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The Brazilian Model part II

  • 11-01-2015 5:05am
    #1
    bajer101
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,178 ✭✭✭


    Just an update. I didn't get her back. I tried everything.


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  • #2
    RobYourBuilder
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,541 ✭✭✭RobYourBuilder


    Expand a bit more, Bajer. What exactly did you try?


  • #3
    blade1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,611 ✭✭✭✭blade1


    bajer101 wrote: »
    Just an update. I didn't get her back. I tried everything.

    Thats probably why she ran a mile!


  • #4
    bajer101
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,178 ✭✭✭bajer101


    Nah. It was google mis-translations and me coming on to too strong. I tried everything after she bailed and when it was already too late. Different culture too. I had no idea what she was wanted. I don't think she knows either.


  • #5
    bajer101
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,178 ✭✭✭bajer101


    @Rob - sorry, I did reply, but it didn't post. I just went to extraordinary lengths to try win her back. I studied what I thought went went wrong and talked to a lot of people who were familiar with culture and who understood what happened. I identified the messages between us where is started to go pear shaped and realised that they were mis-translsated. We had arguments about stuff that neither of us said. I tried to craft the perfect email to explain this and got it translated by a native Portuguese speaker to explain this. But she had moved on.


  • #6
    Asarlai
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 512 ✭✭✭Asarlai


    I think you should try mediation. The Irish Brazilian Mediation Association has a very good reputation.


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  • #7
    Soft Falling Rain
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,315 ✭✭✭Soft Falling Rain


    bajer101 wrote: »
    @Rob - sorry, I did reply, but it didn't post. I just went to extraordinary lengths to try win her back. I studied what I thought went went wrong and talked to a lot of people who were familiar with culture and who understood what happened. I identified the messages between us where is started to go pear shaped and realised that they were mis-translsated. We had arguments about stuff that neither of us said. I tried to craft the perfect email to explain this and got it translated by a native Portuguese speaker to explain this. But she had moved on.

    If nothing else I can admire your effort.


  • #8
    FluffyAngel
    Closed Accounts Posts: 518 ✭✭✭FluffyAngel


    Did you wax on too long ?


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