Buying lingerie for her

blue note · 13-10-2016 9:04am #1

Generally girls will say that they like it when their fella does this, they feel sexy in it because they know he likes it, it makes them feel desired, they like to make their fella happy and yada yada yada. Really, I'm wondering where the line between sexy and slutty is. And I'm also wondering what way novelty impacts on it. It's a themed item on a childhood cartoon.

Now it's not a cheap little thing I'd be buying (for the amount of material you're getting it's an outrageous price!), but it wouldn't exactly be practical. It would possibly be more risqué than anything you'd find in Ann Summers. How slutty can you go before she would be offended by it?

The final thing I'd worry about is that it probably wouldn't fit through the letter box and she works 9-5 so I'd have to get it delivered to her office. But if it's addressed to her I can't imagine they'd open it and if they did they'd be the ones at fault for opening someone else's mail anyway. Not that there's anything wrong with it in the first place!

13-10-2016 9:08am

www.laperla.com

That's an example of beautiful lingerie that isn't slutty.

racso1975 · 13-10-2016 9:09am

If it's for her birthday don't and don't get it delivered to her job. Cause if they don't open it she will not all that stuff come discreetly packaged 😨

Edit: lingerie is also personal.bone persons sexy is anothers slutty

Cina · 13-10-2016 9:10am

blue note wrote: »

it probably wouldn't fit through the letter box

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DrumSteve · 13-10-2016 9:13am

blue note wrote: »

Generally girls will say that they like it when their fella does this, they feel sexy in it because they know he likes it, it makes them feel desired, they like to make their fella happy and yada yada yada. Really, I'm wondering where the line between sexy and slutty is. And I'm also wondering what way novelty impacts on it. It's a themed item on a childhood cartoon.

Now it's not a cheap little thing I'd be buying (for the amount of material you're getting it's an outrageous price!), but it wouldn't exactly be practical. It would possibly be more risqué than anything you'd find in Ann Summers. How slutty can you go before she would be offended by it?

The final thing I'd worry about is that it probably wouldn't fit through the letter box and she works 9-5 so I'd have to get it delivered to her office. But if it's addressed to her I can't imagine they'd open it and if they did they'd be the ones at fault for opening someone else's mail anyway. Not that there's anything wrong with it in the first place!

Your username sounds like the type of place one would buy such a product.

Floppybits · 13-10-2016 9:14am

Good luck OP. You are playing with fire there.

blue note · 13-10-2016 9:15am

Floppybits wrote: »

Good luck OP. You are playing with fire there.

Thanks. Although I'm not sure if I should take advice from someone called floppy bits!

B-D-P-- · 13-10-2016 9:19am

blue note wrote: »

Thanks. Although I'm not sure if I should take advice from someone called floppy bits!

hahah I say go for it,
If your in a relationship, I dont think slutty is an issue, its for bedroom use between ye two, she's not wearing it to a pub for other men, its for you so its ok.

Just my 2 cents

SEPT 23 1989 · 13-10-2016 9:20am

what cartoon character are you dressing her up as?:o

blue note · 13-10-2016 9:20am

racso1975 wrote: »

If it's for her birthday don't and don't get it delivered to her job. Cause if they don't open it she will not all that stuff come discreetly packaged ðŸ˜¨

Edit: lingerie is also personal.bone persons sexy is anothers slutty

Not for any occasion other than a Wednesday night in. And this is definitely more a present for me than her.

And she lives with her sister so it would be embarrassing if she opened it in front of her. I think it's less likely to happen in the office.

osarusan · 13-10-2016 9:25am

I can get my hands on some second-hand stuff if you want to save money.

jamesbere · 13-10-2016 9:26am

Get her some longjohns

corkgsxr · 13-10-2016 9:28am

Don't mind slutty or not alot of girls don't know there bra size. And they vary from brand to brand.

Get size wrong and your ****ed. Get it right and your amazing.

SpaceCowb0y · 13-10-2016 9:29am

DrumSteve wrote: »

Your username sounds like the type of place one would buy such a product.

