I'm a gay man an I don't like cum

Bebopclown

I don't like it at all and I keep getting told this is very strange. I don't get grossed out by even attempting to suck a penis due to this and it makes me feel very guilty.
Is it strange?

Rick_

I don't like the taste of it, as I'm sure many people don't, though things can be done to improve that, such as eating certain foods, or if it comes to it, just have your partner wear a condom when giving oral.

Is it the taste you don't like or is it cum in general, i.e. seeing it, touching it etc.?

Bebopclown

Paddy C wrote: »

I don't like the taste of it, as I'm sure many people don't, though things can be done to improve that, such as eating certain foods, or if it comes to it, just have your partner wear a condom when giving oral.

Is it the taste you don't like or is it cum in general, i.e. seeing it, touching it etc.?

Seeing it, touching it, just gross. I don't like fluids, even kissing grosses me out.

Rick_

Well, I would say, in my own opinion, that even if kissing grosses you out then yes, I find that a bit weird. But hey, if we were all the same the world would be rather boring. Some things just aren't for some people.

A quick query though, if fluids gross you out, and kissing, oral and anal involve such things, how do you see yourself having any intimate sexual contact with anyone ever that you'll find relaxing and pleasurable? Where do you think this hate for 'fluid' comes from?

Ten of Swords

Sounds like molysmophobia to me. Fear of germs and contamination.

Op is this fear of fluids because of a perceived 'uncleanlinsss'? If so then what you have described is not that uncomnon

Bebopclown

I don't know what it is, I just find it really gross and nasty. I've tried a bit of oral but the pre cum that comes out makes me feel like I'm going to throw up. I think there is also the fear of getting infected by something like HIV.

J_E

Bebopclown wrote: »

I don't know what it is, I just find it really gross and nasty. I've tried a bit of oral but the pre cum that comes out makes me feel like I'm going to throw up. I think there is also the fear of getting infected by something like HIV.

You need to find people you trust better then... This could end up being a serious issue if you don't find the root of this cause and face it. Even something like kissing causes a problem? I know people are grossed out about kissing initially but soon are fine when they experience it. You don't necessarily need to do oral if you don't like the feeling of it - or you could find an unflavoured condom to use with. It's not strange to not want to taste/touch cum and you can easily avoid it, but you need to work this out.

Annasopra

Ten of Swords wrote: »

Sounds like molysmophobia to me. Fear of germs and contamination.

Op is this fear of fluids because of a perceived 'uncleanlinsss'? If so then what you have described is not that uncomnon

Please don't diagnose someone! It's not something we would encourage here at all.

Pretty fast

Sounds pretty normal to me. You're probably not a full blown poof at all mate. Why would you want to suck on a penis in the first place is the real question.

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Pride Before Ignorance

Kissing is fine for me. I am not a great fan of cum. I don't mind licking or sucking, but not the explosion at the end!!

Talking with my straight friends, some of the women don't like cum either. Also, most of my male friends hate licking their GFs out!!

MoreSunshine!

Not weird at all, everyone has their own particular interests sexually.