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Sleep paralysis, share your story

  • 10-12-2014 12:43am
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 52 ✭✭


    Does anyone suffer from sleep paralysis? If so, what has been your scariest spell? Being a person who gets it, it would be interesting to hear from other people who have it also.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 954 ✭✭✭Highflyer13


    Does anyone suffer from sleep paralysis? If so, what has been your scariest spell? Being a person who gets it, it would be interesting to hear from other people who have it also.

    The first time I got it I thought I died. Truly f**ked up experience.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 83 ✭✭ChewyLewy


    Sometimes get it the day after going on the beer. Scary stuff . Mentally I'm awake but then I just can't move my body.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,893 ✭✭✭Canis Lupus


    'Woke up' couldn't move... realised it was sleep paralysis... chilled out and then woke up properly after a couple of minutes.... simples :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,730 ✭✭✭Sheep Lover


    Every morning before I have to get up, I know I have to get up and try my hardest to move but I just can't. Awful.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 555 ✭✭✭tim3000


    When I work nights I sometimes sleeping tablets to get some sleep during the day. I only get it when I take them. The last time I got it was the worst yet, goose-flesh, the horrible sensation of not being able to move and the feeling that something was sliding the blankets off me and sliding itself into the bed beside me. Miserable experience.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,960 ✭✭✭DarkJager


    Had it a few times, the worst though was one night when I woke up in pitch darkness to a very loud whisper in my ear. Was literally frozen to the spot in fear, couldn't move or even turn around and was 100% certain there was somebody behind me. Terrifying experience to have.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    Wake up.
    See figure standing over bed.
    Freak the f*ck out.
    Wake up properly.
    Try to explain to partner why you were screaming blue murder.
    Repeat.


    Great night's sleep that was.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    This has started to happen to me lately. I woke from my sleep one night and I could not move a muscle, I was lying flat on my back and couldn't move or speak but I was fully aware. I felt like someone was pushing down on my chest and in the corner of my eye I could see a white circle and was convinced it was some sort of poltergeist. All of a sudden I just sat up in the bed and awoke properly. The terror I felt was unbelievable although I specifically remember my heart was not beating fast and this didn't match the fright and anxiety I felt inside. It happened a few nights later when I was lying on my side and woke up and couldn't move. I was convinced there was something behind me in my bed but I couldn't move to see what it was, I heard whispering and tried so hard to move my hand and shout help but I couldn't. These episodes have scared me so much I'm afraid to go to bed at night, they really are terrifying.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 78 ✭✭Books4you


    Anytime it happens to me I Wake up, can't move and 9/10 times I think there is someone on top of me. Usually with a knife. Creepy as hell!

    Have to get up and walk around. If I just try nod off again it keeps happening. Used to happen a couple of times a month but thank god it's a rare occurrence these days! Freaky freaky feeling!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,047 ✭✭✭GerB40


    DarkJager wrote: »
    Had it a few times, the worst though was one night when I woke up in pitch darkness to a very loud whisper in my ear. Was literally frozen to the spot in fear, couldn't move or even turn around and was 100% certain there was somebody behind me. Terrifying experience to have.

    Years ago when I just drank and took drugs all weekend I started having a very similar experience to you on a fairly regular basis. I know, it was my own fault but I was young and thick. Instead of whispering into my ear I used to feel someone blowing into it. I'm a skeptic by nature and never believed in supernatural stuff but when I could literally feel someone blowing into my ear all rationality left, it was clearly a ghost..

    A while after they stopped I told a friend about them, slightly embarrassed at first, but he said they were common enough. Eventually I found out about sleep paralysis and was very relieved to know I wasn't going mad/haunted...

    Moral of the story, don't do drugs. Or if you do, moderate...


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭The Diabolical Monocle


    re: all the above.


    :eek:

    wait .... what

    but this only happens to other people right ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 613 ✭✭✭rodge68


    Just stuck there with someone (usually a man) trying to climb on top !! Haven't had that experience in a while, generally after a long weekend drinking..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,628 ✭✭✭barry181091


    Yeah get it a good bit, used to it though. If I want to go into a Lucid dream, you sort of have to guide yourself into and past the paralysis stage basically.

