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  • 13-08-2015 2:43pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey,

    I like this guy across the road from work - I posted here before about it - but we've gotten to know each other a little better since last time. I am starting to really like him and want to either give him my number or ask him out. But I am so nervous, I am so scared of rejection.

    I know others mentioned here before that to keep in mind he could already be in a relationship but I do feel there's something between us. He gave me really nice compliments on my hair the last week and it made me feel great.

    Yes, I know I probably am acting a little like a teenager with a crush but I can't help it. As I said in my last post, it's the first person I have really liked in a long while and it's driving me a bit nuts - all the wondering does he like me etc..!

    I am changing jobs in a few weeks to another part of the city and am wondering if this is the chance to go for it.

    Does anyone have any tips on how to casually ask a guy out? I am quite shy and find myself holding back on conversation a bit when there are other people in the shop. I need to get over this hurdle if I am to give him my number or ask him out.

    Any advice would be greatly appreciated.


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  • #2
    magicmushroom
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 824 ✭✭✭magicmushroom


    Could you maybe add him on Facebook? It's a bit more casual than giving him your number.

    If he complimented you on your hair then I'd say he likes you.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi, thanks for your reply. I don't know if he has facebook, but would it not be strange if I added him out of the blue?


  • #4
    njs030
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,030 ✭✭✭njs030


    I wouldnt think someone saying you have nice hair means anything at all. It really depends on the person and how they interact with others, its very little to go on.

    Op if you like him give him your number and say you'd love to meet for coffee. Worst thing that can happen is he doesn't contact you.


  • #5
    OneOfThem
    Closed Accounts Posts: 667 ✭✭✭OneOfThem


    "So, you doing anything interesting at the weekend? I was thinking about going to 'the thing/place/event you would have even the slightest interest in going to' but no one I know is on for it. Do you like 'things'?" *Give him a chance to get off a shot here, leave a bit of a gap, let him answer, smile and wait*. On the off chance he's a bit gun shy. Add "Sure fvck it, maybe we'll head in together so?"


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