Ever had a one night stand?

Elessar

Have you done the meet girl/guy in nightclub bring them home for a shag then never see them again thing?

I was thinking recently, I've never done it. I'm 29 and I feel like I've missed out a bit. The whole club scene was never for me, and my friends were similar so it was rare enough we went out to them. The few times I did got me nowhere with girls, and at this stage of my life, I couldn't be bothered with them. I still feel I've missed out though. I would like to do it, just to say I could I guess.

Is it a common thing, like, has practically everyone done it?!

Wacker The Attacker

Yeah. theyre rarely worth it

HalloweenJack

Wacker The Attacker wrote: »

Yeah. theyre rarely worth it

Au contraire.

You can really let yourself go in a ONS. The best sex I've had from a physical pleasure point of view was in ONS.

And, though it's never happened to me, I'm sure ONS can happen anywhere, not just in clubs.

fermanagh_man

University in Belfast for 4 years

Think that answers your question

Wacker The Attacker

HalloweenJack wrote: »

Au contraire.

You can really let yourself go in a ONS. The best sex I've had from a physical pleasure point of view was in ONS.

And, though it's never happened to me, I'm sure ONS can happen anywhere, not just in clubs.

I've found it to be the opposite. The best sex for me is usually meaningful.

Too many one noghters are ruined by drink and drugs

Lucifer MorningStar

I stood up for a whole night once. I wouldn't recommend it though, my feet were killing me the next day

Wacker The Attacker

fermanagh_man wrote: »

University in Belfast for 4 years

Think that answers your question

Ne'er a sniff of gash?

Wacker The Attacker

Lucifer MorningStar wrote: »

I stood up for a whole night once. I wouldn't recommend it though, my feet were killing me the next day

Try it lying down next time

Lisha

fermanagh_man wrote: »

University in Belfast for 4 years

Think that answers your question

4 years of 'Belfast says No' ......

frag420

Had one last night.....can't get her to leave! Think il tell I love her......that should get het moving!

Wacker The Attacker

frag420 wrote: »

Had one last night.....can't get her to leave! Think il tell I love her......that should get het moving!

go again so

harry Bailey esq

Yes,many.As whacker mentioned, rarely worth it.Ocassionly you'll dig a diamond from the dirt.

Penny Tration

If you feel you've missed out, go to Coppers and be done with it.

To answer your question - 26, have never had casual sex. Don't intend to either. I've given a casual blow job once though :pac:

smcelhinney

frag420 wrote: »

Had one last night.....can't get her to leave! Think il tell I love her......that should get het moving!

Unfortunately, Im pretty sure your hand is attached to your body mate, so good luck with that.

Wacker The Attacker

harry Bailey esq wrote: »

Yes,many.As whacker mentioned, rarely worth it.Ocassionly you'll dig a diamond from the dirt.

True. You'll get the occasional one but you'll have to go through a hell of a lot of disappointment and mediocrity first.

Luke92

Sierra Creek wrote: »

It's something you should do as clearly you are curious about it.

I'm curious about what it's like to murder someone. Should I just get out and do it?

Wacker The Attacker

Jenny Thalia wrote: »

If you feel you've missed out, go to Coppers and be done with it.

To answer your question - 26, have never had casual sex. Don't intend to either. I've given a casual blow job once though :pac:

To paraphrase Billy Connolly, there's no such thing as casual sex if you're doing it correctly.

Wacker The Attacker

Luke92 wrote: »

I'm curious about what it's like to murder someone. Should I just get out and do it?

Yes.

Wang King

frag420 wrote: »

Had one last night.....can't get her to leave! Think il tell I love her......that should get het moving!

Or just stick it up her ass....she'll be out of there like a shot

AndonHandon

Most of the girls I've been with have been one night stands. They are great fun assuming the girl isn't just going to lie there and not take some sort of initiative too.

galljga1

Jenny Thalia wrote: »

If you feel you've missed out, go to Coppers and be done with it.

To answer your question - 26, have never had casual sex. Don't intend to either. I've given a casual blow job once though :pac:

That's a bit Bill Clintonish.

Un Croissant

Wang King wrote: »

Or just stick it up her ass....she'll be out of there like a shot

After a night on the beer and possibly a dodgy Doner kebab after, I wouldn't risk it. She's probably been holding it in, and sending an excavation team in might unearth something nasty.


You don't want to spend the day cleaning, OP.

Lucifer MorningStar

frag420 wrote: »

Had one last night.....can't get her to leave! Think il tell I love her......that should get het moving!

You'll never get rid off her if you say that. Tell her that you are a Christian and tell her about the Lord Jesus and what he did for her at the cross and that should get rid off her pretty quick.

arayess

had more than a few. enjoyed them .

some were excellent, some average and some poor but all fun experiences.

Paarthurnax

First girl I slept with was a one night stand, cycling to school the next day I was beaming.:D

Buona Fortuna

Jenny Thalia wrote: »

If you feel you've missed out, go to Coppers and be done with it.

To answer your question - 26, have never had casual sex. Don't intend to either. I've given a casual blow job once though :pac:

Casual as in kinda half-hearted?

Wang King

Un Croissant wrote: »

After a night on the beer and possibly a dodgy Doner kebab after, I wouldn't risk it. She's probably been holding it in, and sending an excavation team in might unearth something nasty.


You don't want to spend the day cleaning, OP.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fgqS9iIdgJk

Un Croissant

Paarthurnax wrote: »

First girl I slept with was a one night stand, cycling to school the next day I was beaming.:D

I bet she didn't cycle to school for a few days, hey wha?

You dirty dog ya, hey wha.

galljga1

Paarthurnax wrote: »

First girl I slept with was a one night stand, cycling to school the next day I was beaming.:D

Your ma does not count

pew

Yeah I've had a few. Fun at the but but really not worth it

anto9

Does having sex with prostitutes count ?

nxbyveromdwjpg

I don't get people saying 'it's not worth it', not worth what, not worth it how?