    If you have particularly bad hallucinatory episodes, one solution is to start sleeping on your stomach. The hallucinations and terror should subside, even if the paralysis does not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,814 ✭✭✭harry Bailey esq


    Does anyone suffer from sleep paralysis? If so, what has been your scariest spell? Being a person who gets it, it would be interesting to hear from other people who have it also.

    I'm fkin plagued by it.Have been for years,kinda have a handle on it now thank god.Its terrifying.Hope it improves for you mate


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 408 ✭✭certifiedcrepe


    I get it most nights and have had it regularly the past 2 years along with night terrors. Pretty frightening if it happens once off but with so many occurrences it can drain your energy during the day and keep you up all night. You don't want to sleep because it'll happen again so you stay up until you pass out from exhaustion.

    In my night terrors I've seen everything from men raping me to seeing the people I love dying in front of me. Sleep paralysis is also terrifying in its own way, sometimes I see things, sometimes I don't. When I do it's usually men in suits leaning over me or a very old woman in the corner of my room looking at me.

    I don't recommend it :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,814 ✭✭✭harry Bailey esq


    or a very old woman

    That's whats reffered to as 'the old hag' very common with sleep paralysis.Total brainfcuk.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,750 ✭✭✭john the one


    Every damn night unless I'm pissed drunk. Usually within the first hour of sleep. Its either somebody standing over me or the baby falling and I need to try catch her. It takes it out of me!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,077 ✭✭✭Saralee4


    I just made a post about this in paranormal forum yesterday :)

    The reason I put it in paranormal is because when I get this, there's always an evil presence usually an evil kid in the dream and I somehow get lifted to the ceiling. It's so scary when it happens. Creeps me out for days.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 837 ✭✭✭blackwave


    Haven't had one in ages thankfully but thevworst one was in college think it was after rag week and I was staying in my house in college. Anyway woke up with a feeling of dread and couldn't move. I moved my eyes to the door of the room and there was a guy there sitting down with his face covered. He then ran at me with a knife. Not the most nicest experience now.I tend to get it when I have been heavy on the beer a few days and then sleeping with a hangover.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 248 ✭✭LucidLife


    Somebody mentioned being brought to the ceiling. An outer body experience. That's what happened you. Your body is powerless not your mind. If you put every ounce of strength you can muster into moving you will release yourself kind of. Its a safety net of sorts and proves one can transend. You will be able watch the terror and your paralysed self from a up above. Do this once and your perspective of possibilities changes forever.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,872 ✭✭✭strobe


    LucidLife wrote: »
    Somebody mentioned being brought to the ceiling. An outer body experience. That's what happened you. Your body is powerless not your mind. If you put every ounce of strength you can muster into moving you will release yourself kind of. Its a safety net of sorts and proves one can transend. You will be able watch the terror and your paralysed self from a up above. Do this once and your perspective of possibilities changes forever.

    Or to put it another way, lay off the ecstacy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,929 ✭✭✭✭ShadowHearth


    Holy crap, it's actually a real thing. I had a few of those before and I just though it was completely fecked up dream.
    Last time I had it, I woke up and could not move a bit. My dog was barking like crazy, like someone was in the room. Creepiest fecking thing ever.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,235 ✭✭✭✭Cee-Jay-Cee


    Used to happen to me years ago but thankfully not recently. The worst was I woke and a small Chinese guy was creeping into my room (my landlord was Chinese at the time and had a habit of just arriving unannounced in the house) anyway I couldn't move and was trying to roar at him but couldn't, I was absolutely terror stricken and it lasted maybe 30 seconds. I'm not sure how I snapped out of it. The last few times it happened I knew what it was and told myself just to relax and go back to sleep and then wake again normally...worked each time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    Is it when you're lying in bed in an inert lump without the ability to move, feeling an overwhelming sense of terror while an older person, shouting, tries in vain to drag you out of the bed?

    I suffered terribly from it Monday-Friday all the way though school.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,575 ✭✭✭ZiabR


    Holy crap, it's actually a real thing. I had a few of those before and I just though it was completely fecked up dream.
    Last time I had it, I woke up and could not move a bit. My dog was barking like crazy, like someone was in the room. Creepiest fecking thing ever.

