Dealing with people who talk absolute <SNIP>

sw33t_r3v3ng3

Basically a little <SNIP> is talking pure crap about the state of mine and the OH's relationship. Were both going through a lot at the moment and clearly his little brain can't comprehend it, so he decides to point it out to both of us every time he sees us (which unfortunately is frequently enough). I'm about ready to knock seven shades of <SNIP> out of him. I've told him multiple times to mind his own business, but he chooses not to. What is the best way to shut the little <SNIP> up?

ElleEm

sw33t_r3v3ng3 wrote: »

What is the best way to shut the little <SNIP> up?

By ignoring the nonsense and drama of it all and getting on with your life. There are two people in your relationship- he is neither!

tomwaterford

Cut him out and have nothing to do with him

sw33t_r3v3ng3

ElleEm wrote:

By ignoring the nonsense and drama of it all and getting on with your life. There are two people in your relationship- he is neither!

tomwaterford wrote:

Cut him out and have nothing to do with him

Thanks for the replies.. Im not one for drama, i usually stay away from it because i see no point in engaging in that nonsense but also because it doesn't involve me. Its continuous though, and I'm pretty sick of it! The thing is I've told him straight out to stop multiple times but he continues.

Mr. Remote Control

I'd say this to him: These are your words by the way and I think they're perfect. Added one or two of my own words along with some added punctuation.

Listen up you little <SNIP>! Stop talking pure crap about the mine and the OH's relationship. You point it out to both of us every time you sees us. We're both going through a lot at the moment and clearly your little brain can't comprehend it. You know <SNIP>! I feel like knocking seven shades of <SNIP> out of you. But I won't. At the same time, I won't be tolerating you buzzing around annoying me and my other half like a damned fly. I want you to clear away off out of my orbit, for good and sharpish! You little <SNIP>! I've told you multiple times to mind you own business. Now mind it.

sw33t_r3v3ng3

Mr. Remote Control wrote:

Listen up you little <SNIP>! Stop talking pure crap about the mine and the OH's relationship. You point it out to both of us every time you sees us. We're both going through a lot at the moment and clearly your little brain can't comprehend it. You know <SNIP>
I feel like knocking seven shades of <SNIP> out of you. But I won't. At the same time, I won't be tolerating you buzzing around annoying me and my other half like a damned fly. I want you to clear away off out of my orbit, for good and sharpish! You little <SNIP>! I've told you multiple times to mind you own business. Now mind it.

Doesn't sound all that bad, although I'd say he'd be in the back of the ambulance before I finished my speech :P

Tokyo

sw33t_r3v3ng3 wrote: »

Doesn't sound all that bad, although I'd say he'd be in the back of the ambulance before I finished my speech :P

Mod Note:
OP - I appreciate that you are trying to make light of your situation, but please be aware that we don't advocate violence as a solution in the PI forum, as per the forum charter.

sw33t_r3v3ng3

mike_ie wrote:

Mod Note: OP - I appreciate that you are trying to make light of your situation, but please be aware that we don't advocate violence as a solution in the PI forum, as per the forum charter.

Apologies, Will pay more attention to the charter in future!

Sun in Capri

Can you not cut him out of your life altogether? Why surround ourselves with people like this if we don't have to!