It's just sex, we're not talking about paying for it are we?

galljga1

nm wrote: »

I don't get people saying 'it's not worth it', not worth what, not worth it how?

It's just sex, we're not talking about paying for it are we?

Yeah, no idea what that is about. 48 now and married at 27. In my teens/twenties there was more of a pub/club scene and one night stands were low hanging fruit.
If you didn't get your hole in Bad Bobs, you weren't alive.

Baron Kurtz

pew wrote: »

Yeah I've had a few. Fun at the but but really not worth it

Fun at or in the but but?

anto9

nm wrote: »

I don't get people saying 'it's not worth it', not worth what, not worth it how?

It's just sex, we're not talking about paying for it are we?

I dont mind paying for it .No commitments later.:D

Never, not interested.

Not judging anyone who does, but its not for everyone.

Grayson

Sex is like food. Sometimes it's meaningful with candles and romance. Sometimes you just want a kebab. Both are fun.

Menas

Had one or two over the years...I liked them but like been settled too.

Shenshen

Had a few in my time, not in a while though.
But I have never had one with someone I met in a nightclub, I really hate those places and avoid them like the plague. Never had one while drunk or on drugs, either - I can't imagine I'd enjoy that.

Greenmachine

A few, when I was single. They usually wanted more, so It was lucky I was cute enough to be invited their place instead of taking them to mine.

cizolin

Yup....barely remember some of them though. One had a pet hamster in her room so I went down to sleep on the couch afterwards.

Idbatterim

First girl I slept with was a one night stand, cycling to school the next day I was beaming.

ha, reminds me of the below from 500 days of summer, when our hero bangs summer for the first time...

TheBeardedLady

I did in my late teens and twenties and they were fun for the most part. Often the chase/being chased was more fun than the act itself. They're not that great if you're genuinely looking for something deeper though and I sometimes left the following morning feeling more empty than I did initially. As long as you're in the right mindset, they're fun ime.

MadDog76

Jenny Thalia wrote: »

If you feel you've missed out, go to Coppers and be done with it.

To answer your question - 26, have never had casual sex. Don't intend to either. I've given a casual blow job once though :pac:

My kinda girl!!!!!!!!

Fleawuss

frag420 wrote: »

Had one last night.....can't get her to leave! Think il tell I love her......that should get het moving!

Newbie. :pac:

MadDog76

Shenshen wrote: »

Had a few in my time, not in a while though.
But I have never had one with someone I met in a nightclub, I really hate those places and avoid them like the plague. Never had one while drunk or on drugs, either - I can't imagine I'd enjoy that.

You've had a few One Night Stands with no drink, nightclub or drugs involved?
Please explain

shalalala

26, had one. Wasn't meant to be a ons but that is how it turned out. As I always thought, it isn't for me. Sex tends to get better the longer with the person and I just like to have feelings there. I can tell you now. I wouldn't bother having another one, just not the way I am wired

MadDog76

Panther33 wrote: »

She chats up guys at her local bingo club.

There needs to be a distinction between one night stands and same night lays.

A Favourite Of Mine ........ 69!!!

BINGO!!!!

Egginacup

Elessar wrote: »

Have you done the meet girl/guy in nightclub bring them home for a shag then never see them again thing?

I was thinking recently, I've never done it. I'm 29 and I feel like I've missed out a bit. The whole club scene was never for me, and my friends were similar so it was rare enough we went out to them. The few times I did got me nowhere with girls, and at this stage of my life, I couldn't be bothered with them. I still feel I've missed out though. I would like to do it, just to say I could I guess.

Is it a common thing, like, has practically everyone done it?!

I've had several one night stands and loved all of them. I went through my slutty phase from about 30 to 32. I was single, making good money. Being decent looking and knowing how to make a girl laugh is important. Though on a couple of occasions the girl singled me out and made her intentions clear very early. One time I was chatting to two random blokes in a bar in Amsterdam and this lovely black Tanzanian girl just tapped one of them on the shoulder and told him to tell me that she liked me. They did the honourable thing and left and me and her had our night of debauchery together. Others were Aussie girls travelling the world or English hen night ladies.

There's no stigma to it anymore. If a girl wants a roll in the hay with some stranger she's free to do so and nobody is going to judge her...except jealous prudes. Women are more empowered now and don't have to explain themselves to anyone or "know their place". I'm all for it.
One ONS I had in Amsterdam was a girl from the English midlands. We met, hit it off, partied and she spent the night with me. In the morning we had a quicky and then she had to go back to her hotel, hook up with her mates and head to the airport. She got dressed, gave me a quick smooch and then as she was leaving threw a pair of black knickers at me and said "Something to remember me by, babe. Add 'em to your collection.", and then went clipping up the street in her strappy stilleto sandals. Saucy little hussy. She was fab. I felt used and good.

Give it a go OP. You don't have to be into the club scene or anything like that. Go for a weekend to Liverpool. Just go to a bar where lots of women are and get chatting. Liverpool girls love to chat and they're very open and friendly too. They don't turn their noses up at your advances. If they don't like you they'll just say "Go away, ya cheeky bugger. I don't like you but me mate Debbie might. Go talk to her."

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Sheep count don't they

Egginacup

Wacker The Attacker wrote: »

I've found it to be the opposite. The best sex for me is usually meaningful.

Too many one noghters are ruined by drink and drugs

What's "meaningful" exactly?
Some contrived Mills and Boon scenario with your fucking "soulmate" or sheer reckless, turbo-charged abandon with someone who is equally in heat. Now that to me is meaningful whether it is with my significant other at the time or with a total stranger.