    Maybe someone was in the room... everyone that has this experience always feels like there is something or someone in the room with them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    ChewyLewy wrote: »
    Sometimes get it the day after going on the beer. Scary stuff . Mentally I'm awake but then I just can't move my body.

    Are you actually awake though?

    I used to get it sometimes but not for years now.

    You are 'awake' and trying to move and call out (to your partner or when you were a kid, to your parents) but you can't move or speak and you start to panic.

    Always assumed that it's just a vivid dream: you're not actually awake and you actually 'wake' when you snap out of it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,893 ✭✭✭Canis Lupus


    LucidLife wrote: »
    Somebody mentioned being brought to the ceiling. An outer body experience. That's what happened you. Your body is powerless not your mind. If you put every ounce of strength you can muster into moving you will release yourself kind of. Its a safety net of sorts and proves one can transend. You will be able watch the terror and your paralysed self from a up above. Do this once and your perspective of possibilities changes forever.

    Get a friend to put a mystery object on a shelf that you can't see in normal day to day activity. Wait till you have an out of body experience and then come back and report what the object was as you look down from above.

    (pro tip): You won't be able to do it because you're talking rubbish.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,562 ✭✭✭✭Sunnyisland


    It's a long time since it happened to me,

    I also have fell from a high cliff/building and can feel myself falling and falling and just before I hit the ground I wake up. Strange feeling.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    My scariest spell was about two weeks after my dad passed away. My dad had cancer, and I associate really hollow cheek bones with cancer now. When I think back on how my dad looked this time last year I'm looking at cancer, not at my dad. Annnnyway,

    This night I was having this really scary dream. That this old lady, wild hair, wide eyes, that waxy skin.. And those hollow cheeks, well she grabbed me, and she was hugging me so tight, so tight that I couldn't even breath. I woke up in a panic, but I couldn't move, I still couldn't breathe, and it felt like she was still squeezing me tight. I wanted to scream and couldn't even scream.

    I had absolutely no idea what was happening. It's happened a few times since but doesn't frighten me as much anymore but since that happened I'm very bad at sleeping, haven't really felt safe asleep since and I know how stupid and ridiculous that sounds


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,077 ✭✭✭Saralee4


    Get a friend to put a mystery object on a shelf that you can't see in normal day to day activity. Wait till you have an out of body experience and then come back and report what the object was as you look down from above.

    (pro tip): You won't be able to do it because you're talking rubbish.

    you can't decide when it's going to happen so the mystery object wouldn't work.

    When it happened me it felt like I was being pulled to the ceiling. It happened only about 3 or 4 times in my life. I don't have the ability to turn around and look back at the bed to see if my body is there.

    I just read up on it and it is a common thing in sleep paralysis but the experience is exactly the same as people have when they have an out of body near death experience. Something to do with waking up mid REM.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,346 ✭✭✭King George VI


    I experience this almost every night. I've learned to accept it and let it run it's course. It's gotten to the point that I can control it. Before I learned to do this it was scary as ****. Normally I go through periods of about 3 months getting them every night, then a month or so SP free, then 3 month cycle starts again.

    From my post in the sleeping and dreaming forum:
    I sleep on my belly with my face pointing to the left or right. I was having alot of weird dreams (one involved me going into the kitchen for a snack and all I found was broken pieces of Easter eggs HAH... but that's a story for a different day). Anyway when I "woke" from the dream I felt the familiar sensation of the skin on my face being sucked off, I felt an evil presence in the room and everything was kind of... blurry. My face was pointing towards my girlfriend who was fast asleep next to me. As with sleep paralysis I couldn't move a muscle so I tried to shake my hand and breath heavily to try wake her but to no avail. Then (and this freaked me the **** out) she suddenly sat up and turned her head to me. As it was dark and blurry I assumed it was her anyway. She stared at me for a minute or so then really quickly crawled off the bed out of my view and as she crawled out of view she kind of resembled a demon like creature/incubus type thing. She was gone for a minute and then I felt her crawl onto my back which made my breathing really difficult. I tried to scream and rock back and forth, all the while my breathing was getting increasingly heavier and after a minute or so of this I woke up.