Floppybits wrote: »

Good luck OP. You are playing with fire there.

blue note wrote: »

Thanks. Although I'm not sure if I should take advice from someone called floppy bits!

Ah the internet... a great auld place :pac:

HensVassal · 13-10-2016 9:30am

blue note wrote: »

Generally girls will say that they like it when their fella does this, they feel sexy in it because they know he likes it, it makes them feel desired, they like to make their fella happy and yada yada yada. Really, I'm wondering where the line between sexy and slutty is. And I'm also wondering what way novelty impacts on it. It's a themed item on a childhood cartoon.

Now it's not a cheap little thing I'd be buying (for the amount of material you're getting it's an outrageous price!), but it wouldn't exactly be practical. It would possibly be more risqué than anything you'd find in Ann Summers. How slutty can you go before she would be offended by it?

The final thing I'd worry about is that it probably wouldn't fit through the letter box and she works 9-5 so I'd have to get it delivered to her office. But if it's addressed to her I can't imagine they'd open it and if they did they'd be the ones at fault for opening someone else's mail anyway. Not that there's anything wrong with it in the first place!

What's wrong with slutty?

I dated a voluptuous scouse girl who often dressed like a whore. Black stay-up stockings, platform stilletto stripper shoes, tight dresses with a big slit up the back, etc. Loved it.

gramar · 13-10-2016 9:35am

Why don't you give it to her? In person, the lingerie I mean.

everlast75 · 13-10-2016 9:36am

pics or GTFO

eviltwin · 13-10-2016 9:38am

Does any woman actually like getting undies as a gift ?

Stealthfins · 13-10-2016 9:43am

I used to buy my exe agentprovocateur she deserved the best .

It's not slutty at all,it's classy looking and affordable

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 13-10-2016 9:44am

I would say pretty much 80% of my underwear is novelty. I love it. Bambi, barbie, elephants taking selfies, Garfield, frozen, owls, pigs, Winnie the Pooh. You name it, it's probably in my underwear drawer.

If he bought me something, I'd be confident enough I'd like it. He has good taste and he knows me well enough by now if I'd like something or not. And if they have cartoons on them, even better.

13-10-2016 9:46am

eviltwin wrote: »

Does any woman actually like getting undies as a gift ?

Yep!

blue note · 13-10-2016 9:46am

gramar wrote: »

Why don't you give it to her? In person, the lingerie I mean.

I rather the idea of her getting a nice surprise package and wondering what it is / who it came from etc.

Also I don't want to get it delivered to my house or office!

eviltwin · 13-10-2016 9:46am

I would be disappointed if he bought me undies. I do love it when he buys a sex toy though. I don't have the body for sexy underwear

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 13-10-2016 9:48am

eviltwin wrote: »

I would be disappointed if he bought me undies. I do love it when he buys a sex toy though. I don't have the body for sexy underwear

But he's sleeping with you. He knows what you look like and clearly is okay with it. Nobody else will (hopefully) be seeing you in it!

B-D-P-- · 13-10-2016 9:49am

eviltwin wrote: »

I would be disappointed if he bought me undies. I do love it when he buys a sex toy though. I don't have the body for sexy underwear

Thats another issue, if she's self conscious of her body, will she be happy or feel forced to wear?

blue note · 13-10-2016 9:52am

Stealthfins wrote: »

It's not slutty at all,it's classy looking and affordable

Doesn't really sound like what I'm looking for. My item is a bit of a cross between sexy lingerie and borat style swimwear with cartoon imagery on the little material that exists.

Stigura · 13-10-2016 3:19pm

blue note wrote: »

a cross between sexy lingerie and borat style swimwear with cartoon imagery on the little material that exists.

*Shudders!*

Ted111 · 13-10-2016 3:26pm

blue note wrote: »

I rather the idea of her getting a nice surprise package and wondering what it is / who it came from etc.

Also I don't want to get it delivered to my house or office!

If you're worried it won't fit through the letterbox you can ask the postman to put it in through the back door.

