Valentines present for new guy

BrowmThomas

So I met a guy 6 weeks ago. Met up with him a few times now (both in 30's). He seems lovely, kind, morals etc. and was fine when I told him I didn't want to sleep with him straight away - sorry if tmi.
Last night when we were talking, he suggested going to a hotel on Valentine's Day.
Serious question for guys, what do I buy for him as I only met him very recently? I would be embarrassed if he turns up with flowers or something and I had nothing.

The Sidewards Man

Are you proceeding with the hotel?

Greenmachine

6 weeks in, I suspect most wouldn't consider it a deal breaker if one gift are exchanged.

BrowmThomas

Yes, I told him I will go, so he said he will organise it.
Honestly don't know if I am really into him. As it's only been 6 weeks, I'm going to give it a little bit longer to see. I genuinely don't mean that to sound bad.

BrowmThomas

But what do I bring for him??

The Sidewards Man

Is he organising a twin room?

BrowmThomas

The Sidewards Man wrote: »

Is he organising a twin room?

No.

The Sidewards Man

BrowmThomas wrote: »

No.

Sexy lingerie for his present.

HamsterFace

Just a card, if even.

Bring a nice bottle of wine and get into the bath would trump anything else

BrowmThomas

The Sidewards Man wrote: »

Sexy lingerie for his present.

That's a given

BrowmThomas

HamsterFace wrote: »

Just a card, if even.

Bring a nice bottle of wine and get into the bath would trump anything else

The bath without the card?
I'm not big into Valentine's Day, it's the little things through the year that are important to me, just feel I should bring something else with me but no idea what as it's such early days.

The Sidewards Man

BrowmThomas wrote: »

That's a given

Say you be on the ball with that.

BrowmThomas

The Sidewards Man wrote: »

Say you be on the ball with that.

I don't want to go and if he won't take money towards anything not have something in return. I tried to pay for dinner last time and he wouldn't let me pay. I like to pay my own way. By bringing something for him, that's my way of paying back something if that makes sense.

The Sidewards Man

BrowmThomas wrote: »

I don't want to go and if he won't take money towards anything not have something in return. I tried to pay for dinner last time and he wouldn't let me pay. I like to pay my own way. By bringing something for him, that's my way of paying back something if that makes sense.

Maybe you should call it off, tell him you cannot work out the logistics. Post pone it after working out a spread sheet with cost etc.

BrowmThomas

The Sidewards Man wrote: »

Maybe you should call it off, tell him you cannot work out the logistics. Post pone it after working out a spread sheet with cost etc.

I just want to bring a gift and some ideas from a guys point as to what they would like if given the choice.

Galwayguy35

Aftershave, won't go to waste if it's a good brand.

BrowmThomas

Thanks Galwayguy35, probably the safest bet.

boobar

What's he in to?

Aftershave?
Maybe voucher for a hot towel shave
Tickets for a gig ( he could bring you)
New laptop maybe

BrowmThomas

boobar wrote: »

What's he in to?

Aftershave?
Maybe voucher for a hot towel shave
Tickets for a gig ( he could bring you)
New laptop maybe

There is a band playing soon in Cork that he mentioned wanting to see in a few weeks time. I could get tickets. If it doesn't last then he could take somebody else. Thanks.

Wibbs

Not really a subject for this forum. There's a Gifts forum that might be worth trying.