    Out of breath and exhausted, I looked over and there was my girlfriend looking at me asking me did I just have a seizure. I sat up in bed for a minute and after I gathered my thoughts I laid my head back down on the pillow. Literally within a minute it started happening again. Blurry room, unable to move, that face suction **** going on. I was like "Jesus!! Not again". I was able to snap out of it the second time and finally fall back asleep.

    It's a scary occurrence but it's totally harmless. It's caused by messed up sleeping patterns, medication, caffeine, stress... etc...

    Read the wikipedia page. It helps you understand it a bit better. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_paralysis
    __________________

    One strange thing though, it ALWAYS happens when fall asleep with a body part sticking out of the duvet.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,893 ✭✭✭Canis Lupus


    Saralee4 wrote: »

    I just read up on it and it is a common thing in sleep paralysis but the experience is exactly the same as people have when they have an out of body near death experience. Something to do with waking up mid REM.

    Yeah, it's called dreaming.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 248 ✭✭LucidLife


    Get a friend to put a mystery object on a shelf that you can't see in normal day to day activity. Wait till you have an out of body experience and then come back and report what the object was as you look down from above.

    (pro tip): You won't be able to do it because you're talking rubbish.

    You sir are wrong. It has been proven. Do a bit of research lol


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,618 ✭✭✭Mr Freeze


    Tis a scary experience.

    The first time it happened to me, it was quite bad and I was 100% positive what was happening was real.

    I was lying in bed and thought I was awake and noticed there was something behind me, pressing against my back.

    It my head, I thought it was a giant snake or it was a demon or devil or something and that all it was going to wrap itself around me and eat me and drag me to hell. To say I was panicking like never before would be an understatement.

    I couldn't move a muscle and I didn't know why, and I just lay there terrified.
    I don't remember waking up, I was in same position when I did wake and was able to move.

    I thought it was the most real feeling dream I ever had.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 248 ✭✭LucidLife


    strobe wrote: »
    Or to put it another way, lay off the ecstacy.

    I don't take it.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,077 ✭✭✭Saralee4


    Yeah, it's called dreaming.

    No it's a transitional experience between wakefulness and sleep. It is medically recognised.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,893 ✭✭✭Canis Lupus


    LucidLife wrote: »
    You sir are wrong. It has been proven. Do a bit of research lol

    I'll await the links to this peer reviewed research...

    I'll be waiting a while I imagine as well...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 248 ✭✭LucidLife


    I'll await the links to this peer reviewed research...

    I'll be waiting a while I imagine as well...

    You will be if you expect me to enlighten you. I don't care up or down what your mind perceives about anything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,726 ✭✭✭✭noodler


    tim3000 wrote: »
    When I work nights I sometimes sleeping tablets to get some sleep during the day. I only get it when I take them. The last time I got it was the worst yet, goose-flesh, the horrible sensation of not being able to move and the feeling that something was sliding the blankets off me and sliding itself into the bed beside me. Miserable experience.

    Exactly right.

    Usually it feels like a massive gust of wind coming from nowhere is blowing my duvet covers off leaving me exposed.

    I only remember seeing somebody once but they walked past the bed and wouldn't look at me.

    1) Frozen - (can still see)
    2) Can't scream or make any noise no matter how hard I try
    3) Duvet flying off me due to wind (although it actually isn't).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,726 ✭✭✭✭noodler


    noodler wrote: »
    3) Duvet flying off me due to wind (although it actually isn't).

    I ought to get that looked at!

    Am I rite?

    AM I RITE?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,893 ✭✭✭Canis Lupus


    LucidLife wrote: »
    You will be if you expect me to enlighten you. I don't care up or down what your mind perceives about anything.

    You could just have said no such research exists that proves it....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,893 ✭✭✭Canis Lupus


    Saralee4 wrote: »
    No it's a transitional experience between wakefulness and sleep. It is medically recognised.

    Oh I know sleep paralysis is recognised but then as you can read in this thread people have horrible stories to recount about sleep paralysis. One person thought she was being raped! Obviously they were all dreaming and yet you, when you float out of your body, apparently are not despite it being the obvious cause of the 'experience'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 248 ✭✭LucidLife


    Oh I know sleep paralysis is recognised but then as you can read in this thread people have horrible stories to recount about sleep paralysis. One person thought she was being raped! Obviously they were all dreaming and yet you, when you float out of your body, apparently are not despite it being the obvious cause of the 'experience'.