Stigura · 13-10-2016 3:28pm

Ted111 wrote: »

If you're worried it won't fit through the letterbox you can ask the postman to put it in through the back door.

Yep. Special Delivery of his big package in her slot

ThinkProgress · 13-10-2016 3:29pm

osarusan wrote: »

I can get my hands on some second-hand stuff if you want to save money.

They're your trophies... you need to keep them! :P

ThinkProgress · 13-10-2016 3:32pm

blue note wrote: »

I rather the idea of her getting a nice surprise package and wondering what it is

That part comes later... all in good time!

13-10-2016 3:33pm

I'd draw the line at synthetic fabrics and anything missing it's crotch. Nylon lace is pretty grim and nasty.

Balconette bras and French knickers are usually nice.

Esel · 13-10-2016 3:34pm

racso1975 wrote: »

If it's for her birthday don't and don't get it delivered to her job. Cause if they don't open it she will not all that stuff come discreetly packaged

Edit: lingerie is also personal. bone persons sexy is anothers slutty

RobbieTheRobber · 13-10-2016 3:38pm

Deleted User wrote: »

www.laperla.com

That's an example of beautiful lingerie that isn't slutty.

I feel like i could buy the entire sweat shop these items are made in for the price they are looking for some of them.

RobbieTheRobber · 13-10-2016 3:40pm

blue note wrote: »

Doesn't really sound like what I'm looking for. My item is a bit of a cross between sexy lingerie and borat style swimwear with cartoon imagery on the little material that exists.

Are you buying this for a stag to wear on his stag do?

13-10-2016 3:45pm

blue note wrote: »

Doesn't really sound like what I'm looking for. My item is a bit of a cross between sexy lingerie and borat style swimwear with cartoon imagery on the little material that exists.

I have to say that it doesn't sound either slutty or sexy.

It sounds hilarious.

osarusan · 13-10-2016 3:49pm

blue note wrote: »

My item is a bit of a cross between sexy lingerie and borat style swimwear with cartoon imagery on the little material that exists.

As I said, I have some of this second-hand if you need it.

Conall Cernach · 13-10-2016 3:54pm

blue note wrote: »

And she lives with her sister so it would be embarrassing if she opened it in front of her. I think it's less likely to happen in the office.

I think that's incredibly inappropriate and likely to cause her severe embarrassment should any of her co-workers see it. What if she opens it in front of the boss or someone like that? I know that I usually open any post or deliveries in front of co-workers without a second thought.

suicide_circus · 13-10-2016 3:55pm

Slutty and sexy are not mutually exclusive

FizzleSticks · 13-10-2016 4:03pm

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murpho999 · 13-10-2016 4:12pm

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Parcel Wizard or Parcel Hotel would be better options.
Most Post office depots are closed on Saturdays.

Olishi4 · 13-10-2016 4:35pm

blue note wrote: »

Doesn't really sound like what I'm looking for. My item is a bit of a cross between sexy lingerie and borat style swimwear with cartoon imagery on the little material that exists.

Buy her two items. One a bit more sexy and classy and then the Borat thing also

and just give them to her rather than sending them in the post.

And also don't mention anything about Borat in relation to the lingerie!

MrMorooka · 13-10-2016 4:38pm

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Where do you live that post office depots are open on Saturday?

FizzleSticks · 13-10-2016 4:47pm

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blueser · 13-10-2016 5:04pm

We could reallu do with pictures of the lady in question, preferably in the lingerie she normally wears.

Er, to help us make a considered decision of course. You understand.

Hammer89 · 13-10-2016 5:06pm

LexieOnRale wrote: »

I would say pretty much 80% of my underwear is novelty. I love it. Bambi, barbie, elephants taking selfies, Garfield, frozen, owls, pigs, Winnie the Pooh. You name it, it's probably in my underwear drawer.

I have Pooh on my underwear most of the time too.

Grandeeod · 13-10-2016 5:54pm

Edible crotchless panties are the best buy. Never knew they existed until I found a half eaten pair in a house I bought many years ago. Swear by them since. Best of both worlds.

Buying lingerie for her

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