What do I do?

Lux23

I was away with a friend yesterday, my boyfriend was at home and he text at about 9.30pm to say he needed to update his phone and it might be off for a while.

That was fine. I rang him a couple of times and there was no answer. Still no answer at 11am this morning. I just got home and he's not here, his phone and debit card are though. He even left his key.

I don't know what to do. There are a few numbers on his phone but no clues as to where he could be. He does leave his phone when he goes out, but he would contact me in some other form.

eviltwin

Do you have any reason to be concerned, I have to be honest if I came home and my husband wasn't here I would just assume he had gone out and would be back whenever. If it helps maybe log onto his Facebook and see if there are any indications there of where he might have gone, maybe message or call a few of his friends to see if they might know. Try not to worry, its probably something very innocent.

listermint

Does he like football? Could be gone to pub to watch a game.

Probably a bit early to be worrying.

Text his mate to get an idea

R.D. aka MR.D

Where is he supposed to be right now. What would his usual routine be?

Don't panic. There is probably a simple explanation.

I used to live above my OH and I came home from work one day and his front door was ajar, his windows were open. I went in. His phone was lying on the table. His keys were on the table by the door. I panicked. I was thinking all sorts.

An hour later, he walks in the door. He'd gone to work. But he was playing video games right before and was about to be late so he just ran out the door, not giving a second thought to anything.

Don't panic.

Lux23

The hospital just rang to say he was brought in last night. He's ok, but lm so upset.

SillyBeans

Lux23 wrote:

The hospital just rang to say he was brought in last night. He's ok, but lm so upset.

Jesus, didn't expect that. Hope all is ok. Nothing you could have done and you say he's ok so try not to worry

Lux23

I know, I knew there was something wrong though. Even if he did go on beer he would never leave it so long not to contact me. He was beaten up and had his wallet stolen.

sReq | uTeK

Lux23 wrote: »

I know, I knew there was something wrong though. Even if he did go on beer he would never leave it so long not to contact me. He was beaten up and had his wallet stolen.

Bastard's sorry to hear that op. Hope he's recovering well.

Penny Tration

Jesus lux, I'm so sorry. Your poor boyfriend. and poor you, it must be an awful shock! *hug*

He's okay though and that's the main thing. Go see him and ease your mind by knowing he's okay

Teafor two12345

Lux23 wrote: »

I know, I knew there was something wrong though. Even if he did go on beer he would never leave it so long not to contact me. He was beaten up and had his wallet stolen.

There is nothing really to say except holy **** I'm sorry! Jesus!

He is ok though. I hope they get the person. Unbelievable.

Go go be with him. Take care.

JillyQ

Lux23 wrote: »

The hospital just rang to say he was brought in last night. He's ok, but lm so upset.

Wasn't expecting to hear that. Hope he is OK, and that the scumbags who did it have been caught.

amdublin

Oh dear am so sorry.


I was reading the thread and was going to post my suggestion that he had gone for a run and was probably back by now.


Hope he is ok.

Lux23

Thanks everyone, he's tucked up in bed with his game yoke. The thread can probably be closed now. Thanks again.

Stheno

Lux23 wrote: »

Thanks everyone, he's tucked up in bed with his game yoke. The thread can probably be closed now. Thanks again.

Hope he recovers fully and soon.

Hmm_Messiah

Lux23 wrote: »

I was away with a friend yesterday, my boyfriend was at home and he text at about 9.30pm to say he needed to update his phone and it might be off for a while.

That was fine. I rang him a couple of times and there was no answer. Still no answer at 11am this morning. I just got home and he's not here, his phone and debit card are though. He even left his key.

I don't know what to do. There are a few numbers on his phone but no clues as to where he could be. He does leave his phone when he goes out, but he would contact me in some other form.

How was he going to get back in ?