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How to help my hubby??

  • 24-06-2015 9:25pm
    #1
    dueaug
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 156 ✭✭


    Hubby's best mate passed away and funeral was today. Diagnosed with Cancer 28th May and died 18th June. How the f**k am I supposed to help my hubby. Blow-jobs and steak not helping at the min :( Sitting watching Team America at the mo, twisted the pair of us!


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  • #2
    kfallon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    Sorry to hear about your husband's friend!
    This is prob not the forum for this tbh


  • #3
    jonon9
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,124 ✭✭✭jonon9


    Just be there for him is all you can do......plus more blowjobs


  • #4
    eviltwin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Just be there, give him a shoulder to lean on when he needs it and space when he needs it. Talk to him, it's okay to say you don't know what to do to help. Be guided by him.


  • #5
    noway12345
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,152 ✭✭✭noway12345


    I think you're being very insensitive. He's having a very difficult time and here you are on the internet having a laugh at his expense. You have to give him anal to make up for it.


  • #6
    dueaug
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 156 ✭✭dueaug


    Thanks jonon9 and kfallon looking for something f****d up and weird. Where else on Boards am I gonna find it?


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  • #7
    Kwiecien
    Closed Accounts Posts: 83 ✭✭Kwiecien


    Be there. That's all you have to be. Don't stress if he's quiet, leave him be.

    Bring him tea, put your arm around him on the sofa. Ruffle his hair when you walk past him.

    He might not want to talk, he's probably tired too after being through so much. His friends illness will have taken its toll.

    But you are there. That's everything - believe me.


  • #8
    Stheno
    Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 51,690 Mod ✭✭✭✭Stheno


    dueaug wrote: »
    Thanks jonon9 and kfallon looking for something f****d up and weird. Where else on Boards am I gonna find it?

    There's a bereavement forum which would be much better pm a mod to move this

    Sorry for your loss


  • #9
    Supercell
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,543 ✭✭✭✭Supercell


    If this isnt a BS OP, then he needs his other best friend, you, to be there for him. Cook something nice, do the dishes, don't say its his turn for a few days, that kind of thing.
    https://www.loughlinstown.ie/

    Have a weather station?, why not join the Ireland Weather Network - http://irelandweather.eu/



  • #10
    dueaug
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 156 ✭✭dueaug


    Thanks all. Better for us if I log off til the effects of alcohol have worn off.


  • #11
    Tombi!
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    Hey, there.
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=1363
    That forum would be much better suited. They have a charter which you should read first.
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057241741
    I hope you and your husband get things sorted out.


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