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annoying ex

  • 27-02-2015 10:17pm
    #1
    EmzMcDjbabyb
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 ✭


    Hi guys i recently divorced about 2 months and my ex wont get a place. He lives across the road in his friends house. I feel lik im being judged and watched. I want him get his own place and move out from area coz obviously the children very confused. He also does the opposite to wat I say so if i telk kids no they run over nd say yes. Please help


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  • #2
    wakeboarding
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18 ✭wakeboarding


    Your divorced 2 months and he's living across the road. You need to be separated at least 4 years before getting a divorce so why is it now a problem??


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    With all due respect, OP, what right do you have to dictate where anyone else has to live? It may be uncomfortable for you but he has the right to stay wherever he likes.


  • #4
    Neyite
    Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    bananaRep12 wrote: »
    With all due respect, OP, what right do you have to dictate where anyone else has to live? It may be uncomfortable for you but he has the right to stay wherever he likes.

    Could also be so that he can keep tabs on the OP, see who she has over to the house, and use what he sees to battle over custody issues. From what she says when he directly contradicts her instructions to the children it sounds like he gets a kick out of being in her face the whole time.

    Op, is it a possibility for you to move? I'm afraid he can probably live where he likes, but then, so can you. ;) you might not need to move out of the area, but moving somewhere where you don't face him every time you open your front door would help a lot. And it will help pin down proper set times for access and visitation.


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