  • #2
    leggo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    Tough to answer without specifics, but you join your life together with someone because you both feel that your lives will be better with the other person in it. If you can't enjoy your time with that person because you're waiting for it to go wrong...that's usually a pretty bad sign.


  • #3
    Idle Passerby
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,130 ✭✭✭Idle Passerby


    Love withers in an atmosphere of prolonged anxiety and unhappiness. You won't still love each other in 20 years if the problems aren't dealt with now.

    Love is the reason you work on problems, not an excuse to ignore them.


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