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Was a Gift from you with nothing wrong with it returned to you by somebody?

  • 27-02-2016 9:48am
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,828 ✭✭✭


    Because they did'nt like you? Or you were too patronising? Or the gift was too tech? Or to basic. Happened to us with a neighbour, we gave them a box of buiscuits but they would'nt accept it. When I was 11 a friend of my mum's gave me a colouring book. We accepted the colouring book. We left the friend. The colouring book was put away and never seen again as I was considered too old by mum for the colouring book. Good friend too.:)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,920 ✭✭✭TG1


    I paid for dinner for a friend as a gift and later found 50 euro tucked into my handbag. I was a bit insulted actually, as I had made it clear it was a thank you gift.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,915 ✭✭✭The flying mouse


    Some people instead of refusing gifts take them to be polite, and then give them on or bin them.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 91 ✭✭stefan.kuntz


    A box with a poo in it.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    5rtytry56 wrote: »
    Because they did'nt like you? Or you were too patronising? Or the gift was too tech? Or to basic. Happened to us with a neighbour, we gave them a box of buiscuits but they would'nt accept it.

    Did ye buy less tech biscuits thereafter?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,433 ✭✭✭The Raptor


    I had someone destroy gifts in front of me in an argument.

    Family.

    Things got a bit too much because the arguments were always started by them, they have paranoia and always thought I was out to get them.

    I cut them off for about two years. Reintroduced them again and only for it to start up again.

    I cut them off. Won't have anything to do with childish, bratty behaviour from an adult. Gave them a chance and i wouldn't again.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    I hate that. Having gifts thrown back into your face.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,226 ✭✭✭boobar


    Well I used to buy gifts for all my family - parents, brothers, sisters, their partners and kids.

    Spent a fortune overall, and no one really appreciated it.

    So now I only buy for my wife, kid, godchild.

    They get very good gifts, I spend less and guess what none of the others complain.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,828 ✭✭✭5rtytry56


    Some people instead of refusing gifts take them to be polite, and then give them on or bin them.
    A particularly Irish Solution.

    Reminds me of a Gift Teapot given around between Garrett Fitzgerald, Margaret Thatcher, and Charlie Haughey back in the day.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,235 ✭✭✭✭Cee-Jay-Cee


    I gave my next door neighbour a ball. He threw it back to me. I threw it back and then he threw it back again. I threw it back and then he threw it back again. I threw it back and then he threw it back again....and so on. So ungrateful.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,058 ✭✭✭✭anewme


    Once invited a group (family) for dinner and they accepted. The day before one rang to ask what was being cooked. It was lasagne. I got s call later to say two of them (adults not kids) didn't really like lasagne so could they bring their own dinner!!!

    I told them to have their own dinner out in a restaurant then. Dinner was cancelled and there have been no dinners since! Saved a fortune as I usually lay on a '3 course meal plus lots booze!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    I once gave a dwarf a Snow White dvd, he said "I'm not happy!", I said "Which one are you then?".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,300 ✭✭✭✭razorblunt


    I once brought crabs to a party...


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