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Paranoid

  • 19-06-2015 2:18pm
    #1
    corklado
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 ✭


    Hi i am with a girl the past month, now too be fare im not great lookin but shes unreal shes stunnin, i spose i thinks shes too good for me, now shes very good too me etc, always wants too see me etc,we get on great, we tell eachother everything its great i just am paranoid i dont no why really, like she told me she was gna go away and get lingerie and dress up for me, and she did we booked into hotel for the weekend it was fantastic, shes v good too me, i just wanna stop feelin this way


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  • #2
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    The only advice anyone can give you is to just stop. She's with you for a reason. She seems to be really into you. What else do you need? Stop being paranoid because this could ultimately push her away. Instead of questioning why it is, just be happy that it is.


  • #3
    HardenendMan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 583 ✭✭✭HardenendMan


    OP I could have written your post 4 years ago!

    On our first few encounters, my wife made it clear she was interested in me. I was actually suspicious. Thought it was a piss take that she was put up to. She thinks that's hilarious now by the way. She is a stunner. I'm not good looking at all at all.

    The above poster is right, you just have to shift it out of your head. I eventually did. I started being confident because I had such a gorgeous pursuer. Happily married. She still tells me I'm gorgeous. Still feel a little surprise even now to be honest!


  • #4
    whiskeyman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,564 ✭✭✭✭whiskeyman


    Yee are lucky sods!
    Enjoy every second of it but just don't take it for granted.
    be sure you put the effort in too to show how much you appreciate she's doing for you.
    Enjoy yourselves!


  • #5
    jus_tin4
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 432 ✭✭jus_tin4


    whiskeyman wrote: »
    Yee are lucky sods!
    Enjoy every second of it but just don't take it for granted.
    be sure you put the effort in too to show how much you appreciate she's doing for you.
    Enjoy yourselves!

    exactly! you'll be kicking yourself if she leaves!


  • #6
    Lucuma
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,356 ✭✭✭Lucuma


    alot of very good looking girls with not-so-good-looking lads. happens all the time. girls are more personality-based, men are more looks-based


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  • #7
    lemmno
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 421 ✭✭lemmno


    Had a boyfriend once who thought that about us. I didn't see it, I felt we were equal but eventually I got tired of having to reassure him all the time and I left. Embrace it, she loves you and she feels just as lucky to have you. Don't ruin it with this. You really just have to accept she loves you. Deal with it!! :)


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