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Another breakup story

  • 22-07-2015 2:42pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So boy meets really really nice girl which he was looking for at the time(both 32) spent alot of time together and got on so well, fast forward a year and a half into the relationship and I firmly realise something is missing, I was never truly attracted to this girl which made me so frustrated especially as I would be eying up everything I'm attracted to.

    One night I cheated and kissed a girl when i was drunk which she found out about and it was heartbreaking to see her upset and killed me, anyway she decided to forgive me and fast forward 7 months I ended it because I was so frustrated of not being sexually attracted to her but I couldnt say that was the reason as no girl wants to here that, we had be arguing quite alot lately due to me losing interest in the relationship for reasons stated above. Its after knocking her for six and she's in bits over it and so am I because she's a wonderful woman. I keep questioning myself for ending it and go through stages of regret but I know I will never be truly satisfied so what's the point in giving into her demands and trying again? anyone been through similar?

    Thanks


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Do not go back with her. Whether she realizes it or not she's better off without you. Now she is free to find someone who is attracted to her


  • #3
    magicmushroom
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 824 ✭✭✭magicmushroom


    For me personally, sexual attraction is one of the most important things in a relationship. I don't care what anyone says - a person can make you laugh all day, be the best friend you ever had, make you happy - but without sex, it's just friendship.

    It's human nature to seek sexual pleasure. You won't ever be happy without it.

    I think you've done the right thing in ending it and in time she will be ok. Breakups are terribly hard, it's called heartbreak for a reason.

    Sorry for what you're going through, keep your chin up and I hope you're both feeling better soon :)


  • #4
    CaraMay
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    Op leave her alone please. You've wasted so much of her time already. You cheated on her, don't fancy her and seem to be with her out of pity. If I were her that would devastate me more than anything.

    Let her go to meet someone who does fancy her like mad and who won't cheat on her.


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