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should i?

  • 15-12-2014 3:08am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    i know a girl who is interested in me. she was into then her friend who is allso my friend put off her me. then she slept with my brother but he ist really bothered about her. now she into me again what should i do? should i not bother because she slept with my brother? would it be wierd?


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  • #2
    Neyite
    Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    Its down to the individual I think. I know some siblings that have had the same sexual partners and they are fine with it, others wouldn't be.

    Another thing to consider is that while your brother may be over her, she may not be over him, and trying it on with you to get a reaction from him.

    Do you think that you'd be insecure or jealous about the fact she was with your brother before you? If so, even if its a little bit, its probably best not to go there. There are other fish in the sea, so unless this is a serious attraction and you think it could be a serious relationship, it might not be worth the weirdness.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    If she "was into you then not into you" then slept with your brother and now is "into you again", then actually she's not into you at all and she's just a messer. Giver her a wide berth. Your friend may know what she's like and may have been doing you a favour.


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