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  • 22-04-2015 6:31am
    #1
    rupert123
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5 ✭


    Hello I'm a father of three you g children which I've not seen since Christmas. I feel like I'm slipping back into depression which I'm clear of almost two years. I've tried on daily basis just even for phone contact .I know the children want to spend time with me it's their mother who is refusing to see this. When I suggested I was going to apply for acces I received a safety order in the post and now have been told not to contact at all. I've already missed my daughters birthday and now my 2 sons is coming up .I can't take much more I also live alone and have no friends to talk this about .


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  • #2
    athtrasna
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,420 ✭✭✭✭athtrasna


    Sounds like you need legal advice, if your ex is blocking access then you can seek it the legal way. A safety order will not work in your favour though.

    We can't offer legal advice on boards other than to suggest you talk to a solicitor.


  • #3
    strobe
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,872 ✭✭✭strobe


    Lawyer up. Do your research and then contract the best one you can afford. Do so sooner rather than later.


  • #4
    rupert123
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5 ✭rupert123


    No I'm admitting I've done some horrible thing gs during my illness but came back stronger it's the empty sick feeling to the pit of my stomach that I'm really struggling g to cope with missing g so much of their childhood


  • #5
    Penny Tration
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,687 ✭✭✭✭Penny Tration


    If you've done horrible things, things so horrible that she took out a protection order on you - you need a solicitor immediately.

    Nothing we can say will help. You need legal advice and quickly before that safety order is escalated to a barring order.


  • #6
    rupert123
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5 ✭rupert123


    Sorry you've picked it up wrong some nothing g wrong in 2 years e ery this g was perfect t up and including xmas


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Honestly OP there's is nothing anyone can say here other then get legal advice and speak to your GP or look for a support group for your depression. There is clearly a huge back story here that we are not aware and it doesn't matter what the details are, you need legal advice not random strangers on an internet forum.


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