advice needed....Facebook....

littlemiss46

Hi all,
I'm dating a guy for the past two years....and I spend to roughly 4 nights a week at his place with him and his parents,he is farming.I noticed today from Facebook that he liked a pic of his ex,she lived in europe and they dated for 5 years before he met me.I was a bit disappointed to see this,and he doesnt know I've seen it,am I over reacting?? Ah to be honest I'm 31 and I feel we should prob be moved in together at this point but nothing has been discussed and I guess im a bit disheartened xx

littlemiss46

littlemiss46 wrote: »

Hi all,
I'm dating a guy for the past two years....and I spend to roughly 4 nights a week at his place with him and his parents,he is farming.I noticed today from Facebook that he liked a pic of his ex,she lived in europe and they dated for 5 years before he met me.I was a bit disappointed to see this,and he doesnt know I've seen it,am I over reacting?? Ah to be honest I'm 31 and I feel we should prob be moved in together at this point but nothing has been discussed and I guess im a bit disheartened xx

Overreacting. Liking a photo doesn't mean much.

Meauldsegosha

Yes you are overreacting about him liking a photo on Facebook. As for moving in together, have you started a discussion with him about it or are you waiting for him to ask you?

Stavro Mueller

Yes I think you're reading too much into it. It's only a "like" which can mean as little or as much as you want it to.

What it is doing though is shining a light on your own relationship. You obviously aren't happy or secure as things are though. Why haven't you discussed moving in together if that is what you want? Are you afraid to bring up the topic yourself for fear of what he might say? If you want to have a family with this guy or with anyone else you need to know where you stand. I get the impression you don't really know.

littlemiss46

Meauldsegosha wrote: »

Yes you are overreacting about him liking a photo on Facebook. As for moving in together, have you started a discussion with him about it or are you waiting for him to ask you?

Ah I've said one or two things but as it would prob be moving Into some place on the farm I feel he should may be be asking me.this is my longest relationship but his has been 5 years long distance.Ah my head is just wrecked

Stavro Mueller

Why don't you stop dropping hints that may be flying right over his head and sit him down for a proper discussion about where you see things going. Is it some sort of test that you're putting him through by waiting around for him to ask?

Meauldsegosha

littlemiss46 wrote: »

Ah I've said one or two things but as it would prob be moving Into some place on the farm I feel he should may be be asking me.this is my longest relationship but his has been 5 years long distance.Ah my head is just wrecked

And what if he doesn't ask for another year or 3 or 5? Are you going to wait around getting more and more frustrated. You are dating two it is an ideal time to have a discussion about what you both want from the relationship.

Taltos

Closing as OP has closed their account making it impossible to reply.