    Your ignorance is my bliss


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    When I was a teenager for a while my bedroom was the attic. When sleeping in there I used to get sleep paralysis all the time. The scariest one was when I felt it happening again, managed to scream for my mum who came upstairs, opened my bedroom door and stood over me. I said, "Mum, it's happening again," and she did nothing to help but just went downstairs again. When it finally wore off I got out of bed, went downstairs to complain, and my mum said she hadn't been up at all. The hallucination was so real I thought she'd really come up. That was when I realised that my bedroom door had been locked from the inside, she couldn't have come in. I had one where two strange men were in my room, sitting on my bed, looking at me and talking about me. They were really scary and sinister and even though I knew it was a hallucination, I was terrified. I had a horrible one once where on my bedroom wall I could see a scene of the beach and cliffs down the road from my house. In the sleep paralysis it looked and felt like I was repeatedly climbing up the cliff and jumping down onto the beach, over and over again. I also used to have one where I could see an evil figure by the window of my bedroom. Later I moved to a different bedroom and my sister got the attic. Now my sleep paralysis ended and hers began. She used to see the same figure by the window that I had seen.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 248 ✭✭LucidLife


    When I was a teenager for a while my bedroom was the attic. When sleeping in there I used to get sleep paralysis all the time. The scariest one was when I felt it happening again, managed to scream for my mum who came upstairs, opened my bedroom door and stood over me. I said, "Mum, it's happening again," and she did nothing to help but just went downstairs again. When it finally wore off I got out of bed, went downstairs to complain, and my mum said she hadn't been up at all. The hallucination was so real I thought she'd really come up. That was when I realised that my bedroom door had been locked from the inside, she couldn't have come in. I had one where two strange men were in my room, sitting on my bed, looking at me and talking about me. They were really scary and sinister and even though I knew it was a hallucination, I was terrified. I had a horrible one once where on my bedroom wall I could see a scene of the beach and cliffs down the road from my house. In the sleep paralysis it looked and felt like I was repeatedly climbing up the cliff and jumping down onto the beach, over and over again. I also used to have one where I could see an evil figure by the window of my bedroom. Later I moved to a different bedroom and my sister got the attic. Now my sleep paralysis ended and hers began. She used to see the same figure by the window that I had seen.

    Ouch thats a rough run. Do you remember anything the two men said or do you try and ignore them memories? The one with your mum was a lucid nightmare sounds like which aint fun.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    LucidLife wrote: »
    Ouch thats a rough run. Do you remember anything the two men said or do you try and ignore them memories? The one with your mum was a lucid nightmare sounds like which aint fun.

    I couldn't actually make out what the men were saying but they were looking at me while talking and there was a really sinister feel about it, I just knew they were making plans to do something to me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,726 ✭✭✭✭noodler


    I couldn't actually make out what the men were saying but they were looking at me while talking and there was a really sinister feel about it, I just knew they were making plans to do something to me.


    ..a makeover?

    Bastards.


    EDIT: By the way, this thread has huge potential. Similar to that "most unerving thing that has ever happened to you" thread from a few Xmas ago.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    noodler wrote: »
    ..a makeover?

    Haha no. I felt that they were planning to rape and kill me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,115 ✭✭✭asteroids over berlin


    used to get it after going for a couple of beers then staying up until 8 - 9am playing poker (cash games) in a casino. usually walking out with a nice wad of cash, however the paralysis was quite fcuked up, in my case, it was a sign it wasn't a good thing for my health, so I knocked the poker on the head. Play the odd tournament now, which I suck balls at! hmmmmm


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,491 ✭✭✭thebostoncrab


    Only happened once to myself. I woke up with the same feeling of dredd and fear that others are describing. I couldn't move, and I couldn't make any noise (It was like I couldn't catch my breath). All the while the bedroom door was being knocked at so violently that it looked like it was bouncing against the hinges. After about a minute of this it suddenly all stopped and I just shot up like a dart. It was terrifying and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone!


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