Should love suffer in silence...

Noobascious

So yeah in love I think few dreams about probably makes it love. I can't tell this particular human. I've no balls becos it's been so long since I've been with anyone, I'm afraid becos I don't want to let them down. My head goes wonky , my body starts to boil around this human. I'm 9 years older but we are both the same size comparatively. The love interest is 20 and I honestly can't tell if this person likes me. Maybe I'm in a lower division looks wise but not that far off. There is a funky side to me but I get too nervous around them and come off as real serious I can't chill out real uptight. What u think?

Rubberchikken

Ask them out. What is there to lose? They just might say yes.
Good luck

Taltos

OP, less of the text speak please or we'll have to close this thread.

Thanks
Taltos

Noobascious

But I just can't talk to them in that way. I haven't had a partner in 12years not even a ONS. **** got fooked up in the last few years I was showering once every three months and brushing my teeth once a week. Since I realised I like this person I brush the teeth all the time and shower every few days. I don't even know if I'm any good in bed. I'm not prepared I don't know what they are like I've been burned before.

kylith

Well, you have two choices: You can hide out and become Stig of the Dump and live forever alone wondering 'what if', and 'if only'. Or you can bite the bullet and take the risk.

What's the worst that can happen? They say no? It's hardly going to prove fatal and you'll have taken that first step.

ewinslet

OP did you originally write this in a different language and then use Google translate to translate it?

Noobascious

I don't think google translate is that bad

Kelly06

Noobascious wrote: »

But I just can't talk to them in that way. I haven't had a partner in 12years not even a ONS. **** got fooked up in the last few years I was showering once every three months and brushing my teeth once a week. Since I realised I like this person I brush the teeth all the time and shower every few days. I don't even know if I'm any good in bed. I'm not prepared I don't know what they are like I've been burned before.

Personal hygiene is massively important, well done in improving the frequency of washing and brushing teeth etc.

honestly after puberty a person who has access to the facilities should shower everyday and brush their teeth twice a day! If I was interested in a man and I discovered that he only washed his nether regions once or twice a week I certainly wouldn't be taking trips there anyway!

Penny Tration

I don't think you should tell the person how you feel to be honest.

You struggle to shower or clean your teeth, which is just basic hygiene.

This would indicate to me (although I'm not a doctor) that you have some issues with yourself that need to be dealt with.

Work on your emotional and physical well being first, then see what happens.

Mick Murdock

Don't do it OP. Unless this was all just a metaphor for an appointment with a doctor.

missjm

OP, I would work on being comfortable with yourself first. Use this as a bit of a wakeup call for motivation. I wouldn't approach this person just yet if I were you. Learn to be happy in who you are and restore some confidence in yourself. And don't forget to keep washing.

Noobascious

Ok I cracked a few jokes got some giggles in return. I was outside smoking in my tshirt and the love interest was dressed like an Eskimo and asked was I not cold, I replied -not with you around -which raised an eyebrow.
Plenty of time and contact details to boot so easy does it.

ewinslet

Noobascious wrote: »

I don't think google translate is that bad

Neither did I, but what other explanation can there be for the 'quality' of the original post?

Noobascious

I don't know. I couldn't breath properly writing the first post because I was extremely anxious. Anyway i had a smoke and breathing problems went away. I feel better now that I got the whole thing off my chest. I'll give it a go and see how it goes.

Penny Tration

Noobascious wrote: »

I don't know. I couldn't breath properly writing the first post because I was extremely anxious. Anyway i had a smoke and breathing problems went away. I feel better now that I got the whole thing off my chest. I'll give it a go and see how it goes.

If you're so anxious that you struggle to breathe when writing a post on the internet, and struggle to wash or clean your teeth, you should NOT be asking this person out. You should be seeking help for your health.

Noobascious

Haha I said I'm cleaning myself now. The anxiety was just the need to get it off my chest. But thanks anyway